The recent "misandry" posts/comments were like flypaper, weren't they?
The recent "misandry" posts/comments were like flypaper, weren't they?
I haven't seen this kind of scratched liberalism since the outrage against account pronoun preferences years back.
Maybe "struggle session" is the wrong term because there's a clear and obvious side for comrades and another for scratched liberals.
Maybe Hexbear needs occasional flypaper sessions for the community's health.
Knowing from experience, we'd get the same kind of bullshit if we made posts revolving around "anti-white racism" as well.
Being cautious of white people is absolutely the right attitude. I have white skin, and too many times have I been talking to some white guy who I thought was fairly reasonable until they hit me with some
shit and assume I'll agree because I'm a straight-passing white guy.I 100% don't blame anyone who's sus of me because of my skin
This is the way.
100% my same experience
I pass as white-ish (my ancestry is complicated) and Silicon Valley techbros often mistook me for someone that wanted to hear their "soft eugenics" arguments and the like.
and assume I'll agree because I'm a straight-passing white guy.
It’s crazy just how true this is. And this is especially so when you’re a very generic NPC-looking white guy to boot. Nearly all chuds just assume if you look like them you think like them. It’s like, hey, you’re a white guy so you get tons of privilege, why would you ever want that to end?
Critical support for flypaper posting about that, then. Scratched liberals catching bans improves Hexbear.
I'm trying to remember the name of a multiplayer game that supposedly did their own flypaper test a few years back. Allegedly they had a right-wing dogwhistle as one of their preset report-abusive-user reasons. But instead of banning players that reason was used against, it was used to build up a database of players who frequently abused the report-user function and used that specific reason frequently - and they got the ban en masse. This is only half-remembered from some /r/technology post I read a few years back so it may not have happened at all. But if it really did, I'd love to know the name of the game.
100% we would. (And damn I forgot how hard we were going off in that thread, but Erika most of all.)
I feel like the misogyny really tends to come out most whenever there's a discussion around cishet dating, which is interesting. Cishet dating seems like a mess, but I think it's something that goes unexamined maybe because of how personal it is to those involved.
We can only hope that the straights and cissies will be okay one day.
I feel like the misogyny really tends to come out most whenever there's a discussion around cishet dating, which is interesting. Cishet dating seems like a mess, but I think it's something that goes unexamined maybe because of how personal it is to those involved.
I'm not sure how familiar you are with the "bro code" but a lot of the so-called rules that dudebros put out from it reek of ruinously relationship-sabotaging indoctrination. One of the most glaring examples is the edict that infidelity is something that bros are never supposed to disclose to the girlfriends or spouses of other bros, even after bros brag about it with each other and even encourage such behavior.
Paradoxically, one of the most common cliches of the "bro code" is "never trust a woman."
Cishet dating threads are uninteresting to queer people so I think the cishet brainworms can spread mostly unchallenged in there
Okay I love the term "flypaper session". Seconding the motion to both keep that nomenclature and to deploy these sessions every so often. I feel these could be teachable moments.
Purge early and often
The Purge Election Year
The forever purge (2021)
I love when I don't log on for a couple days and I can sit out the latest struggle session
A hot new takeaway for me from this is that while "I haven't seen a lot of misogyny on this site" may just indicate a professional
, it may also indicate a fly for the flypaper.I haven't seen enough misandry on this site
In my case, I touch grass but I'm kinda dense so sometimes lib brain rot goes over my head until later.
That's quite an insight.
The blessedly ignorant and the willfully ignorant.
I’m not gonna lie, I’m like three seconds from leaving this site forever over this bullshit. It’s getting old. I don’t care if it was useful as a trap or whatever. It shows that we still have shitheads in the walls; All of it makes me uncomfortable. Just fucking take care of this shit without exposing me to the nonsense.
I am guardedly hopeful that so many scratched liberals got banned recently over this.
The site improved quite a bit when the pronoun wars did the same thing.
More permabans...
quickly, publicly demand people not to make fun of (otherkin/furries/special interests) and ban everyone who complains. I wonder how many flys that'll catch
You get rid of misogynists by purging them and/or by making them do self crit. No space is naturally racist/sexist/misogynist free.
No shit.
The post about the planned action for the misogyny was just an announcement post, some mods did mention making honeypot posts to catch misogynists but the banned users pretty much just decided to go mask off at any mention of misogyny after that post
you know what this current purge reminds me of? the downvote struggle session which led to the transphobe purge, it started normal we some small mod action to get the people downvoting trans posts to stop and then led to a bunch of people going mask off transphobic and admins doing a big purge
overall i think its a good idea, and like the great transphobe purge made the site culture better i think this one will have the same results
I think I have missed every single creepy relationship/incel struggle session because I was doing yard work. This is a great motivator to continue doing yard work so I can continue not seeing creepy incel shit on my leftist social media website. Or at least see them after the mods have already banned all the incels.
I missed most of it too, but then I looked into modlogs.
Wait, did I miss a purge?
there was a post about misandry and it smelled of bullshit and i didnt read further. apparently it was a hoot.
i think that's what happened.
Please read the thread, especially AcidSmileys top comment. This isn't a 'haha hexbear turns anything into a struggle sesh' struggle but a struggle session in the legitimate sense of okay, a significant portion of the user base should reflect and self crit. Afaict the mods didn't intend for it to be first and foremost a flashpoint for people to tell on themselves but that's how it's ended up
I missed something, what happened? Were Hexbears not being cool commies? Being cool is like the number one rule of being a leftie internet dork. Ya gotta be cool.
A bunch of
popped up and a number of male liberals expressed how scratched they were about feeemales in cishet relationships they were until they were consequently modded into the gulag.Damn that sucks. There tons of ways of talk about negative experiences and stuff without being a lib, shame they did not. Bummer.
noo i missed a misandry post i need to find how bad the site is outside the news mega...
The modlog in traaaaaaaaaaaa shows some of it.
people often either can't or won't understand; it's about systems, not individuals.