It's kind of funny in a way but in my life I've had at least 5 men confused by how I'm "not gay."
I don't fit any stereotype so I haven't the slightest idea what makes people think that. I even had one creep that would come into the store I worked at years ago and ask "have they converted you yet?" (Both the managers were gay.)
I've quite literally never received any attention like that from women in my life.... I wish I was gay! I'd apparently have a much easier time instead of being single for the last almost decade now lol
I understand the whole "I can't simply change who I am" but from the opposite end. I'm cis and straight, there's nothing I can "change" to no be grossed out by the idea of sleeping with another man lol I even tried watching gay porn when I was 19-20ish just to see and yeah... Nope. Not my jam, which is kinda funny since I love asses, just not man ass lol
This is gonna sound like a #humblebrag but same. I've had drunken gay dudes thank me for existing because they found me that attractive. I know a decent amount of women find me attractive but it's nowhere near the same degree.
My wife is highly amused by it, but it's like damn, I'd be absolutely killing it if I was at all into dudes.
I'm bi or pan or something along those lines and I don't fit stereotypes either. When I came out to people at 17, the usual reaction was disbelief then followed up by questioning (being asked how did I know?) basically people were asking how sexually active I was. So now I wear pride bracelets or necklaces to show people I am out and proud.
I love this community, I could have sworn this comment would have received at least some backlash. Love love love you guys! Keep searching like me, true love will find you in the end! And it’s already here, in you and around you!
I'm furry in a way that's similar to trans, but it has nothing to do with my gender, though there is a lot of relatable overlaps concerning inward identity vs outward appearance.