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How many times a day do you feed your cat

Hi all, I'm kind of confused on this. My cat eats very slowly all day long. She'd go to her food bowl constantly throughout the day for a couple of bites and then back to whatever she does. I think we spoil her by making her food available at all times, my wife doesn't think so. She throws up here and there and I'm thinking because she eats too much. So, my question to you all is, how often do you feed your cat? Do you fill its bowl all day like me? Do you have specific times of the day where you give them a certain amount each time and nothing in between? I'm leaning towards doing the latter. Give her, let's say, half a cup in the morning and let her munch on it as much as she wants and the other half in the evening and nothing in between. She freaks out when her bowl is empty and starts crying and acting like she's about to die of starvation. Give her food, then she takes one bite and leaves. Bro, wtf. Lol. So any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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  • Some cats have better control than others. I can't give mine food for the entire day as one will just gobble everything up until she pukes.

    So they get fed three times a day. Basically their daily food intake distributed in equal portions throughout the day.

    She throws up here and there

    How often is here and there? It might be an underlying health issue if this happens a lot.

    • Probably once a week? Every 10 days? I checked it and there was no worms because I was worried about that. It was watery, though. She seems very much fine to me. Still plays and does her thing. Also, she's a 9 year old cat. That can be a factor, too.
      Edit: she's also one of those that shed a ton of hair. Her shedding is just insane.

      • A few times a month is not out of the ordinary. As long as she has access to fresh water she might just be a bit dramatic!

        If you suspect anything, getting her checked out at the vet is still recommended. Cats are experts at hiding illnesses, so it's hard to gauge how they are feeling.

        Aside from that, I don't think you need to change anything if nothing is out of the ordinary. Some cats are drama queens, just the way it is.

  • It might differ depending on the cat’s personality, but I feed my cat a full serving once a day in the morning, and that’s it. He nibbles on it throughout the day whenever he wants, and by the next morning the bowl is empty. No whining or begging, thankfully, since he does a surprisingly good job of pacing himself.

    He’s pretty old now, so we’ve got a good routine going, but I know some cats just won’t accept this and need their meals to be separate and eaten in one sitting.

    • Thank you. By full serving, what do you mean? Do you have a measurement or just a random cup you have at home that you use?

      • It took a few years to fine-tune the exact amount, sometimes he’d finish the bowl too early and whine the next morning, sometimes there’d be too much leftover and he’d whine because he wanted a fresh bowl. I finally landed on the exact amount where he always has enough when he wants it, but there’s never any extra. It’s second nature by now so I don’t remember the exact amount, but it’s somewhere just over half a cup of dry food.

  • My cat is good and eats only what she needs. She always has a bowl full of her regular food. We've been like this for almost 10 years now.

    It all kind of depends on the cat and how they handle the buffet always being open.

  • My old cat used to eat only what she needed throughout the day. Only dry food.

    My new kitties are trash cans. Everything eatable goes in. I feed them twice a day, dry food, only the recommended amount as stated on the food package and as recommended by the vet.

    The vet said it's easier to keep them at a decent weight then to have to put them on a diet.

    When your cat eats whenever she wants food, I think you should be fine with feeding her once a day. But make sure you only feed her enough for her weight and age. The website of the food brand should list a recommended amount, otherwise ask your vet.

    When she's an adult (1 year and older or 6 months and older when castrated) it's recommended to feed her adult food, only dry food, it's better for their teeth.

    Never feed your cat milk, cats are lactose intolerant.

    When she throws up on a daily basis, go to a vet. This isn't normal, she might be ill. Make sure you have cat grass for her, they need grass to help throw up, when they have a hairball for instance. Always make sure she has fresh water access.

    Make sure your cat won't become obese. Animal obesity is animal abuse. Next to them having a terrible life, they will get sick much faster and their life much shorter, which is not only sad, also expensive.

  • I've always had cats in the house, even as a kid. Our family has pretty much always followed the "They get breakfast when we get breakfast, and dinner at dinner time" so that's when they get a portion of "wet" food, with dry/crunchy available to "free feed" on throughout the day if they get snackish as well as a few different sources of water.

    While that can lead to cats being overweight, we generally let the cats outdoors or now more recently, give them free reign of the house and attached garage. The garage is basically just a building shell, so critters like rodents and birds can still come in which in turn gives the cats something to do and keeps them active which is the key. As long as they're burning off the extra calories and maintaining a healthy weight, the "how" becomes somewhat irrelevant.

    The general advice that seems to be prevalent though is to intentionally restrict their diets a bit to keep them at a healthy weight. So the "free feed" idea may not be the best advice.

    • That makes a lot of sense. Thank you. She's a 100% indoor cat. Also, she's older now, 9 years old. So, I guess it's good that I'm trying not to free feed her all day so she can be healthy. She IS overweight for sure.

  • I give my cat (an adult female, about 10yo) two pouches of wet food a day, plus keeping a dry food bowl topped up (i.e. enough that the bottom isn’t visible). She sometimes eats the lot, and sometimes leaves up to a third of a serving, which is then discarded.

  • We have two very different cats.

    #1 is fed two wet pouches a day and as much dry food as he pleases. Weight is healthy and stable. Though he does beg loudly in-between meals.

    #2 exclusively eats dry food and will not touch wet. Probably a good thing, as she is overweight and now on a diet. Doesn't beg so much, but will take any opportunity to eat if given.

    Water always available, but #2 prefers moving water.

    The people of the house both work full time, so meals tend to be twice a day - morning and evening.

  • Our cats have always been fed raw and they get fed twice a day. One of our cats, the vet said he was "the most beautiful specimen I ever seen". He's just a basic tabby (rescue) but does indeed have the most glorious fur. Our failed foster's pervious owner fed her an expensive fancy diet but kibble and we thought she had coarse fur. After months with us on raw, she also has gloriously soft fur and what we thought was psychological urination issues also cleared up.

  • All cats I've had have been lucky enough that free feeding is an option and they don't gorge. So we just fill the bowl up when it's empty, and water is kept fresh everyday. Thinking of getting a running water fountain to encourage more liquids though.

  • Luckily the 2 cats I live with right now are free feeders. They WILL let you know if they can see any part of the bottom of their food bowl or if their water is empty or has a speck of fluff in it, but other than that they are very chill cats in terms of feeding.

    My mom's cats growing up were basically raised as dogs so they would beg and pull human food off the table if you aren't looking. Any open glass of liquid would immediately have a cat paw inside it the microsecond you turned around. They would also eat the dog food and chew on the plants. Real shitheads. But we loved em.

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