She's at least 15 now, and can't make it to the box.
She's at least 15 now, and can't make it to the box.
My elderly relative is already growing frustrated with her. He suggested putting her outside again.
Your elderly relative is a piece of shit. Put him outside.
Edit: Also, take the cat to a vet and start thinking about end of life care for this sweet kitty and whether you want to lift a finger for your relative once he's in a similar position.
and whether you want to lift a finger for your relative once he's in a similar position.
Seconded on all counts, especially this one
There is value to having the conversation about "holding on for too long". But...
But, "euthanasia vs palliative care" is a conversation that must be between you (the owner) and your vet
It's possible that there are other, addressable reasons for being unable to make it to the litter box, and a vet visit is necessary to identify and address these issues
As well, it's possible that it is indeed "time". A conversation with the vet is best
Just went through this twice in the last year with a 17, and then a 20+ year old kittie, both well-loved companions. Those last months are the hard ones, but they need us more, not less. To cut them off from us in their waning days is to spare ourselves the pain of impending loss, all at the expense of their dignity and comfort.
Gosh if only a person in his position could appreciate the need for compassion towards the elderly.
The funny part is, she has been desperately trying to sit in his lap when I’m gone, during the day. I think he would miss her if she was out outside.
I don't normally wish ill on people and I have a passion for geriatrics but if your relative broke a knee I think they would be better off for it. A hard lesson in compassion, vulnerability and support for the disabled is a long time coming for them. If they can't recognize their sick pet of 15 years crying out for help and support then they deserve to feel exactly like that poor cat. Alone, afraid, and incapable
I don't like your relative. Providing comfortable care of elderly and end of life pets is to be expected when you adopt an animal, even if it is difficult.
Your relation is being callous.
My tip for elderly incontinence is make a designated area (I use thick plastic like a tablecloth cover to protect the floor) and line it with Puppy Pads/ mats.
Also if you get an oil drip tray from an auto shop you can put kitty litter in it and the cat doesn't have to step over anything to use it.
Also if you get an oil drip tray from an auto shop you can put kitty litter in it and the cat doesn’t have to step over anything to use it.
This is what my parents always did. Works perfectly fine, just need to clean it daily or twice daily.
Poor kitty. Reminds me of my old cat. She made it to 22 years old. She could make it to the litter box, but preferred to go around the litter box. She looked ver much the same shape as yours. Didnt groom herself anymore, so we had to help her out.
😢 Had to do the same with my cat George a few years ago. Need yo open a window now, I think someone is cutting onions in this room.
It’s sort of the same situation, or at least it was until yesterday. Yesterday she started pooping in the hallways.
Maybe you should put him outside in a few years when he needs help.
It is truly a case of the elderly vs. the elderly.
Poor girl. Please give her lots of pets, love, and treats for us. It's always tough seeing your companion struggling. <3
Put him outside instead.
Hahaha!
Maybe take her to a groomer and setup puppy mats in common places
I recently bathed her and clipped her fur, but I’m not a professional. I just worry that if she is under stress by being transported to a groomer, and around strangers, she might have a heart attack.
Dont do that, please. My 17 years old siamese kiki was taken away from me by renal disease 5 months ago. The last 4 months were terrible. She was blind and barely made it to the box. My mother was the worst at that time and was looking for excuses to put her down. She also refused to have multiple boxes or anything that could have made my cat's life easier. (Sorry, im just venting, but fuck my psycopath mother, freaking loony).
I'm in peace knowing that i and my brothers did everything we could to make kiki feel loved to the last minute.
Very beautiful.
Shoot her in the face then run for vice president.