How are you doing?
How are you doing?
Hi! Posting from piefed since they have a scheduled posting system. I may not respond to everyone, but rest assured I do read all your comments :)
I hope you had/have a good week!
How are you doing?
Hi! Posting from piefed since they have a scheduled posting system. I may not respond to everyone, but rest assured I do read all your comments :)
I hope you had/have a good week!
The US that I live in is going to shit no one is doing anything no one WANTS to do anything. It won't collapse it will just get worse and worse until there are no rights left... At this point I'm trying to come to terms with what it's like to live here now
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I just got back from spending the night out with my best friend who is also another friendās girlfriend and Iām super conflicted. Itās a real mess of a situation and Iāll likely be thinking about it obsessively for a while. The rest of my life is also a big mess, but Iām trying not to think about that.
Tricky situation indeed. Itās worth exploring your feelings before you find yourself going mad over it anyway. At least thatās what happened to me, your mileage may vary. What helped for me was journaling and then eventually therapy which has been extremely helpful
Good tips, but I have a therapist and weāve been going out to bars and stuff multiple times a week for two years. Iāve really had too much time to think about it. The going crazy part is that theyāre looking like theyāre gonna break up soon and Iām worried Iāll be blamed despite not crossing any lines. Iām a serial over-thinker so Iām no good at stopping.
I'm ok bit flat but ok. Gonna watch some Andor that'll help
lost my jobs, but now have free time
Poorly.
Terrible.
Haven't been anywhere in ages, sort of interested in a medieval fair, but feeling sick and I don't want go alone. But if I don't go, I'll also get depressed for not going.
But I can't fucking do anything.
That feeling is such a vicious cycle! Donāt wanna go out cause I feel lousy, and I feel lousy cause I never go out. Add other factors to the mix and itās a perfect storm. Iāve found that the first step out the door is the hardest but every step after that Iām grateful for. If you get in your head too much while youāre out and about, just pause and look at the tops of the trees swaying in the wind. That always helps me stay present and reminds me to enjoy the little things.
I was just thinking I was feeling like shit and then stumbled upon this post. Curious..
I've been voice training by myself for a couple days now, I'm a cis man but I like the way my voice sounds when I raise the pitch a bit. I'm a bit worried that my new voice doesn't really sound all that different from my old one and I'm just imagining things. I've been taking voice recordings to like compare them but it still sounds like I'm faking the new one. I also feel kind of lonely, cause I'm not sure if I know anybody I can safely practice with, like I know have friends who'd probably be supportive but I'm not entirely sure how to bring it up and my family's a total no-go. So like yeah, that's it pretty much
This week felt so long, Iām glad itās the weekend and have donāt have plans.
My sleep has been kinda fucked work was a slog this week.
Finally got a deep sleep of 10 hours last night plus an hour long nap yesterday. Feeling so much better, I think my sleep schedule is going back to normal.
I finally got to see a band Iāve wanted to see play for over 10 years and it was so much fun, it was incredible
I have a one and a half year old whoās cute as a button. Heās always fun to play toys with and read books to. Fortunately Iām getting more adjusted to his occasional bouts where he screams for fun. Navigating the load of chores with my wife has been more challenging than expected but weāre working through it
I'm doing okay! I'm definitely feeling emotionally burnt out this evening, but I couldn't tell you exactly why. š However, I ate some ice cream, and I'm going to read fanfiction.
Have a good week too!
What ice cream did you have?