Daily Discussion Thread: 🐕🐎 Wednesday, September 11, 2024
Daily Discussion Thread: 🐕🐎 Wednesday, September 11, 2024
Daily Discussion Thread: 🐕🐎 Wednesday, September 11, 2024
I know I'm not built to have kids, when I see them on the train and feel a visceral disgust for them, their disrespect, and their immature brains. I'm sure they will grow up to be fine, but kids are so disrespectful on PT.
Kudos to anyone who has raised/is raising kids, but that clusterfuck ain't for me.
Edit: thinking about it, it may be due to the intense, abusive bullying I was subject to in school, and now I entirely distrust every child over 10 and under 18. Hm. Trauma is certainly pervasive in my life and affects my attitude.
Controversial take, but I hold so much space for kids in that age range. Being a teen/tween fucking sucks. School (feels at the time like it) sucks. Puberty sucks. Bullying sucks. Coming from a poor family or shitty home dynamic sucks. Not sleeping properly and getting up early for public transport to school sucks.
So, fuck yeah, do your TikTok dances, listen to music on speakerphone, drink your huge Slurpee, and take up a seat instead of giving it up to an adult that has probably sat on a wheelie chair all day. Just do your best.
I do agree with this, the world is shit and the kids will cop the brunt of it when we're dead. I love their silly trends and dances tbh. Have fun in the dark world.
I think it's a me problem 100%. On some level possibly resentful(?) because they're generally in groups of friends, which I lacked. But it's not their fault, and I know better than to lose my shit when I realise my feelings are my own, and that I'm just making generalisations about persons I don't know.
I think I have the same initial reaction due to bullying, with a particular distaste for teenage girls. But I can attest to the fact that not all kids are disrespectful on PT. Last time I went into the CBD on a train I got on at the same time as a group of school boys. I was prepared for noise and rumbunctiousness, but instead got to over hear them earnestly discussing how to determine when the train had reached the appropriate level of crowding that they should stand up and leave their seats for adults to sit down 🤣
That's so good. 😂😂😂 That gave me a proper chuckle hahah
And yeah I think it's just my initial reaction but my second thought is that they're fine/most kids are good. I hate when they run in front of me, but also I remember being that age and either not having awareness of my surroundings or feeling particularly rebellious.
I feel pretty much the same, despite the fact I'm still a child. There's honestly a little bit of fear every time a large group gets on my bus/train/tram, and I avoid travelling at school times when at all possible. A group of two dozen 12 years olds vaping and trying to start a brawl on a bus is not fun
On a similar note, I did not use the school toilets a single time between grades 3 and year 10. Fucking traumatic, and a large part of the reason I seek out unisex/single person toilets with proper walls, or a quieter one with multiple stalls when possible
School bathrooms were utterly atrocious in the 2000s, and they still are.
When I was a kid, I intensely disliked being around other kids. School was fucked, the only people i liked were the teachers. The kids didn't like me either, and I think latched on to any visual oddity to bully me, but I think they knew I was different. Not special or anything, but had experienced trauma in ways they had not, and I was different bc of that.
It took me 20 years to understand why I hated going to Nan and Pops (mum's parents. Thanks repressed memories), and bc that trauma happened so young, I knew things other kids didn't.
Like I said, I'm not special or superior bc of trauma. But it does change a child. There's something about traumatised children that is obvious to other kids, but they cannot articulate it.
Bathrooms are the worst. I want to throw up with anxiety when I have to use the flinders bathrooms. And pub bathrooms scare me as well.
Google Photos showed me a photo of my dog eating a stick from four years ago.
Stick never stood a chance against a ferocious beast like that.
Beautiful!!! 😍😍😍😍
New band is coming for a meet and greet on Monday! Possible gig Thursday night.
Great news! Where gig - please share when you know. I think there's a few people here who would be happy to come along and cheer you on.
That'd be awesome! Will do.
This new band is coming along excitingly fast
Tell me about it! I guess they're keen and so am I. It's been about a year or so since I've been in a band.
Be nice to play shows.
I'd be keen to go let us know :)
Will do man!
I have had two friends recently get into accidents where they were going through a roundabout and someone did not give way and slammed out into them - one on a bike and one in a car with family. I really think we are not ok out there, just go carefully and watch out.
Edit-all involved are now doing ok.
I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve nearly had accidents because as you’ve highlighted people don’t give way when they’re meant to.
I try and be extra careful going into one and also while going around inside.
I hope that the accidents occurs were not too serious.
I had two incidents near La Trobe uni on my bike at round abouts years ago. The two problems with them is people need to know how to use them, and they need to look
Am in all-day team training, being made to watch videos
save meeeee!
Made it down the bellarine. Disco LED chilli back in the game!
I hope they enjoy those sweet sweet 300w cheapo aliexpress fire hazard rays.
sativas or indicas?
made a.... I dunno what your call it. One Pot? Veg and meat curry? Ratatouille? Whatever, made a thing last night. Not a huge veg guy, but cause it was all mixed in with some chorizo and chicken it was amazing. Woke up still thinking about it this morning. Didn't even follow a recipe, just took some inspiration from a YouTube video and made some changes.
There's an Australian youtuber called OnePotChef if you want to continue down this path
Sounds delicious!
Ugh, between Protest and Weather and this time of day, this is definitely one time I wish the flight was delayed... ETA right now is that I'll get there just in time for boarding. Breathe deeply...
E: it was in fact delayed but I also got there in the nick of time anyway. I'm going to nap. I'm so wound up and tense!! zzz
Glad for the edit! Yay you made it!!!
Hooray for nice dreams.
Dunno, I always wake up before it gets to the really good bit 🙃
No comment lol
Guys, I had a brainwave. I have leftover roast lamb so I'm gonna make roast lamb banh mis using long tiger rolls for tea. It's gonna be awesome.
The sky is making crunchy noises. Glad I'm in here and not out there
It's just finished over the CBD (I'm at flinders ATM), and it's sunny now. Hopefully the sun shines for you soon!
Had plans to do some tidying and sorting since my morning client cancelled but I'm tired from a busy two days and the cats clearly want to nap on me.
Who am I to deny them?
EDIT: Aaaand just like that they got up.
I don't have para social relationships with celebrities, I just really enjoy reading about their shenanigans and weirdness. They're humans too, elevated on pedestals, and it's interesting to see what humans do when they are so rich and famous.
This whole David Grohl cheating scandal is delicious. People who elevated him to the position of "one of the good ones" (alongside Keanu and Pierce Brosnan, maybe Jack Black too), are losing their minds that he not only cheated, but now has a baby on the way with the other woman.
People are taking bets on how old the other woman is, with the running theory she's in her early-mid 20s.
It's just so entertaining to me. No one is so good, or will always be so good, not will they always remain bad. They're humans trying to navigate having their lives out in the open, with every minute action critised or admonished.
Anyway, I'm all here for the juicy drama. If I had to place a bet, I reckon the other woman is 25. David is 55, prime time for a midlife crisis and to try and wet his dick with someone younger.
I am so glad I'm not under the microscope. I wouldn't survive a day. I was military. I've been on the dole!! I have tragedies. I have estranged family who would sell me out for pennies and anger. Oh noes, Mr Seagoon was in the military!! Etc etc etc
The press is totes into black and white thinking, everyone is either all good or all bad, there is no nuance.
I think they build up the pedestals just so they can topple them.
And all for ratings and sales.
If David wants and needs company that's his business.
Yeah, you couldn’t pay me to want any of that.
100% agree. It's easy to judge people from a distance. Who knows what the reality is?
No one is perfect. And to pretend otherwise is misguided at best. We are all people, capable of the most and least noble actions.
Should we take a magnifying glass to anyone's life, myself included, there would no doubt be plenty to deride them for.
Generally it's a very safe country.
The NQR in box hill has four-packs of t2 canned iced tea for $2.5 for any tea enjoyers. They're near the front.
had a crack at that sausage roll roll for lunch (that's a sausage roll on a bread roll for those playing at home). Honestly? not bad! I only had 3 sausage rolls left over from kiddos dinner last night, and it was a great way to pad them out a bit.
It's a roll in a roll, or that's what we called it on high school. Your next challenge is a dimmy roll with soy sauce.
oooof yeah nah not a huge dimmy fan, but it has been a while so maybe I should try 'em again.
Vacuumed during my lunch break, that was very satisfying. Feel a lot better about coming home to a less chaotic scene. Now to just clear the most urgent work stuff, pack away leftover lunch, put rubbish out, wash dishes, deep water balcony plants, shower, final pack, find that fucking black puffer vest that's been eluding me for 3 days straight... weather where I'm going is all 18°C feels like 13°C, I need the thing! Chugging so much green tea to get me through.
You can do it. 📣
Seems like 14 hours of sleep between naps and a full night is what my body needed.
Feeling much better today, but still hating on grubby sick people on public transport.
Thankfully it's WFH for the rest of the week.
The trades left my place around 2pm, sent me their invoice then, 3 hours later I get a message “hi just checking you received my invoice?” as to prompt me to pay now. Are you serious? I get a whole 3 hours before a follow up?
Yeah it's hard times.
I don’t pay until I’ve closely inspected the job they’ve done, usually 1 or 2 days later depending on what the work is. Cos they ain’t coming back once they’ve been paid. I learned this the hard way. And I need more than 3 hours on a a work day to do what I need to do to be satisfied of a job well done.
Watching 7+ because it’s the only channel showing the show I want to watch.
Being subjected to the 4th run of 8 ads in a row. Like the pretty much the same 8 ads. I can’t even…
Sodding Amazon misdelivered my pakidge - looks like they just dropped it at the nearest unit doorway, despite mine being one unit down and opposite and very clearly labelled. And of course it was the one doorstep I missed on the recce before I had to pick up the papou.
Bang go any thoughts of me getting Amazon Prime if that's the standard of service I can expect in this neck of the woods.
39 dollar bra may be too good to be true but it's in my damned size and at 10I I'm sick of dropping multiple hundreds so I'll take the risk
I hate bra shopping, loathe it completely and utterly. The best bra I bought, was back in the early 2010s. I'd gone to to the CBD for a short course, and in my rush I forgot to put a bra on (idk how I swear). I ran to target and the only one in my size (10DD) was this bright red one. And I had it for years, it was perf. Underwrite broke though. Since losing weight, I have no idea what my size is anymore, I use the bond sport bras, that are just elastic fabric.
I don't envy you, it's one of the shittiest things people with boobs have to do; find a fucking bra that will fit and won't fall apart after a fkn week.
All the options suck
Wish I could just remove them
The fucking options for this size are bullshiiit and then they pad them or put scratchy lining
I hope at least it doesn't thunderstorm anymore, at least until 4pm.
Idk, I might have caused it - I'm doing a small there-and-back-again quest across the city 😅
Thankfully it stopped fairly soon and never came back so you must have done something right today!
Where rain?
Good night everyone. 😘
I got my kitchen cleaned, dishes washed, shirts ironed (yuck), tomorrow's to do list written and bags mostly packed! Night night.
like a reverse tornado 🙂
All the sewing is finished. Don't think I'll drag out my machine out for a while. I'll take pics of the upholstery cushions in the morning when the light is better. So much getting rid of stuff still happening. :) Been so busy haven't really watched any tv , movies or news and worse, haven't been posting here much but I do read everything you all write. 😘.
I’m wondering if I should spray a stinky orange cleaner or repellent around outside to discourage the visiting cats. I like them but Melbcat gets really stressed out and being an indoor kitty could feel like she’s trapped with threats outside.
I just know orange oil and other essential oils/ strong scents are an asthma trigger and might waft back inside 🤔
I'm so tempted to grab one of those magazines from the stand that the johos set up outside Coles and just keep power walking on. Every day.
Today’s protests are hypocritical. Protesting violence with violence? Some of those interviewed seemed to think what they were doing was ok because they believe they have moral superiority and therefore assaulting people attending the expo is ok? Hmm where have I heard that before.
I'm sure there were some genuine decent protesters there but so many were disgusting animals.
The decent people always get drowned out by the aggressive ones.
meowwww
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¿Tú hablas español?
No.
I was just referencing the presidential debate 😶🌫️
Plumbers at my place today fixing the cause of my recent sewer pipe blockages, costing me a pretty penny but I have no choice. Hate forced spending of money on property maintenence, and especially on something I won't be able to see. Backyard is being dug up to replace an underground pipe, some plants had to get pulled out which is annoying. Didn't have the best sleep and they turned up so early so I'll be knocking back a few coffees to get through today.
Erg. Good morning
Good morning fellow "erg"er!
Getting hail here in Richmond. All Hail Richmond!
1 cm hail here in Carlton
The rains have started here
I am still super tired, but laying in bed listening to the rain wrapped up on top of my electric blanket is actually really nice. Unfortunately I can't enjoy it much, because there's so many loud cars and motorbikes around these parts recently, and there's too many helicopters and planes flying about
Also the rains have stopped now
The hail is on you 🙂
Tried those Oreo coke biscuits. Not sure I want to taste coke when I eat a biscuit; and the aftertaste lingers. 2/10 from me.
I've been away for a couple of nights and now Miss Meow has decided I need her constant supervision.
They're funny creatures. One of ours who we didn't think really liked any of us has pined for our boy away at camp. He came home this afternoon, she hasn't left this spot. Also note the JRT who is miffed, because she's usually the one with the boy.
That is super cute!
Awww
Is she a good supervisor?
No. After shadowing me all evening I rolled over in bed too often and she has decided to give up and left the room. Hard to get good help these days.
Weirdly smoky out my way. Comes and goes. Or is it just my nose. AQF stations not picking up anything atm.
where protest? Husband said at exhibition, it's not here, it's at the expo centre?
They're both called exhibition just for funsies. It's at Jeff's Shed, the Melbourne Convention and Exhibition Centre if we're being formal.
But I'd stay at the Royal Exhibition Building and chill in the nice gardens, much better vibes.
Ooh I didn't realise you were going
I stayed home cause I'm still feeling crook and really don't have the energy, but I've been reading the ABC's coverage, and it seems like it's winding down now, but has split into 2 groups
From a bit over an hour ago:
Crowds outside the Land Forces expo have now shrunk to a few hundred from their initial thousands this morning.
ABC reporter Jess Longbottom is at the protest, and says demonstrators have mainly split into two groups — one in front of Crown Casino, and one on the north side of the Spencer St bridge.
More recently:
ABC reporter Natalie Whiting is on the ground at the protest and says protestors on the Batman Park side of the bridge have largely pulled back.
"They have said they are assessing and recouping before deciding whether they will return this afternoon or wait until tomorrow," Whiting says.
"There is still a group of protestors gathered on the other side of the river, closer to the convention centre."
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2024-09-11/live-blog-land-forces-protest-melbourne-israel-gaza/104333922
Didn't Zip pay pull out of Australia? Places are still offering it. I never really used these buy now pay later platforms but you could stretch a purchase out over like 6 months with Zip
Hmm, I thought they still offered it? I remember the reduced/limited the amount you could have without a credit check a little while back.
Don't believe so, you can still use it at places that offer it. Pretty sure they expanded the service to also work as a Visa card so you can technically use it anywhere, not just at retailers that offer it (no idea if there's extra costs involved in that though).
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A large alcoholic drink, please chef!
Red curry and a bull please. Not our DT reg bull, just a little pocket sized one for the windowsill
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Red bull and a curry please
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Hehe, TIL I can hear NFC through my headphone cable
I had my headphones plugged into the cable from my PC, but was also using my phone when I started hearing a series of clicks and then a short high pitched squeak. Played around with airplane mode and eventually narrowed it down to the NFC. That's pretty cool!
Now I'm tempted to go chuck some data on an NFC tag and see if I can hear the data 🤔
Probably a bad idea, could end up being super loud or something. Who knows. Anyway I'm bad at resisting bad ideas, will be back later with a status update
I did it! It wasn't super loud, even on max volume. It's super cool. Also TIL my NFC tags have a size of ~500 bytes
I thought there was something wrong with my wired earbuds I plug in to my laptop, because I was hearing clicks in them at random times. Turns out I was because I was putting my phone back down on the cables. I always theorised it was my phone trying to charge itself wirelessly, but it definitely makes more sense if it's NFC related.
I just discovered that the girl at the deli last night gave me 2 kranskys but put them through as 1. Free sausaaaaaaage!!
Meanwhile when I offer people a free sausage, it's rarely met with a positive reaction.
Well, kranskys are delicious; you can get any old, wrinkled sausage at Bunnings but it won't be a kransky 😅