Voytek (They/Them) @ voytek709 @lemmy.ca

19 Jan 07

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You said you probably don’t like guys. Your bio says you’re a lesbian. Could you perhaps try to find girls who act the way you’re looking for and forget the other people? That man is not healthy for you, and you could just be looking for anyone out of loneliness.

Good luck to you 🫂

I'm so sorry, both exes sound bad

Thank you so much!

Illinois, actually :,)

Similarly, Swedish has

• ”Farfar, får får får?” (Grandpa, do sheep have sheep?)
• ”Nej, får får inte får, får får lamm”. (No, sheep don’t have sheep, sheep have lambs)

Thanks! To be fair, I’ve known him for a while and I’ve never seen him flirt with anyone he’s been into

Additionally, he’s shy and tends to flirt less and be more serious with the people he’s dated.

Thanks, it has to be Options 1-3 then because he does flirt as a joke, like saying he’s gay, calling the guy friends his “boyfriend/hubby”, or saying “You’re so hot!/I’m gonna kiss you!!”

He holds the hands of usually men but sometimes women, smacks their butts, and calls the girls his “girlfriend/wifey” (with their consent obv)

Hopefully it’s not Option 3, I haven’t told anyone and tried not to make it obvious (especially by giving people the same amount of treatment as him rather than just spending time with him)

Maybe try asking !needadvice@lemm.ee ?

Also, not a psychologist, but it sounds like it could be both.

Yep! Thanks!

Relationships should be equal, with both people respecting each other. He seems immature expecting you to do all the housework and cook/clean for him. (Sadly, some men have this view on women.)

This doesn’t seem like a healthy relationship, please give us updates on how it’s going.

That’s fair enough

I always thought it was “another rumour in the night” 🥲

Thanks!! It just showed a white screen, I’ll check if it works again

Thanks!! It’s Lemmy.ml I can’t open

Well, I mean in the context of not having homophobic people interested in you or a woman having in her profile that she’s, for example, a lesbian, so other sapphic women will see it and not just wonder if she’s straight or not.

Same, I was in eighth grade.

And drink water

I don’t drink often, and not enough to get drunk. I just wanted to say you should drink as much water as you can and eat something, even if it’s just a piece of bread.

The only time I find it necessary is when dating someone, labels make things confusing

det er veldig kult, jeg har bare bodd i USA 😅