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At what level do ISPs control ports?
  • Your ISP controls what ports you can access using one or more firewalls and traffic control devices somewhere past the point where you connect to their network.

    They can block whatever ports they want. The only way around this is to use a VPN, which creates a tunnel directly from your device to a remote server to route traffic. This still goes through your ISP and whatever firewall they have but does so over a port that they (probably) don't block. They can't see what ports your web or network requests are using so they can't block it directly.

    Depending on your technical know how and what type of router you have, you could set up a VPN at the device level (PC, phone, etc.) to send just requests from that device or at the router level which could send all traffic from your network through the VPN.

    It's important to remember when using a VPN that the VPN servers can still see (and potentially log) all of your traffic, even if your ISP cannot. You still need to find a VPN service that you trust to not monitor your traffic.

  • Funded by school vouchers, middle school for LGBTQ+ youth to open in Phoenix
  • Hey thanks for letting me know about that! I use adblock everywhere so I didn't know that site was an ad nightmare. I've replaced the link with one from the Internet Archive's Wayback Machine that (as far as I can tell) only has a single pop-up.

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  • Looks awesome, I think the color is great! It's hard to get a perfect color match, so if you can make a note of what product was used you can talk to the stylist the next time about trying something else to get closer to what you pictured in your head.

  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • I think that sometimes the burnout is internal, rather than in relation to something external like my job. It's also hard to separate the DGAF mood from other stressors like lack of sleep (something my video game habit has not helped with).

  • Funded by school vouchers, middle school for LGBTQ+ youth to open in Phoenix
  • Here's an better archive link to the story for anyone who gets a subscription popup on the azcentral site.

    I think this is great for the kids that can take advantage of it and a great use of the school voucher program. It would be good to see this in areas like the southeast US where governers are pushing for limiting LGBTQ+ rights instead of against.

    EDITED to include a better archive site link from the Wayback Machine.

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    Looking for some advice
  • Go for it! It's a bit cliche to talk about how "liberating" it can feel to change up your hair, but only because that feeling can be so real. Especially if it's something you haven't done before. Make sure you talk to the stylist about how to take care of it (shampoo, conditioner, etc.) to make sure the color doesn't fade. Good luck!

  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • Burnout is absolutely real, though I had a vacation a few weeks ago so I think this is just due to not having enough downtime to myself over the weekend. It seems like the older I get the more distance that I need from people in order to recharge.

  • Windows won't dominate enterprise in a decade, says outgoing Jamf CEO
  • I think this idea could be true for some businesses, primarily those that only use their endpoints (laptops) for simple documentation tasks and/or as gateways to web-based tools. However, in addition to "user demand" there needs to be an adequate business case ($$ savings) plus enough technical knowledge on the IT implementation side to made the move. I've worked in shops moving from a large Microsoft Windows footprint to Apple products and it is not always an easy transition, even with tools like Jamf.

    Since companies will still have to rely on a Windows- or Linux-based backend (on prem or cloud) they'll need admins that can handle integrating those macOS and iOS devices into their MDM systems alongside the Windows systems. There are also a lot of users out there who may have no experience with using a Mac, either for personal or business use, that will need re-training to use a Mac laptop. Both integration / transition of systems and users will introduce delays and downtime into a company's business processes, increasing the cost to transition.

    None of the above is a reason not to move from Microsoft to Apple, but it's definitely not a simple process and that can lead to slow (or no) transitions for large businesses, no matter how many users ask for it.

  • Always logged out
  • As @interolivary said, it's not a you problem. It sounds like you're using the PWA for Beehaw since you click an icon to open it. I've had this same problem on mobile using PWA (Chrome and Firefox) but not with desktop browser. I've also not seen this on the mobile apps I'm trying out (Voyager and Jerboa). From the symptoms it seems like closing a PWA session clears the browser cookie that's being used for session persistence.

    Try just using it from the mobile browser; I have not seen this issue it on Chrome or Firefox on Android and I expect that Safari on iOS won't have the problem either.

  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • I don't have much to say that might help, except that I feel what you're saying. Many times I've been at a place where all I can do is look at my emotions and think "what the hell am I supposed to do with this?". Nothing like not knowing how long you'll have to wade through the swamp or what's going to help you get out. Sometimes all you can do is keep moving and be open to what's coming in the future.

  • Thoughts on seeing Asteroid City
  • The mannerisms of the Edward Norton playwright character reminds me of someone that I knew in the past, and I think it made more of an impact on me because of that.

  • Thoughts on seeing Asteroid City
  • For me it wasn't so much the dialog as the overall emotional content and context within a few of the theater scenes. I honestly can't remember much of the dialog that stood out to me, but I mostly enjoy Anderson's movies for the vibe I get from them.

  • how's your week going, Beehaw
  • This week is starting out complicated. I have a ton to do for work and absolutely no motivation to do any of it, so I'm having to spend more willpower than I'm used to just to get started. I'm coming off of a bad weekend mood-wise and really feeling the "want to run away to a cave and live there forever" vibes, which is also taking effort to move past.

    One thing that's cheering me up is planning out the details of some house changes for August/September, which hopefully will end up going well. Visualizing the end result is giving me something positive to look forward to.

  • Thoughts on seeing Asteroid City

    I finally got the opportunity to watch Asteroid City. I am a long-time fan of Wes Anderson, but none of the people around me share my joy in his movies so I have to gush about it online.

    Something about this film hit me really hard while watching, something in the way that the film uses multiple layers of storytelling about telling a story and how that highlights the real emotions being shown. I'm definitely going to have to find the time to watch it again.

    Those who have seen it, what are your thoughts on the movie? Aside from whether you enjoyed it, did you get anything deeper out of it beyond the offbeat comedy?

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    I'm not the only one enjoying the flowers tonight

    Caught these two in some hanky panky. Photo is blurry due to zooming in so I wouldn't disturb them. My hydrangea have overgrown this year and I've also noticed an unusual number of lizards around my yard. Seems the two are related.

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    Game Introduces Easy Mode Called “I’m 35 and Have One Hour to Play This”
  • I would absolutely choose this mode without any shame. I already spend plenty of time in "Story Mode" difficulty; I don't care to spend hours of frustration trying to hit just the right dodge pattern for a boss because I no longer have the finger dexterity that I did when I was 20.

  • Alexandrite is a Beautiful Web Frontend for Lemmy
  • I've been using it for the last day or so on a separate account and I like it so far. It's a new app and there's plenty of stuff planned for it, but the ability to open comments in a separate column instead of another tab is fantastic. There's already a request for light mode in the repo, which is my biggest issue right now.

  • The Egg by Andy Wier (video adaptation)

    For anyone like me that has a more "cosmic consciousness" type of spirituality. This is (so far) my favorite adaptation of the original short story by Andy Weir.

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    50 Books | 50 Covers

    2022 winners of the AIGA competition for best designed books and covers of the year. I've bought more than a few books specifically because of the cover design and there are several of the winners here that I've added to my "to read" list. As much as I read digitally, I still love the physicality of books and think that a well-designed and constructed book can enhance the joy of reading.

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    The Butchering – Jake Skeets
    emergencemagazine.org The Butchering – Jake Skeets

    Summoning the experiences that have shaped his relationship with food and nourishment, Diné poet Jake Skeets puts forth story as a pathway to food sovereignty.

    The Butchering – Jake Skeets

    > Summoning the experiences that have shaped his relationship with food and nourishment, Diné poet Jake Skeets puts forth story as a pathway to food sovereignty, reminding us that memory and history are deeply enfolded in the meals we share around the table.

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    In her poetic animations, Sakshi Jain welcomes mistakes rather than rubbing them out
    www.itsnicethat.com In her poetic animations, Sakshi Jain welcomes mistakes rather than rubbing them out

    The organic, peaceful work of the New York-based animator takes an analytical look at the workings of modern society.

    In her poetic animations, Sakshi Jain welcomes mistakes rather than rubbing them out

    > While many creatives may spend time rubbing out or digitally removing mistakes from their work, the animator and illustrator Sakshi Jain welcomes them. In fact, she only believes a piece of hers to be complete when “a mistake effectively becomes part of the artwork”.

    I think that with a big push towards digital art being realistic, there is more room to appreciate art that is purposefully imperfect.

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    I Am a Monster Hell Bent on Destroying Earth, but Humans Are More Concerned That I’m a Lesbian
    www.mcsweeneys.net I Am a Monster Hell Bent on Destroying Earth, but Humans Are More Concerned That I’m a Lesbian

    When I burst forth from Earth’s molten core into downtown Manhattan, I had one intention: to destroy every living thing on Earth. “I will turn the ...

    I Am a Monster Hell Bent on Destroying Earth, but Humans Are More Concerned That I’m a Lesbian

    An illustration of humans being able to focus on the actual problem in a crisis. /s

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    F.D.A. Approves First U.S. Over-the-Counter Birth Control Pill
  • Dangerous in what way? According to the article:

    The panel cited the long history of safety and efficacy of Opill, which was approved for prescription use 50 years ago. The over-the-counter pill will be identical to the prescription version, which is 93 percent effective at preventing pregnancy with typical use.

  • You know any cool, lesser-known or even made up phrases?
  • "Mallyhacked" - meaning something that is broken or destroyed. I heard this phrase a lot from older folks during my childhood, but never by anyone who wasn't from my area. My SO didn't believe it was a real word so I did some digging and I think that it is likely a very regionally accented version of "malahack".

    Urban Dictionary says that malahack comes from the Lumbee-English slang of southern North Carolina. I don't think that's quite accurate because I'm not from anywhere close to North Carolina. My preferred reference is from The Vocabulary of East-Anglia: An Attempt to Record the Vulgar Tongue of the Twin Sister Counties Norfolk and Suffolk, as it Existed in the Last Twenty Years of the Eighteenth Century, and Still Exists: with Proof of Its Antiquity from Etymology and Authority; in Two Volumes · Volume 2 by Robert Forby, 1830:

    Malahack, v. A word ludicrously fabricated, which means to cut or carve in an awkward and slovenly manner.

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    Is It Hot Enough Yet for Politicians to Take Real Action?
  • Is a heat wave literally burning the giant piles of lobbyist money that they get to pretend climate change isn't happening, along with their children? No.

    Here's what politicians do, because it's what they've been paid to do:

    But the government quickly began to back down after a meeting in June with officials in the oil-rich province of Alberta...

    The task for the government is to make it appear that as much progress as possible is being made (to appease the fifth of Canadians too worried to have children) while causing as few political problems as possible with the industry.

    ...politicians want to be seen doing a lot about climate change, but not so much that it lands them in any kind of real trouble with the industry.

    Finally, this:

    But this moment feels as if it calls for something larger—comparable to the Earth Day demonstrations of a half century ago, which brought ten per cent of the American population into the streets. It’s eruptions on that scale that change the political reality.

    The only way to get them to do something meaningful is to have enough constituents screaming in their faces to do something or get replaced by someone who will. If you're not screaming at the people who represent you in government to make real change (including restricting fossil fuel companies), then you're wasting your time doing anything else to "fight" climate change.

    Also, because I have more to complain about, I see we're still doing headlines that comply with Betteridge's law.

  • Mark F***king Zuckerberg Is Not Your Friend
  • Who wouldn't trust that (obviously-not-a-robot-in-disguise) smiling face? 😅

  • Mark F***king Zuckerberg Is Not Your Friend
  • That is completely accurate and logical representation of the article after it's had the heart ripped out KALIMAAA-style and been lowered into a pit.

  • Walled-In; Or, Life in the Bathroom Hiding from My Kids
    www.mcsweeneys.net Walled-In; Or, Life in the Bathroom Hiding from My Kids

    “I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately…” — Henry David Thoreau, Walden; Or, Life in the Woods - - - I went to the bathroom beca...

    Walled-In; Or, Life in the Bathroom Hiding from My Kids

    I'm not a parent, but this hit me hard when I read it in the bathroom hiding from my family. 😆

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    Mark F***king Zuckerberg Is Not Your Friend
    catvalente.substack.com Mark F***king Zuckerberg Is Not Your Friend

    You know, I had other things I wanted to yell about. I have about five essays in my drafts folder about like, deep systemic issues and big bad shadows on the horizon. And I have like three jobs, all of which are screaming for my attention. But I cannot

    Mark F***king Zuckerberg Is Not Your Friend

    I recently listened to a "tech" podcast host drone on for 45 minutes about the "Elon vs Zuck" cage match and this piece perfectly captures the frothing, screaming stream-of-conciousness in my brain at the thought of seeing another discussion about Twitter vs Threads/Insta/Face/burning-sh*itpile. I felt some small amount of catharsis just from reading.

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    distractedcactus distractedcactus @beehaw.org

    Pokey succulent

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