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  • lmao

  • Look what humanity has done in just 30-40 years
  • whats the blondie’s name

  • Euro bottles are so much better now
  • I’m happy such a trivial thing is what’s keeping you there.

  • What would you ask to a potential partner in a partner compatibility survey?
    1. Would you want to engage in a Star Trek-like, alien-inspired sex activity?

    2. What are your top 5 movies? One of them must be The Shawshank Redemption.

  • Daughters and Fathers
  • For me, it means a lot when my dad can apologise and take accountability for his mistakes. Sometimes he can be very quick to judge, which can feel diminishing, but whenever he comes around and recognises his behaviour it always feels better. It shows me he’s had time to think and reflect on his own personality.

    I guess it’s obvious that spending time and sharing hobbies is important. For example, my dad and I recently went to the cinema together to watch the new Planet of the Apes movie. We frequently send songs or posts of animals to each other. Small things like that are fun. It don’t need to be a full-on planned father/daughter day.

  • What's it called when an inventor's invention backfires on them?
  • I really hope there’s a single word for it out there… more convenient yanno.

  • What's it called when an inventor's invention backfires on them?

    Is there a name for this specific concept? Where somebody invents something (to do them good) but then that thing turns around and backfires on them?

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    Is there a FOSS make-your-own-dictionary app?
  • I think it might be too heavy for the simple functions I’m looking for. I just need some dictionary-looking page where I can store words / definitions and have the option to practice them.

  • Is there a FOSS make-your-own-dictionary app?

    Sorry, might not be the right place, but I thought I’d ask.

    I’m looking for a FOSS app where you can create your own dictionary: insert words and their meanings, and smoothly sort them in different word classes. I tried out the app Kalimaty, and it’s great, except for the fact it’s subscription-based and does not have many options for the free tier.

    If there is no such app like this, is there another way I can make my own dictionary? I have written the words down in my notes but because there are so many it’s hard to keep track of all of them and it slows the Notes app down.

    Cheers!

    *should mention I am on iPhone.

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    They say your body is the only instrument that doesn't require any lessons
  • I’m a woman and still I find this meme gives me the heebiejeebies. Stop that.

  • Picnic - Ellen Macdonald (2015)
  • Very nice. Colour scheme reminds me of Star Trek TOS. Space picnic…

  • Star dates – is one day equal to 0,07 SD in TNG?

    Just had a thought while watching TNG.

    In “Code of Honour,” the episode begins as stardate 41235.25. Then, after Natasha is captured, Picard voices that “one whole day” has gone by and the stardate is 41235.32. Does this mean one day in TNG is equal to 0.07 (stardate)? Or do the last 5 numbers have no meaning at all?

    I know it’s a widely discussed issue in this community. Maybe I’m on the completely wrong track and maybe there is another consensus. But I thought it would spark conversation. Cheers!

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    Sportsball Energy
  • somebody’s sensitive

  • Vent from someone with a phobia of insects now that summer is nearing.

    Hello all. I wanted to make this post because I feel like venting a bit. I know the “cure” to my problem is CBT or exposure therapy, but I was hoping to speak to like-minded people or anybody who feels like sharing their thoughts.

    I hate that I’m not able to enjoy summer like most others. I hate that I flinch at the very sound of buzzing or the sight of flying insects. I know that it’s an irrational fear, I know it’s not normal and I know I look stupid when I cover my ears or flee into my room whenever I see or hear an insect. I’ve been told “they can’t hurt you, they’re nothing” so many times and I know they can’t hurt me but why is there minimal understanding of this phobia? I hate that whenever I tell people about this, I’m mostly met with “yeah they’re disgusting I hate them too”; it’s not that I find them disgusting, it’s that they cause me heart-pumping palm-sweating fear. It’s that I can’t enjoy landscapes and being out in the country like regular folks, I’m always alert and on the watch whenever I’m on an excursion because the fear and anxiety is so greatly installed in me. It’s that I sometimes end up hallucinating the buzzing sounds that jerks me awake.

    This definitely sounds like self-pity, and honestly it is. Because sometimes you just feel sorry for yourself and today is that day for me. I hope I can enjoy this summer despite these creatures. I hope I can speak to people who suffer from the same phobia, or people with any degree of empathy at all.

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    Rule
  • not doubting this experiment but isn’t basing the validity of the myth on one instance a bit misleading

  • Rule
  • can you link me that science

  • It seems like an inefficient setup
  • I don’t know why you’re downvoted. Unfortunately explosions and gun violence have increased exponentially. Now the news frequently talk of police officers befriending criminals or criminals joining the police force. It’s a shithole.

  • Revamping my playlist - lemmels, give me all your suggestions!
  • Sorry for the late reply! Yes, they absolutely do!

  • A simple guitar stand
  • I quite like that.

  • Happens Too Frequently
  • gravely castigated i say

  • Revamping my playlist - lemmels, give me all your suggestions!

    Edit: THANK YOU ALL! I am taking all recommendations into consideration and will be giving them a listen sometime. I was a little overwhelmed hence my lack of response, but I greatly appreciate what you’ve written. (-:

    Yes, this is a “suggest me songs” post. Only because I don’t know which other community is more appropriate.

    I’m looking to revamp my main playlist and clean out songs I don’t revisit all that often. I was hoping you all could suggest some songs OR albums based on my current taste. The other reason I make this post is because I fear I’ll go my entire life without hearing fantastically underrated albums, and I know lemmists to have taste.

    That being said, here are some of my favourite artists and albums:

    • Lana Del Rey
    • Marina and the Diamonds
    • The Bravery
    • “Disintegration” by The Cure
    • Foreign Air
    • Saint Motel
    • “How to be a Human Being” by Glass Animals
    • Garbage
    • Madonna, especially the albums prior to the 00s
    • Palaye Royale
    • Vendredi sur Mer

    I am additionally looking for artists similar to Crystal Castles, Com Truise, and Cults. Anything indie / electro / disco / jazz / poprock / pop-punk is welcome. Honestly, y’all don’t even have to take into consideration what I’ve just listed. Just give me the best you’ve got! Cheers. (:

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    Way to collapse profile when viewing saved posts?

    Any way to collapse your profile as you scroll down your posts / saved posts? Sometimes I want to send a screenshot of a post I saved but the profile is taking up a lot of space together with the bottom tab bar.

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    How to kickstart old Samsung GT-S7580?

    I just found my first phone ever and decided to start it up. I found out the password and decided to factory reset it since I’m planning on selling it. However, ever since I resetted it, it has been stuck on the same “Installing applications” screen (see image). I tried the volume up+power button+home button tactic and chose factory reset and then boot system, but it won’t budge. Anybody know how to solve this?

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    Been watching Planet of the Apes with my father, which has reinvigorated my love for gibbon monkeys.
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    I love them so much. Has this sublemmy got any more POTA fans by the way? Y’all looking forward to Part 2 Chapter 1 (aka Planet of the Apes 4)?

    *Sorry about the video format, I don’t know how to publish videos directly. :’)

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    ELI5: GrapheneOS questions

    edit: thank you all for your replies! They are all very helpful. I am reading through them and will ask follow-up questions if needed.

    I made a post some days ago asking about LineageOS, but my curiosity towards Google Pixels and GrapheneOS has been growing. As somebody who has always used regular Samsungs and iPhones, I hope somebody can clear up some questions I have regarding this OS.

    I plan that my next phone is to be either a Motorola (LineageOS/SailfishOS?) or a Pixel (GrapheneOS). My first question about GrapheneOS, or really any non-standard OS, is this:

    • how does having an account on the device work? For example, Samsungs require a Samsung account and iPhones require an iCloud account. How does it work on non-standard OSes?

    My second question touches on built-in apps that you often get with every phone:

    • does GrapheneOS have its own Notes/Drive/Photos/Messages app? If not, how does one go about obtaining these? Related question:
    • how do I sync my notes/photos/files/etc to the “cloud” of GrapheneOS?

    My third question regards the app store of GrapheneOS. I have heard that the sandboxed Play Store is better than FDroid, for instance; what are your thoughts? Do I go for Aurora Store instead? Is there any major difference at all? Is it possible to use multiple app stores?

    • note that I likely won’t be solely relying on FDroid since I need some non-FOSS apps (FB Messenger for contacting family for example).

    I know that in the privacy community, it’s very common to fix up a cloud of your own (i.e. NextCloud). I have no experience doing this, but is it something I must do when I install atypical OSes? Then comes the question about pricing, how private and secure it really is, which one to choose… and so on.

    I understand many of these questions will sound stupid to those who are experienced, but I have not been part of this community very long. Feel free to link any educational videos or articles that answer my questions. I hope to learn more about this subject and one day installing a more secure system on my phone. Cheers!

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    What phone brand do you like the best?

    *In terms of privacy, customisation, camera quality, and battery time.

    For the longest time I have only used either iPhone or Samsung. I plan on switching to Android for the next phone I get, but I find that Samsung phones are often too big for me and put too much energy on camera quality (I don’t take many photos). I have started to look into brands such as Nokia and Motorola, and I would like to know what you guys think of them. Additionally, do you suggest any other phone brands aside from them? My biggest priorities are privacy and long battery time. Bonus if the phone can run LineageOS (I have excluded Graphene as they are only compatible with Pixel phones).

    Thank you for any answers. Cheers!

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    Friend claims capitalism exists because of proletarians' demands - how to answer?

    I would like to preface by saying I am very sorry if this is the wrong community. This post touches on the core philosophy of Marxism, and I was hoping to get some insight.

    My friend claims that the only reason companies produce things is because the working class, regular citizens, are asking for it; he does not get behind the idea of companies subconsciously persuading people to buy the items they sell. He believes that because your regular person wants a new phone, kitchen equipment, clothes, whatever - they are pushing capitalism forward and therefore it is the right / natural system.

    How would you reason? I feel conflicted. On one hand, people do want things and there is almost always something to produce it for them, but on the other hand companies are steadily pushing for profit, using various tactics to drive consumerism. I would appreciate what you guys think and what you would answer, because according to him, capitalism only exists because demand exists. Whether that's true or not, I hope we can discuss. Cheers!

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    How many queries per device on NextDNS?

    I’m sorry if this is the wrong community to ask, I couldn’t find answers elsewhere.

    When you have multiple devices registered to your NextDNS account (i.e. 1 iPhone and 1 Samsung), do all devices get 300 000 queries each or do they altogether share 300 000?

    Thanks for any answers!

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    How come there are ~21 hours between the two Diomede islands that are only 4 km apart?

    The Diomede Islands are two islands in the Arctic Ocean, between Alaska and Siberia. Despite the distance being 4 kilometres, there is a time difference of 21 hours between them. Why?

    I’m asking because it’s quite difficult for me to grasp the concept of time differences when the physical distances are so short. I know of the International Date Line, but I’m not sure what it entails. If any nerds would care to enlighten me, I’d appreciate it!

    (This question also applies to the Kiribati Island and Howland Island; the time difference is ~26 hours, yet the physical distance is only ~2160 km?)

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    Framework vs Macbook laptop?

    I apologise if this is the wrong community to post this in, I wasn’t sure which one was ideal.

    I’m suffering a difficult decision of choosing between a Framework laptop or a Macbook Air (M1, 2020). I really like the ethical principles of Framework, i.e. you actually own it and can repair it any time, leading to an increased longevity. At the same time, I have heard people claim Macbook is superior in almost all aspects (especially battery life).

    I know both Apple and Microsoft are greedy CorpGiants, but seeing as I have an iPhone, I figure it would be easier using a Mac? But then again, the prices really are not worth it, especially considering it costs a lot to repair them. I have 0 experience with Linux, and this computer will be used at school, so I suppose it stands between macOS and Windows.

    I guess I just want some advice? Or some guidance and comparisons. Is 8GB enough for a Framework laptop? The 16GB version costs nearly as much as the Mac I’m looking at, hence my hesitance. If anybody has some experience using Framework and / or Macbook, I would love to hear about it. What are some pros and cons? Which people are better off with FW and Mac respectively?

    Thank you!

    *Edit, forgot to mention: I need a Swedish keyboard on the computer, and Framework apparently only offers English. This is the largest obstacle preventing me from leaning towards FW.

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    Is oldgamesdownload.com safe?

    What do the Lemmy pirates say about this site?

    I want to download the game "The Godfather" from 2006, but upon trying to open the setup file my computer screen turned all black. Is it likely to get a virus from this site?

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    Is there a community that gives you music suggestions?

    Looking for a very specific genre of music and I am unsure of where to ask for suggestions.

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    Does anyone else have a favourite song they DON'T listen to a lot?

    Posted this question on r/aspergirls some time back and I’d like to hear what users on Lemmy have to say.

    Do you have a favourite song you don’t listen to a lot? For me, I can’t listen to mine regularly because I don’t want to “wear it out” and make it lose its emotional effect on me; I want to be blown away every time I hear it. It’s a rock song as well, and because of that I don’t want to listen to it much because it can be overstimulating as the instrumental is heavy (in my opinion). I reserve the song for special moments or moments I know I can listen to it better and truly appreciate what a masterpiece it is.

    Anybody else feel the same way?

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    Anybody else playing Sky?

    Checking if any Lemmy users dig this interesting game, and also looking for people to game with!

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    What advice would you give a young adult about to move out?

    I am asking this question because the young adult in question, is me. I am to move out in a few years, and it feels impossible to move far away from my hometown (which I want). I have no idea how to juggle both finances, a job, and the move itself. With the global inflation going on, it feels impossible getting hold of a decent apartment to rent.

    What advice would you give someone like me? What should I keep in mind and prepare* myself for? What are your experiences moving out, or moving away from your hometown? How long did the process take for you, and how did you manage keeping a job that paid all your taxes and rent? If you could look back and give younger you some advice, what would you tell them?

    (If it provides any context, I am North European.)

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    clark Wild Bill @midwest.social

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