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What kind of bird is this? +help needed!
  • It can move the wing, but it droops down & sometimes shakes (I think the bird might be using it too much). I might try yet another kind of bandage and pray that they don't get their feet caught up in it when I wrap the wing to the body.

    Thank you for your kindness. I'm trying to do the right thing, but it's difficult when I have to do things "legally".

    Obviously it's an awful idea to let just anyone try to help wild animals, but I have a bit of experience with wildlife care & have an exotic animal of my own that requires special care. I can't say I'm the best person to do this, but I at least know what to provide & how not to act around a wild animal. Ideally though, yes, they should absolutely go to an experienced rehabber, if one can be found.

  • What kind of bird is this? +help needed!
  • The green is reflecting from the roof color of the structure they are underneath! They seem to be black and/or extremely dark brown that looks black.

  • What kind of bird is this? +help needed!
  • No, the green is reflecting from the roof of the structure!

    The eyes were also throwing me off because they're darker than adult grackles I see.

  • What kind of bird is this? +help needed!

    Located in the Michigan.

    I originally thought it was a young crow, but I'm starting to think it's a young grackle?

    Where I need additional help / advice: the bird has an injured wing.

    Problem TL;DR: found bird with injured wing. Called literally every place that could help, but all wildlife rehabs/rescues are full. DNR informed me that the only other option if I can't find a licensed rehabber is euthanasia. Bird is currently alert, eating, drinking, and climbing. I set up a secure space for them outside. I've now been caring for them for about 4 days now. I just.. need advice about what I should do from here.. I really have no idea if I am doing the right thing..

    More details / backstory: I saw this guy stumbling across a busy road, wing drooping, nearly getting hit by cars. I ran out, shooed him into the neighbor's garden where there is lots of cover, and hoped he would survive the night.

    The next morning, I couldn't stop thinking about the bird, so I went outside to go check the garden again, hoping he had flown away. The moment I stepped around the corner of my home, I saw him, hopping and flapping on the ground, being stalked by 2 cats that one of my neighbors let roam outside. I swooped in quickly, scooped up the bird, and popped it into a carrier.

    I then called every wildlife rescue / rehab center in & near my area. Every single one of them either did not take small birds (raptors and owls only) and the ones that did accept small birds let me know that they were full and couldn't help me.

    I called vet offices, shelters, triple-checked the DNR certified rehab list, put out inquiries for any private licensed rehabbers, even posted my plea on a local Facebook wildlife group.. no luck.

    Called DNR & let them know, asking if they maybe had any more resources I could look into. Since I could not find any licensed rehabbers, they simply suggested I take it somewhere for euthanasia.

    I'm.. at a loss. I put antibiotic cream on the problem area on the wing (attempted a wing wrap on the advice from a vet tech, but just could not get it to stay properly, not matter what, so I got rid of it), set up a large screen tent in a more secluded area behind my home, reinforced the base perimeter as best I could, built up a secure perch with branches starting from the ground up to the ceiling, and gave the bird food and water.

    The bird seems very happy with the perch they don't need to fly to get up the highest place. They've drank plenty, and have been eating cat food soaked in water + bugs & worms I've dug up for them. They definitely have an appetite! And their bite has gotten significantly more painful since I first scooped them up. It was weak before, now it actually hurts sometimes! (I handle them carefully and safely only for wing-check medication).

    I have NO intention of making this bird into a pet!! I just want them to be released eventually, and ak trying to make sure they don't get too comfortable with me. I'm just upset that the only alternative to a licensed rehabber is euthanasia.

    Please.. I'm really conflicted on this. What should I do from here? Any advice is very much appreciated. Thank you.

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    Trying to play my old CDROM games on Windows10 and about to lose my marbles. Could you help me?
  • 1994 - 1996 and beyond. Originally played on Win98, currently on Win10. Trying out several different CDROMS, but I've been testing out an old "Learning in Toyland" CD, but I also have an old "Yukon Trail" CD I'm trying to boot up.

    I've tried DOSBOX, but I keep getting messages like "requires Windows" or whatnot. Like HOE, I HAVE WINDOWS AND IT DON'T EVEN WORK

  • Trying to play my old CDROM games on Windows10 and about to lose my marbles. Could you help me?

    Okay listen: I am less than tech-savvy, but I tried so many step-intensive things on my dinky PC, to no avail.

    I use Windows10 home (yes, I know, bear with me!) and am just trying to boot games I already OWN!!! No dice. Now I just sit here, arms crossed, and seethe "I hate u, computer."

    Yes, I've enabled the IIS and tried to use the option to allow program to run 32-bit. No dice.

    I've tried compatibility mode. Absolutely nothing (Windows, you useless-ass shitwad).

    I struggled through DOSBOX as a non-tech person, managed to do the Windows 3.1 thing, tried to boot my files through there, got as far as the install screen!!! Stuck at 0% probably forever. So it was a failure.

    Tried running old game files from some people who are smarter than me that emulate the D:\ drive instead of the physical disks. Zilch.

    FrikkiN AHHHHH!!!!

    I JUST WANNA RELIVE MY NOSTALGIA AND SHOW MY KID ALL MY OLD AND SHITTY GAMES I USED TO PLAY AS A KID!!!!!

    Could anyone give a solution that won't have me downloading and installing 6 trillion new programs? Any helpful links a non-tech person could understand?

    Swear to god, I'll Cashapp 5$ to the first person to give a solution I can reasonably follow & that works.

    Also you will have my adoration forever. Thanks.

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    How do you deal with your loneliness (to those of you who feel it)?
  • There is a singular niche community that I involve myself with where I pop in and make highly desired items to give away for free.

    It makes me feel like people care about me for a while. For now, that's good enough for me.

  • What kind of snake is this? [Eastern Michigan][SOLVED]
  • We love us some garters! Kid loves snakes and is studying before he gets one for himself one day. Thank you!

  • What kind of snake is this? [Eastern Michigan][SOLVED]
  • I put that in the post body. The kid got a lecture about handling strange wildlife.

    We have one venomous snake in Michigan, I believe.

  • What kind of snake is this? [Eastern Michigan][SOLVED]
  • I thought that might be it!

    Think there's only one venomous snake in Michigan, and it didn't look like that, so I figured it was safe. But you never know! Gotta be safe, yeah?

    Thank you!

  • What kind of snake is this? [Eastern Michigan][SOLVED]

    My kid was excited and picked 'em up. I wouldn't have touched the snake otherwise! I let them know not to do that next time.

    Anyone recognize what kind of snake this is? Like, definitively? Thank you!

    EDIT: Most likely a Butler's Garter Snake! Thank you to those who posted answers! Much appreciated! (:

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    When & why is it not wise to seek out help?

    This is not a post trying to alarm you, but it is something that reality may throw at you that will hit hard.

    I had vaguely brought up the possibility of neurodivergence to a psych, and they told me: "Okay so you probably are, but I'm not going to diagnose you because it'll make it more difficult for you to get care / to be medically taken seriously."

    Was recently talking online to a friend who was diagnosed at 14, and both their parent & their psych agreed not to add it to my medical records because it could "ruin [their] life."

    I have been seeking out help with my issues all my life, and have one current diagnosis (ADHD-PI) that is so severe that I nearly destroyed my life several times when I was off meds. I am not "seeking" an autism diagnosis, but I'd love to have helpful resources.

    Let me be clear: doctors already dismiss my ADHD diagnosis or straight-up let me know that "you probably don't have ADHD" in so many words. I have yet to be taken seriously regarding it, and it has harmed me immensely and put me off from seeking therapy or support for it.

    Autism? Holy shit, forget it. Not a single medical professional I've seen wants to even touch that.

    This feels like fucking "Nightmare Mode". Mask until you die. Ultimate stigma.

    Why is it near impossible to find help with adult ADHD / autism / other neurodivergent diagnosis? What the fuck is going on? And, more importantly, what can we do about this?

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    Lemmy users who struggle with depression, what need is unfulfilled in your life? What could be done practically to change your situation?
  • Money and good health insurance. Seriously, it would help me out so dang much.

    I have pretty bad PTSD, which has made it near impossible to make real, human connections. If I could get out of my own head, I feel like my life might be able to improve.

    I have a house of my own, though. I feel like having your own space contributes a lot to self-improvement and peace, tbh. I am extremely fortunate.

  • Traverse City hair salon no longer servicing all LGBTQ members
  • Imagine a business essentially telling a group of people that they don't even consider them human.

    I'm sure that if they get backlash they will cry about persecution and "cancel culture". Real damn sick of it.

  • What's your "old person" trait?
  • I literally ripped up a giant amount of my lawn to put in a shitty but sizable wildflower garden. Also ripped up almost the entire perimeter and put in an unreasonable amount of lilies to surround my property.

    All because when I moved in, I saw people just casually cutting through my yard.

  • Twitter refuses to pay for arbitration for ex-employees
  • I hope this fucking clown-house leads to laws being passed protecting workers from this kind of shit in the future.

    For real, this deep-fried dumpster fuck needs to leave the planet.

  • Shimmer and sparkle!

    [tattoo of the character "Rainbow Fish" with text]

    TEXT:

    This is the skin of a killer, Bella

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    I'm tired of dogs. I just don't like them.

    I've never been a fan of dogs. They make me nervous. I like animals, but dogs are just too needy, destructive, and abrasive. Working dogs are fine, but pets/companion dogs really bother me.

    They are given so much free reign in homes, it makes me nervous. I shouldn't have to be hyper-vigilant to guard my food and possessions because "the dog might get it!"

    They're often very loud, they demand your attention constantly, and they're always in your space.

    The worst part is that people nowadays bring their dogs into stores and restaurants, because apparently a lot of dogs have separation anxiety now.

    Owners will let their dogs walk right up to me while I'm actively backing away, and assuring me that "they're friendly!" But I do not want to be approached by a strange dog!! I do not know how they will react so I do not want them near me!!

    I get that people love their dogs, but there is far too much poor behavior from dogs and their owners that I just can't excuse it.

    It dampens my enjoyment of a place when I am forced to guard my possessions, listen to loud barking and/or constant whimpering, be interrupted by the owner who always have to yell at their dogs mid-conversation to keep them from doing something their not supposed to, etc.

    Dogs are just..... exhausting.

    And I'm very very tired of having to accept them into my spaces & having to deal with them in public settings. I don't believe I'm a bad person for thinking this way. I'm just tired of dogs.

    That is all.

    Edit: Some of y'all are really offended & have taken that fact that I don't like dogs very personal. Why can I not dislike dogs?

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    People who use ‘smart drugs’ worse at complex tasks, study finds
  • If i could weigh in here, I've been on meds for my ADHD for about 9 years now. I've had it since I was tiny, but I started getting medicated as an adult (my parents were anti-meds growing up).

    The goal of medication is not to have you do everything: it's to get you to be able to do something. Without medication, I could lie in bed all day and my brain will literally not allow me to get up. I feel so trapped in my own body, begging my brain to allow me to do what I need to do in order to live. It only responds to tasks that provide instant dopamine (and sometimes not even that). Showering? Nope. Getting up? No way. Getting groceries? Forget it.

    I could literally eat until I throw up, though. Because food = dopamine source.

    This is not a matter of laziness, either, a common hand-waving explanation to dismiss ADHD. It is a neurological disorder– a disorder of the brain that I cannot control.

    Being medicated bridges the gap and allows me to do tasks without fighting with my brain for control. It definitely doesn't help with multi-tasking, at least for me. You need to train your brain to work with the meds, so you don't start hyperfocusing on the the wrong task. It's a tricky line to walk, and some people just thinking "taking meds = fix problem!" Ahhh... no. I wish.

    Truth is, I've tried many medications that just did work. One made me angry & aggressive (I am the most chill person, so this was terrifying), one caused depression, paranoia, amd visual hallucinations (horrifying), and my current is what I want to stick with. It's worked SO well, and I need to be aware of my diet, vitamins, hydration,  and exercise habits (among other things) in tandem in order to have it work the way it's supposed to.

    There's such a stigma against ADHD meds, it makes me angry to see the idiotic "it's just legal meth" argument.

    ......this post is a classic ADHD rant dump. AMA lol

  • Slashdot -> Fark -> Digg -> Reddit -> Lemmy
  • What absolutely sucks about this is that I had carefully curated my subscriptions on RIF in order not to exacerbate my dumb mental health issues.

    Hell, I've read angry posts about people in recovery from addiction and alcohol saying how they keep seeing ads for beer or gambling and things like that.

    It's horrifying!!

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    Goof. Have your opinions, but do no harm.

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