alright. not a lot of interaction here. so I'll keep posting about this hell-about
This business with the invisible roads is also quite messy. but maybe works? i dunno... cars don't really spawn
yeah. that's a google maps shot....
here's what i'm cooking up right now. surface networks and invisible roads
okay. here's a few things that trip me up: basically every exit lol, but specifically north-east. this corner is super weird. the road north (1 way) is not really connected to the roundabout, there is like a seperate road/lane that runs "past" the roundabout from east to west. but the roundabout has an exit to that road. and that road splits up into a lane onto the roundabout and one that runs past it.
i'm also not 100% on what to do about the slip lanes that still kinda brush the roundabout. i'm trying with curbless roads, but they're super finnicky
here's one more image with the streetview lanes
https://imgur.com/a/DYMuMMC
Thank you. Those are some actionable tips for me.
This really stuck in my head today and I'm still processing your message. Thank you so much for taking the time to write it, it means a lot.
Hey that means a lot. Oceans and landmasses are in the way, but I appreciate you.
So the number. Out of 50, 30 are just my colleagues. I didn't all invite them individually, a few I did, but mostly I gave a group invite. It's quite usual for the colleagues to hang out together, go to stuff together. So that leaves 20 people I invited by hand.
Thanks. Those are good points. I'm 40. I've been to therapy. And it's not like I can just go, there's no spots, no therapists, no waiting lists. I have a social therapist who's okay, I guess. I'm on bupropion, but after about 2,5-3 years, I finally want to get off it. I hate being on antidepressants so long, I've had bad experiences with taking them too long.
The hard thing about learning these mental patterns and tools as a person with ADD seems to me, like I have to learn them again and again and again...
I've been diagnosed about 2-3 years ago only...
I'm glad it worked out for you so far. Good luck out there
Thanks for the insights. I don't think I can say I had fun or similar, when I didn't. I had anxiety the whole night and felt incredibly awkward and ashamed.
Yeah thanks for the advice and the wishes. I think you're exactly right about how those conversations could turn out. So I guess something uncommitting like you suggested is a good start ...
I like the idea with the smaller dinners. Sadly, people don't come around my place. It's a bit out of the way. And I thought the "bigger" plans are exactly good for the kind of conversations where you aren't too close with the people and you can get closer with them. In a café/restaurant/bar/living room setting, you have to do small talk...
Ja danke. Ich bin schon relativ gut auf meine Medikamente eingestellt. Aber ein lebenslanges Trauma löst sich nicht mal eben so
"Freut mich" dass mein Post dich dazu animiert hat.
Thank you. That means a lot and I hope your situation improves, too.
I wrote it in another comment: I can see how it's partly not about me. Everyone had a specific and relatable and legit reason not to come. Just in the collection it also is indicative of my standing. So apparently I don't have 50 friends, I don't appeal to people in general and I don't pull people who have ever the slightest reason not to go.
Danke. Das ist gerade sehr mein Thema. Ich habe darüber gerade einen aktiven Thread auf der englischsprachigen Community hier laufen.
Was dem Artikel und auch den anderen Quellen fehlt (und mir auch) ist ein: wie gehe ich als Betroffener damit um? Wie kommuniziere ich Anderen, dass es mir wichtig ist, mich zugehörig zu fühlen? Wie sage ich, dass es mir weh tut, mich durch ihr Verhalten abgelehnt zu fühlen? Und das ohne sie vor den Kopf zu stoßen? Oder tut man so als wäre nichts? (Und wenn ja, wie geht das???)
Thanks. That's a real answer to my question. I'm just so tired of trying....
I think they don't know how important it was for me. And I don't think that I can tell them.
Thanks for the perspective. I don't know what to learn from it. Reading the comments here makes me think that many of us learn the same dark lessons: don't socialise, stay alone.
But again: how do I respond to "how was the partyyyy?!"(Big smiles)
I am sorry for you, too.
I try to take solace from many people feeling the same. But it all collects. There's lots of people who feel a similar way and they can't ever get together, because that's exactly what we're not capable of...
Thanks.
It's a bit disheartening that so many people relate but nobody can really help me with my question as to what to do now...
Thank you. I'll save your comment to read it again :)
Ah yes the good old horseshoe. Good thing nobody uses this rhetoric anymore... .... ... _
I think I can try throwing advice back to you: why not try and be part of the plans of the other people? I only too late realised that I didn't spend time with people because I thought they didn't want me to. And now I'm sitting here with nobody.
Hey there. I am incredibly sad, downright depressed and mentally exhausted.
I wanted to celebrate my birthday yesterday for the first time (maybe ever?) with lots of nice people. I invited about 30-50 people. Some, I invited personally, some just casually through groups. Lots of those people I thought of as somehow close and friendly.
I exhausted myself in the effort of preparing the party, I rented a room, I prepared photos, activities, food, music, and just put a lot of mental energy into the planning. I have been planning it for about 2 months, invited those who were most important to me back then even.
5 people showed up.
I am devastated. I was always so anxious about my birthday and never celebrated it. I think I removed myself from groups a lot in my life. And only the last two years, I've started to understand my diagnosis and how to communicate with people. This throws all my anxiety and pain back into my body and brain.
I don't know how to deal with it. Especially I don't know how to interact with the people that were important to me and who didn't show (or those who didn't even cancel). My past behaviour was burning down all the bridges. I don't think I should do that. But I also don't know how to pretend like it doesn't hurt....
Any advice about rejection anxiety and ... well, real rejection?
Thank you.
So, i am getting back into a cities project after being out of the game for a while. I'm using https://terraining.ateliernonta.com/ to generate heightmap and overlay image. it also exports OSM data (I also tried to do it manually with the same result)
now what happens is this. i think this has always happened. it seems like the "scale" is off. the roads are "correct" but slightly shifted in all directions. they're not all just slightly north like the picture. at one point it exactly overlaps and the rest is too far south. like the scale is wrong. like it's too small or something. but the OSM scale is 1. did i do something wrong?
(i looked through the github but couldn't find anything. also no similar things on the workshop comments right away)
I don't really know where to start. It's not hurting me, but I'm confused. I don't recall doing anything different o not sure where to start looking for issues.
It boots up, shows me my drives and says "settings were reset to default values" If I go into bios, nothing looks off to me. Windows doesn't show an issue.
I'm running Win10. I can give you all the info you want. Just need a hint as to where to start looking. Thanks
Also ich wollte gerne mal andere deutsche User-Erfahrungen zur App Feeld hören. Ich benutze die App sehr spärlich, weil ich noch NIE ein "erfolgreiches" Match hatte. Generell hatte ich bisher vielleicht 2-3 überhaupt. Mir werden so viele Profile angespült aus Dänemark, Niederlande, oder vom anderen Ende Deutschlands, wenn die Menschen es überhaupt im Profil angeben, und dennoch sagt das Profil "5km entfernt" oder so.
Ich wollte mal wissen, ob diese App für euch funktioniert. Info: ich wohne in Hamburg (also Großstadt, da sollten es schon Profile geben...)
Hi y'all, i used to be so prolific at the whole pc building thing. but now i'm out of the game with age and not buying stuff in a while. so here's my question:
my PC is fine and i upgraded parts of it during the years. but it may be time for a new motherboard, since mine only supports 32gb of RAM which isnt enough anymore.
what do I need to do to replace my motherboard? I guess, i'd have to re-install everything, right? Isn't windows and all the software kinda bound to my motherboard?
since i'm fine with my 2060Super, i guess getting a new PC is not worth it, my case and hard drives are fine. i will need new RAM and SSDs. So what should I look for in a motherboard?
thanks for reading this ramble
Hallo Leute, gerade gegen Weihnachten und diesen Festen wird es einigen von euch ähnlich wie mir gegangen sein, dass man Sachen kaufen möchte, aber das kommt dann aus Australien und der Versand ist 25€. Oder es ist ein Store, der Versandkosten erst ab einer sehr hohen Summe erlässt. Oder man hat Sorgen mit dem Zoll und den verbundenen Kosten. Hier meine Frage/Idee.
gibt es Interesse, sich igendwie zusammen zu tun für solche Fälle? vor Allem wenn es nicht dringend ist? ist es sinnvoll, dafür eine extra community zu gründen? oder reicht eine Art Dauer-Thread hier aus?
Man müsste eben in der Lage sein, zu sagen "Hey ich möchte bei XY bestellen, wer noch?" und dann kann man ein Paket schnüren und sich einen Teil der Versandkosten sparen.
Schöne Grüße
And the FBI was assigned to follow the film team on reports of a "vaguely middle-eastern man with a bear in an ice-crem truck", which has to be the funniest report xD
