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[CW: Suicide] Any time I see "Bullying Works" or "bullying" being used positively on here, I think of shit like this
  • Strong agree.

    When I was first checking out r/chapotraphouse it was really alienating to see bullying being referred to so positively. Why was a community that’s so disproportionately queer and neurodiverse lauding the merits of bullying when we’re so much more likely to be the victims?

    We pretty much only use the word bullying when we’re talking about punching up, harassing horrible people in power or shutting down fascists and liberals. I think it’s a form of immunisation, a way of preempting accusations of horrible people that they’re being bullied for their harmful selfish bigotry with “yeah we’re bullying you so what”. It disarms the accusation and looks really strong/funny to outsiders, because the power differential between the people who’re crying they’re being “bullied” by us and the people who’re bullying them, or how socially accepted the (awful, harmful) views they’re claiming to hold are compared to the views they say we’re “bullying” them for not having. It’s really really funny when actual elected officials or Op Ed writers with huge readerships whine about being bullied by a crowd of posters with names like Ho_Chi_Minx and ✨StanStalin✨ and it makes them look weak and us look strong.

    When we talk about what would more commonly be considered bullying, punching down on people who’re different because they’re different, like (I imagine, thank you for the CW I did not need to read that today) is reported on in the article you linked and many of us experience or have experienced daily we tend to use words like harassment, micro-aggressions, abuse, discrimination and trans/homophobia to describe what we’re going through. Whenever someone posts here about the bullying they’ve experienced, either as a child or an adult, there is almost without exception an outpouring of sympathy, compassion, outrage commiseration and support, and anything out of line is usually shut down almost immediately not just by the mod team (who can’t be everywhere at once) but by the willingness of almost everyone here to bully anyone trying to make this an unsafe space for our marginalised comrades into silence.

  • King Charles has been diagnosed with cancer
    www.abc.net.au King Charles III has commenced treatment for cancer, palace reveals

    Buckingham Palace reveals King Charles will stand down from public-facing duties, having begun treatment for a "separate issue of concern" found while the 75-year-old was being treated for a benign prostate condition last month.

    King Charles III has commenced treatment for cancer, palace reveals
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    communists be like

    im sorry sir but i don't have any more pixels

    stalin ate them all with his big spoon 😔

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    Chad: Protestors on the Street Against Military Junta

    The people reject the position of French President Emmanuel Macron as he supports the junta while calling for a "civilian national unity government."

    Chad's people remain on the street demonstrating against the military junta that took over the government in the aftermath of the death of President Idriss Deby.

    On April 27 the military junta led by Deby's son Mahamat Deby reported the death of five civilians during the protest. Human rights organizations such as the Chadian Convention for the Defence of Human Rights (CTDDH) revealed nine fatalities.

    Protesters who demand civilian rule in #Chad, also protest against France as Paris is backing the military council which came to power through a coup last week. pic.twitter.com/NJOu8bCvCZ — Mucahid Durmaz (@MucahidDurmaz) April 27, 2021

    The people reject the position of French President Emmanuel Macron as he supports the junta while calling for a "civilian national unity government."

    France's support has been pivotal for the military junta to remain in power despite having shut down the parliament and annulling the constitution. Meanwhile, the opposition rejects the appointment of Deby's ally Albert Pahimi Padacke as the civilian head of a transitional government, a unilateral move carried out by the junta.

    -- Telesur, 30 April 2021

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