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    "lmao fuck em. Anyways, for anyone who wants context on the dm harassment stuff, here is our lovely convo.

    The last post came in right before they were banned. I don't know if any response would go through, and frankly I don't care to continue the conversations.

    Also, the operandi thing was very much to tilt them. Anyone who has seen me type here knows I physically cannot type "you", it only comes out as "oyu".

    Further also, they edited their second comment:

    The link is to here. No idea what doomtown is, but the card art is neat. The pfp still looks like linkara trying to trike a pose. Anyone who wishes to continue mocking that pfp, go here. "

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  • Hextube/Hexbear Verification Post

    cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/2338399

    > Hello, users of hexbear as of this post anonymous users will no longer be allowed on Hextube no will users be able to create channels, you may use this post to request additional channels. At the moment there is: > > https://live.hexbear.net/c/movies > > https://live.hexbear.net/c/music > > https://live.hexbear.net/c/anime > > Users will be required to make a username, in order to prevent impersonation of other users on hextube we are creating a verification system. > > You may comment your Hextube username here or send it in a hexbear or matrix(secure) direct message to a > moderator or admin. > > Abuse of this system in any way will result in a ban from Hexbear and Hextube. > > This also serves as a reminder that the Hexbear Code of Conduct must be followed on all Hexbear related services, and any conduct that receives a mod action there will receive on here.

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    Perma banning DayOfDoom as a joke was not okay
  • Unfortunately DoD's comment wasn't reported as I'm sure most thought it was a joke but after getting community banned we reviewed all the accounts comments and came across that one prompting the siteban

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  • They have also committed to federating with threads on their mastodon and lemmy instances. I've heard rumors that Ruud was involved in talks with meta before they unveiled threads when they reached out to the largest mastodon instance admins.

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  • Please report posts and comments containing tracking links, moderators have been asked to act on it. Consider using tankie.tube or invidious for video linking

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  • The tagline should be removed now

  • Holy shit, lemmitor's annoying liberal self righteousness is off the charts
  • Cross-instance reporting does work correctly, and because we are the only instance with a "disengage" rule it is not clear for others. Apologies for any trouble for this matter

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  • On Mega-threads

    Hello users of hexbear after some discussion we mainly wanted to get your thoughts on the two pinned megathreads, one general and one news.

    We've noticed that the news mega has basically become the general mega and the general mega has kinda slowed. Some are thinking that it might be time to tell people to stop posting random shit to the news mega because some appreciate the ever so slightly more serious, focused tone of the news mega

    As of now there is not much of a standard for comments however we wanted to discuss with you regarding making a change. Where the news megathread is for discussion on current events and their history/implications for future while the general megathread is for commenting on one's life, interests, or for shit-posting.

    This would result in the news megathread being more heavily moderated to actively remove comments that are a better fit for the general megathread or off topic.

    Please comment with any thoughts, opinions, comments, questions, or concerns.

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    hexbear @hexbear.net CARCOSA [they/them] @hexbear.net
    What is Hexbear?

    My answer:

    When chapotraphouse was banned on reddit many mods and users came together to create a space on a link aggregator platform.

    Choosing lemmy the original admin and developer team decided to fork it for various reasons. About a year ago, sustained effort was taken to upstream many of the forked features so that we could rebase with current version lemmy and federate.

    Over the years hexbear has become a non-sectarian social media space for sharing news, memes, links, posts and comments with each other as the mods endeavour to make the space welcoming to marginalized people.

    Terms of Service | Code of Conduct | Modlog | Allow-list | PPB

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    Dockside - Transmetropolitan

    https://readcomiconline.li/Comic/Transmetropolitan/I-Hate-It-Here?id=138502

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    Monolith - From Hell

    https://readcomiconline.li/Comic/From-Hell-2009/TPB-Part-1?id=81697#268

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    Engraved in stone - From Hell

    https://readcomiconline.li/Comic/From-Hell-2009/TPB-Part-1?id=81697#119

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    Three Gods - From Hell

    https://readcomiconline.li/Comic/From-Hell-2009/TPB-Part-1?id=81697#54

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    Fair Fight - Watchmen

    https://readcomiconline.li/Comic/Watchmen-2019-Edition/TPB-Part-3?id=160012

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    Nostalgia by Veidt - Watchmen

    https://readcomiconline.li/Comic/Watchmen-2019-Edition/TPB-Part-3?id=160012

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    Manhattan thinking - Watchmen

    https://readcomiconline.li/Comic/Watchmen-2019-Edition/TPB-Part-2?id=160011

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    Manhattan Obliteration - Watchmen

    https://readcomiconline.li/Comic/Watchmen-2019-Edition/TPB-Part-5?id=160015#6

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    Defederation Nomination Post

    Please include a brief description of the nominated instance, why it should be removed from the allow-list or added to the block-list, and include a link to the instance. Off-topic comments will be removed.

    If an instance is already nominated please do not create another top-level comment, reply to that other nomination with your comment and upvote to show your desire to defederate.

    Multiple top-level comments for the same instance nomination will be removed

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    hexbear @hexbear.net CARCOSA [they/them] @hexbear.net
    Federation Nomination Post

    Please include a brief description of the nominated instance, why it should be added to the allow-list, and include a link to the instance. Off-topic comments will be removed.

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    ProleWiki is proud to announce our all-new super cool library! (link inside)

    cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/277223

    > https://en.prolewiki.org/wiki/ProleWiki:Library

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    Generic Femme Fashion Advice

    https://inspo.cc/

    Inspiration board

    A quick preface: The point of this guide is to support users as they search for their style and start building their wardrobe. It’s not totally inclusive and won’t cover absolutely everything you’ll ever need to know as you build your own personal closet. It’s a starting guide.

    Please also note that you won’t find any prescriptive information here. I’m not going to tell you to go out and buy a trench coat, black pumps, and a white button-up because you may never need those things. Women’s fashion is so incredibly diverse that it’d be impossible to lay out guidelines for all women. Instead, I will tell you how to figure out the staples for your wardrobe and how to lay out guidelines for yourself.

    Finding a Style, Building a Wardrobe

    Once you understand the basic elements of style - the central tenets of fit, silhouette, and colour coordination - it is not an uncommon to start desiring to cultivate a personal aesthetic. Whether you eventually find your satisfaction in the staid, tried-and-true preppy aesthetic or end up on the cutting-edge hopefully this guide will help you discover what makes you happy.

    Fortunately, there's no reason to step blindly into the unknown on your quest for sartorial independence - there are numerous resources that can help you develop a knowledge of the huge variety of options out there and serve as sources of inspiration. A large part of developing your own aesthetic is building on what has come before, so leveraging these assets can only help to accelerate the process.

    While they can't compete with the quantity of information available on the internet, one should not discount the value of books. For gaining a better understanding of how garments are created, learning the history of garments from the pantsuit to the high heel, or delving into fashion theory, get reading. Recommendations include Fashion Theory: A Reader and The Japanese Revolution in Paris Fashion. Finding Your Interests

    The most difficult part of the whole process is determining what it is you're interested in - there's no shortage of choices, from the avant garde to the clasically chic, there's someone producing for every niche. Whether they be small, independent designers or corporate giants the quickest path to discovering them is via the internet.

    To start your search think of a character from a TV show or movie whose style you particularly enjoyed. Search Polyvore for their name or the title of what they were in and (hopefully) it will turn up hundreds of sets of clothes that draw inspiration from that character's style, or provide exact lists of what they wore in a particular scence. Use these for styling ideas, but also take note of the brand names and stores that pop up repeatedly.

    Next, turn to tumblr and start pumping those brand names into the search box. Click through to a few blogs and see if the first few posts appeal at all. If they do, follow them. It's much easier to cut down on feeds you don't enjoy later than spend hours trying to find one you wish you'd followed. Save all the images and posts that appeal to you in one form or another - I particularly enjoy using Pinterest for this, as it's easy to quickly scan through your archive at a later date and cull or categorise as you see fit. Once again, if you notice particular brands popping up over and over and it's not already on your list, write it down.

    By now, you'll hopefully have a bevy of blogs to browse for inspiration, plenty of pinnned favourites, and a score or more of retailers to search for items of interest. With that information at your fingertips, it's time for the next stage: Trying and Buying

    Once you've more or less identified the styles and aesthetics that appeal to you through extensive browsing, it is imperative to visit physical stores and try garments on in person. Try to find stockists that carry brands of interest and develop a feel for their sizing, how items can be combined, and start developing a relationship with a sales associate at stores you plan to frequent.

    When experimenting with a new style, start off by purchasing inexpensive items - this does not mean be cheap, but frugal. For designer and high-end clothing, rather than buying new, check eBay for an item, and sell things that don't work out. On the lower end, or for trend items you don't see lasting more than a few seasons, stop in at H&M, Zara, or Topshop and pick up some pieces on the cheap. Their occasional designer collaborations, while not of a much higher quality than their typical offerings, can give you a chance to mix in novel concepts without breaking the bank. Thrifting and consignment shopping can also yield gold with frequent visits, especially for those residing in metropolitan or affluent areas.

    Most importantly, don't decide on a style without having worn it for a while. Pick up a few outfits, mix and match, see how others react, and how you feel. If you come up with something that you love right away, that's great, but don't set it in stone until you research further and are certain it is the direction you wish to go in. Only then is it time to start investing heavily in a wardrobe. Going Further

    Once you discover the message to convey through your garments, it's time to assess what items will add the most to your wardrobe and cement your aesthetic, a careful balancing act of versatility and self-satisfaction. It is not uncommon to find an item that immediately grabs your attention, but if it wouldn't mesh with your current wardrobe or work with two or three items at most, it's not a worthwhile purchase (for the time being). Unless you lack clothing mandatory for a particular activity, such as a job with a dress code or uniform, you do not need an item, and certainly not an expensive designer one. To put it more succinctly, wait to purchase until you find the perfect piece.

    So what should you buy? Find the key pieces that will anchor a chosen identity to your person. For example, if you were interested in the classic preppy look and wanted to project the image of being vaguely sporty, nonchalantly put-together, and ultimately practical, a classic Barbour raincoat of indeterminate age might be a staple of your wardrobe. A gallery owner or curator on the other hand, may be far more attracted to the minimalism of designers such as Jil Sander and instead invest in sparsely detailed outerwear that reveals its provenance only to others of similar taste.

    Once you have identified what impression it is your trying to send, shopping by brand starts to become a useful tool for filtering material of interest ouf of the rapidly evolving and ever changing fashion industry. Think of them as similar to the tags and categories assigned to posts on blogs - Gap might be associated with “plain”, “utilitarian”, “functional”, while Brooks Brothers might be “staid”, “traditional”, and “heritage”. Both our prep aficionado and modernist would pass over these, and instead search for ones described as "heritage", "classic", "pastel", or “refined”, “subtle”, and “minimal”. Either might come across a shirt that is atypical of a brand, say something from Versace that appeals to the futurist, and is an excellent addition to their wardrobe. They should not ignore it or skip purchasing, but it would still be a waste to follow each new collection because those items are so rare. Finding a boutique that tends to make buys matching your aesthetic is another discovery mechanism to consider. Many of these have blogs where buys and info about up-and-coming brands are posted and can be an excellent source of new finds.

    At some point in your aesthetic journey your focus may begin to change, perhaps drifting from tarants and pastels to high fashion and the catwalks of Europe - whether due to a change in living situation or an evolution of taste, embrace it. Bill Cunningham, of NYTimes fame, calls fashion “the armour to survive the reality of everyday life.” If some change calls for different armour, so be it! Never let your style be constrained by how you might have dressed in the past.

    Searching "capsule wardrobe" is a great way to have a minimal yet effective set of clothing.

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    Generic Masc. Fashion Advice

    https://malefashionadvice.substack.com/

    If you have no idea how to dress and want a simple basic wardrobe guide / shopping list to get started, this post is for you.

    Alternatively, for those of you who want to start traversing beyond the basics, I've included some baby steps that are perfectly safe to incorporate in almost any beginner's wardrobe, but offer a little bit more interest and creativity than the most basic of the basic.

    Disclaimer: This guide is targeted toward more traditional clothing styles (essentially, a safe blend of workwear, Americana, and prep). It is not the only way to dress well! If these clothes simply don't appeal to you at all, that's totally okay

    Tops

    Plain crew-neck t-shirts in neutral colors - white and gray are most versatile, but other neutrals such as navy or beige, or simple patterns (e.g., stripes) can be nice.

    Button-front shirts - oxford-cloth button-downs (OCBDs) in white and light blue, flannel/chamois shirts in plaids or solid neutrals

    Baby steps: Try out graphic tees, OCBDs with university stripe patterns, chambray shirts, or a polo shirt (short sleeve or long sleeve). For cool weather, heavyweight shirts in twill, flannel, chamois, denim, or moleskin can keep you a bit warmer, while in warm weather, linen or seersucker shirts can keep you cool.

    Avoid: Graphic tees with meme references, jokes, etc. These are inherently unfashionable.

    Bottoms

    Straight fit jeans in dark indigo, black, and/or medium wash

    Straight fit chinos in tan (khaki), caramel, and/or olive

    If you want to wear shorts, 7-9" chino shorts in khaki, olive, or navy

    Baby steps: Try corduroy pants, cargo pants, linen pants, fatigues, or double knee pants. If you're interested in tucking in a shirt and wearing a layer on top, try looking for pants with higher rises (~11"+). If you're in a "sky's out, thighs out" mood, try getting a pair or two of short shorts with a ~5" inseam.

    Avoid: Chinos with a synthetic flatness and luster. Avoid black chinos, which can look a little formal.

    Mid-layers

    Crew-neck sweater in gray, oatmeal, navy, mustard yellow, or maroon. Keep an eye out for brushed Shetland wool sweaters for some added texture.

    Crew-neck sweatshirt or hoodie in gray

    Baby steps: Consider an overshirt, cardigan, fair isle sweater, turtleneck sweater, or a chunky cable knit/Aran sweater.

    Avoid: Anything too tight and slim. Sweaters and mid-layers are meant to have a bit more space to allow for layering underneath.

    Outerwear (as needed for your specific climate)

    Light jackets such as a trucker jackets in indigo/black denim or tan/olive cotton, chore coats in olive/brown, or field jackets in olive/brown/gray.

    Raincoat in olive, gray, or black, although vibrant colors can work too.

    Warm jacket such as an overcoat or parka in dark neutrals (gray/brown for overcoats, olive/gray/black for parkas).

    Baby steps: There is a whole wide world of jackets out there, both light and heavy, so look into several different varieties to figure out what you like.

    Avoid: Trying to skimp out on jackets if you live in a cold/rainy climate. Being too cold or getting soaked is miserable!

    Shoes

    Canvas or leather sneakers

    Casual brown leather derbies and/or loafers, blucher mocs, or boots

    Baby steps: Try chunkier athletic sneakers or chunky leather shoes if they appeal to you.

    Avoid: Brown minimal sneakers and these sorts of hybrid dress sneaker abominations. Avoid cheap (or faux) leather, which degrades fast and wears in poorly. Avoid wearing shoes two days in a row - they need to air out between wears. Instead, rotate your pairs and use shoe trees to improve longevity.

    Casual tailoring (optional, if needed for a job/event or if you like to wear it)

    Navy Blazer

    Wool trousers in various shades and textures of gray and/or brown

    Baby steps: Try a sport coat with some texture or pattern, such as a brown houndstooth or gray tweed herringbone. Try a pocket square in a puff foldto accessorize with your blazer or sport coat.

    Avoid: Wearing blazers or sport coats without getting them tailored. Make sure they're long enough and that they fit properly (not too slim, not too loose). Read this.

    Semi-formal tailoring (optional, if needed for a job/event or if you like to wear it)

    Navy or charcoal suit, tailored

    White poplin dress shirt

    Oxford dress shoes in black or brown

    A belt that matches your shoes

    Simple dark tie (e.g., burgundy grenadine)

    Baby steps: Unfortunately, there's not much room to experiment with semi-formal or formal clothing. Your best bet is to stick to the basics unless you really know what you're doing.

    Avoid: Black suits, unless you're specifically dressing for a funeral. In general, it's recommended to avoid wearing vests. Don't wear your oxford shoes with less formal outfits. Avoid dress shirts in black or saturated colors. It's generally best to avoid wearing a tie without a jacket or top layer. Avoid skinny ties - stick to ~2.75-3.5" (or 7-9 cm) width. For beginners, avoid bow ties unless 1) it's a black bow tie with a tuxedo (at a black tie event), or 2) you're dressing for prom (go crazy!) Finally, while monkstrap shoes had their moment, that moment has since passed.

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    Hairy Blotter and the Hogwash Legacy containment thread

    Hey everyone I am creating a temporary containment thread for all posts related to the WB video game releasing this week.

    All posts after this one will be removed, consider donating to aid groups for the earthquake.

    Here is a pretty exhaustive list that hasn't really been researched in depth or vetted, please let me know if there are any terrible links and I'll remove them

    LINKS

    DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH FOR EACH LINK:

    https://www.heyvasor.com/en/

    https://www.akut.org.tr/en/donation

    https://konusmamizgerek.org/en/we-need-to-talk/

    https://ahbap.org/

    https://www.ted.org.tr/ulkemizin-basi-sagolsun/

    https://www.rescue.org/

    https://dona.unhcr.it/campagna/emergenza-terremoto-turchia-e-siria/

    https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=ST5BWWFB7FPGS

    https://www.msf.org/

    https://sharethemeal.org/campaigns/earthquake1?adjust_t=g22otdx&hl=en-US

    https://www.sams-usa.net/donate/

    https://www.unicefusa.org/

    https://www.projecthope.org/

    https://www.globalgiving.org/projects/turkey-earthquake-relief-fund/

    https://www.directrelief.org/emergency/turkey-syria-earthquake/

    https://www.savethechildren.org/us/what-we-do/emergency-response/turkey-syria-earthquake

    https://ihh.org.tr/en/gecmis-olsun-turkiye

    https://www.kizilay.org.tr/Bagis/BagisYap/404/pazarcik-depremi-bagisi

    Watch for scams https://isc.sans.edu/diary/29518

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    Russia-Ukraine Megathread 17

    If you have any useful resource links please tag me in a comment with the link:

    Examples of racism/euro-centrism during the Russia-Ukraine conflict

    Add to this if you can, thank you.

    Links

    Time/Map: https://time.is/Ukraine

    https://www.google.com/maps/place/Ukraine/@49.1162725,31.7993839,7z/data=!4m5!3m4!1s0x40d1d9c154700e8f:0x1068488f64010!8m2!3d48.379433!4d31.1655799?hl=en

    Leftist discussion threads:

    https://hexbear.net/post/177324

    https://old.reddit.com/r/GenZedong/comments/t03foy/genzedong_russiaukraine_master_discussion_thread/

    https://lemmygrad.ml/

    Twitter military updaters:

    https://nitter.net/ASBMilitary

    https://nitter.net/Militarylandnet

    https://nitter.net/MihajlovicMike

    https://nitter.net/KofmanMichael

    https://nitter.net/TadeuszGiczan/status/1498673348183744518

    Global South Perspective: https://nitter.net/kiranopal_/status/1498723206496145413

    Better war/propaganda analysis:

    https://www.understandingwar.org

    https://www.moonofalabama.org/

    News updates:

    https://www.cgtn.com/special/UkraineCrisis.html

    Live: https://www.cgtn.com/special/Live-update-Ukraine-Russia-border-crisis.html

    YT/Video in Ukraine:

    https://www.youtube.com/c/PatrickLancasterNewsToday/videos

    https://www.youtube.com/c/RussellBentleyTe

    Previous megathreads

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    Russia-Ukraine Megathread 10

    If you have any useful resource links please tag me in a comment with the link.

    Examples of racism/euro-centrism during the Russia-Ukraine conflict

    Please add to this if you can.

    Links

    Time/Map: https://time.is/Ukraine

    https://www.google.com/maps/place/Ukraine/@49.1162725,31.7993839,7z/data=!4m5!3m4!1s0x40d1d9c154700e8f:0x1068488f64010!8m2!3d48.379433!4d31.1655799?hl=en

    Leftist discussion threads:

    https://hexbear.net/post/177324

    https://old.reddit.com/r/GenZedong/comments/t03foy/genzedong_russiaukraine_master_discussion_thread/

    https://lemmygrad.ml/

    Twitter military updaters:

    https://nitter.net/ASBMilitary

    https://nitter.net/Militarylandnet

    https://nitter.net/MihajlovicMike

    https://nitter.net/KofmanMichael

    https://nitter.net/TadeuszGiczan/status/1498673348183744518

    Global South Perspective: https://nitter.net/kiranopal_/status/1498723206496145413

    Better war/propaganda analysis:

    https://www.understandingwar.org

    https://www.moonofalabama.org/

    News updates:

    https://www.cgtn.com/special/UkraineCrisis.html

    Live: https://www.cgtn.com/special/Live-update-Ukraine-Russia-border-crisis.html

    YT/Video in Ukraine:

    https://www.youtube.com/c/PatrickLancasterNewsToday/videos

    https://www.youtube.com/c/RussellBentleyTe

    Thank you.

    Previous megathreads:

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