It used to feel gay when my finger would punch through the butt wipe and enter my anus. Thankfully I don't have to feel that way when I'm using Dude Wipes.
My former roommate had gastrointestinal issues and used wet wipes because they were less irritating to his skin.
But he just bought regular wet wipes not this gendered nonsense.
Yeah, he had one of those, but he used it in addition to. I don't know the exacts of his condition, but he was using the bidet irregularly but the wet wipes all the time.
The veterans I know say wipes are a god-send on deployment. Dude Wipes are particularly big, which is great for a wipe-down when you don't have access to a shower.
Someone else posted a comparison that shows that they are slightly bigger than a normal flushable wipe but a lot smaller than a normal baby wipe. If you need the size just buy the one with the baby on it.