Women be saying for decades "I don't care about looks or money I just want to date a decent human being who shares my interests and ideals."
And men be like "Nah but what do you really mean."
Like holy shit maybe listen to what women say instead of insisting they're all liars. People don't like being assumed liars for a start so maybe that has something to do with why these fucks can't get a gf.
So many sexist motherfuckers trying to avoid the obvious answer that women won't date them because they're sexist or have niche interests that make them incompatible.
I know a guy like this. He doesn’t think he’s some alpha male, but he thinks they’re all liars, liberal, want to be disrespected, and have a child-like mind. He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and say whatever to get him closer to getting laid.
I don’t think he’s bad looking. He works out, has money, decently tall, and extroverted.
He hasn’t had a successful relationship in a while, if any at all lol. Every time I talk to him he’s complaining and getting angry about dates failing. Now, some of the girls are indeed assholes. But, I feel like when you’re not hideous, proudly admit these mindsets, and every date turns into a disaster, then maybe it’s time to reevaluate.
For context, I’m not exactly slaying out there, but he keeps asking me if “these bitches are stuck up” or “everything become PC after third wave feminism.” I’ve never encountered these types of people outside of twitter screenshots. Even the feminists I know will casually joke about inappropriate, traditionally “politically incorrect” stuff because they don’t think I’m suspicious
He tells me that he constantly lies about his views and says whatever to get him closer to getting laid.
The thing that these guys don't seem to understand is that women can usually tell when these guys are putting on an act or lying to get something. He's probably putting out a million red flags lol
Women have had to become human lie detectors, but for some reason, it's women who are painted as liars or manipulators. Crazy world.
they want to be disrespected and have a child-like mind
Pick one. Most women that fall into the latter category are CHUDs.
Constantly lies about his views
Why? Right-wing beliefs are the most fashionable of all ideologies. It may all be completely idiotic, but people think it's cool to subscribe to its thought-process. Like, I'm the one who has to constantly hide my power level to make sure I don't end up completely isolated from others.
Yet another one of these incel dorks trying to boil interpersonal relationships down to some kind of math equation. You know when they say "it defies ALL logic".
It's because they believe their only hope is to to try to grind up "status" from working out, dressing better/looking slightly better, and having money. Anything to do with not having a disgusting personality is anathema to their consumeristic worldview.
It's been a long time since my exposure to these weirdos, but I think I remember it being some bullshit evo-psych. Because hormonal birth control mimics pregnancy, it turns off women's preference for good quality mates that will produce good offspring and provide for the family, and instead settle down with a nearby man, since the act is already done.
Lol it’s really funny how the right pretend to care about men’s mental health, and the first thing they think about when an “ugly guy” (these people are cum brains so “ugly” to them probably looks like Tom Holland) has a girlfriend is “she is being brainwashed by birth control to like someone so hideous”
Eren Yeager pfp in the year of our Lord 2023 is unforgiveable. 3 years ago I would have let if fly, but now if you have one I'm just gonna assume you're a fascist
I'll be honest, I see other women freak out about this more than men. Like a woman will see another woman dating a guy "below her league" or whatever and assume something is awry and start asking the couple intrusive questions to figure out what is up.
Dudes just seem to assume the guy has money and leave it at that.
Incels leaning that straight/bi/etc women a) have fairly broad tastes as a group and b) prefer someone who loves and appreciates them for who they are rather than a whore or a madonna is always A Time that I am here for. Ditto them learning that mostly, women dress up for themselves.
There's a changing room right behind him with pants hung up and shoes on the floor as well. So it seems he got undressed in the changing room and part way through putting on a shirt he decided to leave.
This guy looks like he could tear a tree out of the ground. If you're looking for a man with a decent shot of making Ozeki and acquiring elder stock, you could do worse
Their entire worldview is built around women being shallower and more vile than they are. If it turns out that women are capable of more introspection than them, that could mean that being an incel makes you an absolute piece of shit human being!
Obviously this means this is all an elaborate ploy to trick the incels somehow with fake boyfriends with great personalities.
This guy is learning that being tall and ripped aren't magic recipes to get women.
The whole six foot and ripped thing is overrated anyway. Most women aren't absolutists who will reject you just because you're under six feet. They prefer it, but they can make exceptions. Same with being ripped. They prefer that too, but again, exceptions can be made. Those factors are only really important if you want to get laid easily and nothing more.
Those factors are only really important if you want to get laid easily and nothing more.
Online right wing dating mentality is so weird.
Like 40% of them are MRA/pick up artist types that hate women but whose entire self worth is based on women’s responses to them, so they’re getting laid but nothing lasts, especially if they’re rich enough to just pay prostitutes and models (since paying someone isn’t a transferable skill in forming real relationships)
The other 50% want to be like the former, but they just want a secret pornstar as a wife who will present herself modestly to outsiders.
The last 10% are guys who don’t get laid but have read a bunch of psudeoscience and misinterpret data and present themselves as Anonymous, Faceless Experts on Women and Becoming Chad on forums and YouTube
refuse to settle for anything less than 10/10 FEEmale (it doesn't matter too much what she looks like but she is kind and sweet and can make me laugh when I am feeling sad and I can cook for her every day and we can cuddle and watch 80s movies together on the couch)
I have known 2 women who were a conventional "10". They picked and chose who they wanted based upon success, money, reputation etc. It all fell apart. They're both in their 50s now. Unmarried, unhappy, realising that the looks never got them what they thought would make them happy. The guys they rejected moved on, settled and compromised in that wholesome way rather than any "simp" way, and are all happily married, successful.
If a woman has picked a partner that's not conventionally "her type" then I say fair do's! A Hampshire expression. May they be happy. Jealousy has no place in any of this.
The problem guys like this have is that if they were honest: their goal isn't a girlfriend and/or a reciprocal romantic partner. They just want to hookup.
Certainly there's nothing wrong with only wanting casual sex but the problem is that if all you actually want is a shallow purely physical relationship without any sort of emotional strings then all you actually can bring to the table by definition is your looks.
Ie: if you only engage with women on a purely superficial shallow level entirely centered around raw physical attraction then quit acting shocked and chagrined when that's how they respond in kind.