The whole world is turning into incels. Its not that there is no one to fuck but that everyone has crippling social anxiety.
Marxists would say that this is a symptom of alienation, that industrial society under capitalism has isolated individuals from their communities, broken up the extended family, and divorced the worker from the fruits of their labor.
I think it has more to do with concrete changes to how people socialize over the past 15 years, namely smartphones and the internet. People seek community through the internet but are functionally isolating themselves, and as irl relationships fade or never happen, they stay online more, which becomes a positive feedback loop. They develop social anxieties only because they have no experience with or are not used to socializing irl
Arch users say this means you should install Arch btw
Yeah, I believe that capitalism, in fact, encourages the isolation of the individial. After all, isolated individuals don't make solidarity (i.e. unions).
And they'd be missing the mark.
Community isolation came well after the dawn of capitalism via car-centric infrastructure, which isn't necessarily a capitalism issue as much as a problem with invention exceeding what's actually needed of it.
The extended family was destroyed by the church long before there even was a capitalism, the European clan structure family was determined to be "ungodly" because it tended to lead to inbreeding and tyranny of cousins scenarios.
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That's how I felt before I tried to kill myself. Relief. I hope OP was actually having a breakthrough instead.
Reminds me of my favorite Kurzgesagt video: Optimistic Nihilism
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It is said that comparing yourself to others is not a good idea. Instead, compare yourself to your old self.
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Sometimes you can find peace in the strangest ways and places!
But what if I'm doing worse than my old self
Gotta think about the reasons and doing something about it then 🙂
Embracing the solitude after 7 years of a toxic relationship has been a blissful realization i tell ya hwhat.
I feel like i am finally my true self instead of having to conform to someone else's notion of what a "boyfriend" should be. I turned 30 this year and i dont think ive peaked yet. The best is yet to come and my confidence is sky high.
Sorry ladies, I'm taken. By the handsome man above my bathroom sink.
God do I envy your mindset. I can't even look in the mirror without wanting to strangle the ugly pile of human trash that I see reflected back at me.
Go easy on him, hes doing his best
Loving yourself is hard. I used to think, "I just need to change/improve, then I'll be someone I can love," but I realized that is putting the cart before the horse. You can't change or improve until you love yourself, because the reality is that when you change or improve, you are still the same person you were, just with new skills, a new haircut, new clothes, whatever. That person you hate never goes away. You just have to love them as they are, and accepts their shortcomings and flaws.
To paraphrase a certain 20h YouTube video:
"This isn't bargaining, this is acceptance. Goodbye,
Skyrimlife."What video is this?
Skyrim was a fun sandbox, but had as good writting as gary's mod.
Parted from kin, banished to a lonely place, I wonder why my heart feels so little anguish and pain.
Consulting Zhuang Zi (daoist writer), I find where I belong. Surely my home is there in Not-Even-Anything land.
Po Zhou Yi, 815 AD.
As an autist in solitude for 8-9 years who has had a long term romantic relationship for 7-8 years. The overall happiness level for me has been slightly better single and abstinent. There are positives and negatives from both ways of life but happiness does usually equalize
Why bother with the human experience, after all, if we're doomed to eventually forget it?
solitude is the highest state of human existence
Nothing better than solitude.
Well yeah dont feel sad about them but still work to find love.
Acceptance is the final stage of grief
This man is halfway to Nirvana already
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After a couple of bad relationships, I stopped caring about getting married, it took a weight off my back.
He's gonna catch so much trim now.
Bruh, that's how Odium wins though
Meh, I just found some locals in the SW community, turns out being good with your mouth makes you a well liked enough client to start making legit friends
The more men who give into being single, the better my chances are. Imagine if I were to make this man feel wanted. If we're compatible as well, we could be happy.
Bruh. You don't have to live your life as an incel who accepts their fate. Never getting to kiss someone or hold their hand? Why? Are you stupid?
I wish you could live a month in my head to understand
