People have 2 friends? Blimey that's a lot

You guys have friends?

Grown-ass llama here. I use element, signal, and simple x for communications with friends and family.
I think it's important to have secure private messaging between individuals and groups. We get to talk about all kinds of stuff, asynchronously across multiple time zones.

It's a work thing.

I have a friend group for 25 years, I will be 33 this year.
It's always sad to read replies to posts like these with people saying they have no friends.
And since I am a guy I can literally not talk to some of them for months and just literally pickup where we left off and talk for hours without it feeling awkward, forced whatever
- Yeah same here. Turning 30 soon.
  I have my group of friends from literally middle school. My circle from college. Small group of friends from my internships, some coworkers I’ve kept in contact with who visit every so often. We all keep in contact. Some more often than others. Sometimes life gets in the way for months/years, sometimes we don’t get along and fight, but we always, ALWAYS make it up in the end, learn from what got us butting heads in the first place, and pick right back up where we left off like it never happened in he first place.
  This isn’t meant as a brag or anything; I feel incredibly lucky, fortunate and grateful to be surrounded by so much unconditional love. And I always feel so sad when I see comments from people who are going through life solo. Life is a harsh mistress, and I couldn’t imagine going through it by myself. The relationships I have with others make it much easier.
  I know it sounds cliche, but keeping your heart open, understanding that others will be different from you (which means you can always learn something from them), and being forgiving even under the toughest of situations is what powers me each and every day.
  If you’re reading this and looking for a sign to change, well this is your sign. Go join the yoga class, keep an open heart with your coworkers, maybe text that friend you haven’t spoken to in years. I’m sure they’d love to hear from you. Life is so much better this way, I promise.
- I'm in my 40s and have multiple long-standing circles of friends going back decades (each with their own group chat). I even made new friends recently through channels other than my existing friends (started going to local fighting game community events).
  I definitely feel bad for the people who talk about having very few or even no close friends and seem to frame it as some kind of inevitability that comes with adulthood. Life without my friends would absolutely be a lot worse.
  
  Agreed. I couldn’t imagine life without the unconditional love and support my friends give me.
  Some folks feel that they need to go through life alone. It doesn’t have to be that way! Open up your heart and meaningful relationships will start filling your life before you know it. I promise!
- And since I am a guy
  Just using your post as a springboard to get all 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
  but I wonder how much of the idea of "women's friendships decay, men's friendships can pick up exactly where they left off" is based on reality.... And how much of it is just a stereotype based on social norms that are no longer true. Y'know, like the idea that "women have naturally better emotional intelligence" (the reality is that most young boys were and on some level still are discouraged from engaging with emotions in general, and it's hard to get good at something with no practice)
  I can't even cite personal anecdotal experience as an argument for or against because my friendship group is mostly queer dudes with the occasional transgender chick or enby person.
  
  As a woman I have friend's I just talk to whenever I want, like once or twice per year and never had a problem with them. Athough there were friends I lost because we didn't have enough contact and they didn't like that. Looks like it depends on the person and not the gender. Who would have thought that ;-)
  
  It doesn't apply in my case. I'm a woman and I have a female friend (former coworker, she's moved back to NI now) who I can just pick up with where we left off. She forgot to install telegram for almost a year on her new phone so I had to text her to remind her I exist, and we just went back to chatting like nothing happened. I'm autistic and she's a bit weird, so I don't know if that affects anything. But we can go a few months without chatting and it doesn't matter. In my case, if someone is important/significant to me, then it doesn't matter if a few months go by. Same with the few relatives I get on with. If we're talking several years, then yeah, people change, grow, move on.
  
  I think women have naturally better emotional intelligence and I don't think it's because boys are told not to be emotional. I think women just see things that men don't
- Same here, not a chat for that many years though
- Why is it sad? It is just modern fact of life that each person is alone.
  
  Children still starving is also a fact, doesn't make it not sad.

Then you absolutely need a group chat for both of them to get acquainted so they can hate the experience and individually ghost you as a result.
- Not on me if your only other friend sucks ass and can't handle a simple Steam chat to get a game going without being an insufferable dick. Or whatever.

Are you sure they don't know each other?
Maybe they are in their own chat talking shit about you?
- I KNEW IT!!

You guys have friends?

Funny that
I wouldn't have made it to adulthood without my friend circle. I'd have ragequit life long ago.
The little groupchat of funny internet nerds I built up over these past 15 years is my entire backbone.
- Nothing lasts forever, don’t put all your eggs in one basket.
  
  The first step to lasting friendships is not being a lil' bitch.

I have a group chat going with my best friends, on Signal too.
It's a great place to share the memes, news etc we find. Also some discussions once in a while and planning to meet.

I'll be honest, none of my friends would get along with each other.
One friend and I make more than the other 3 combined. One friend has so many things he does and groups of friends I don't know, so I don't get to hang out with him much. Another friend is all the nuerodivergence, intelligent, but a filterless activist and who really could choose her battles better. The last friend can be overwhelming to talk to.
Having them in a group would just ruin it
- Username checks out so hard LOL.
  It's a hard fact of life that friendship compatibility isn't a transitive property. I lament that differing people I like to hang out with, likely wouldn't wanna hang out with each other.
  And then I'm like "How the heck do friend groups get started then?!" Lol
  
  I had a friend group in college. It was awesome. Then we graduated and never saw eachother again. Primarily because we were the only remaining CS students in our year.

Mine do… Chili, meet Cheese

This should be in shitposts, not memes?!