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  • As an admin, when I'm scrolling through and I see a post with -200 votes, it immediately lets me know I should look at what's going on. That said, I'm sensitive to the fact that certain content gets downvoted ... unfairly? disproportionately? and it's not fun for a lot of people. I'm honestly of two minds.

  • Working on a graphic treatment (more in post)
  • One layer for stripes, one for dots, one for a drop shadow (when it's necessary). And yes, I like 260 degrees but it can take other angles as well.

  • Photography @lemmy.world Mikey Mongol @lemmynsfw.com
    Working on a graphic treatment (more in post)

    I'm working on this graphic treatment for fun stylized portraits. What do we think?

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    AI-created children count as children and are forbidden content
  • If we're talking about the same person, there was one multi-image post that was unquestionably over the line and one or two more that were (IMO) borderline. Given the context provided by the one post we chose not to give the benefit of any doubt.

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    AI-created children count as children and are forbidden content
  • You must be new here. Read the rules.

  • AI-created children count as children and are forbidden content

    I can't believe that I have to post this, but AI kiddie stuff is still kiddie stuff. It may or may not be illegal where you live, but it is not OK to post on this instance and we will ban you with extreme prejudice. Thank you.

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    I just let a well-known pornstar grind out a cigarette on my wrist, AMA
  • It's a dirty job but someone has got to do it.

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    I just let a well-known pornstar grind out a cigarette on my wrist, AMA
  • Half million twitter followers, bunch of mainstream company releases, not an A-lister but well known if you're into their specific genre. Female. They are a friend, we chat all the time. She's hella autistic, but a nice person.

    It was during a shoot and the shot needed it. I was directing and I wasn't gonna ask someone else to do something if I wasn't willing to do it myself so... I did it. It's not my thing at all but we didn't have anyone who really really wanted it, so...

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    Sugar Hoops in long exposure
  • Wow, Lemmy really screws up the image quality on upload! Try this: link to Purple Port

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    I just let a well-known pornstar grind out a cigarette on my wrist, AMA
  • Didn't even blink. I asked them to give it a sec to let the cherry burn down a bit but otherwise there was no hesitation.

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    I just let a well-known pornstar grind out a cigarette on my wrist, AMA
  • You know, it felt like someone was putting a cigarette out on my wrist. It's absolutely not my kink, but the shot needed it so...

    Also there are a few tricks you an use so you're not as badly burnt as people may think. You give the cig a little bit to cool down so it's still lit, but not bright red, and you lick your wrist a couple of times immediately ahead of the burn. Still hurts like a motherfuck though.

  • Portrait of Keila
  • I appreciate your feedback! Both of those choices were deliberate, believe it or not.

  • Portrait of Keila
  • We've worked together for a few years now, so we have a pretty good unspoken chemistry.

  • Photography @lemmy.world Mikey Mongol @lemmynsfw.com
    Portrait of Keila

    I helped my friend Keila buzz her head, and then we did some fun portraits! I am obsessed with her bone structure.

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    How Long Do You Last?
  • Essentially forever. If I want to orgasm not only do I have to concentrate, but I need very specific kinds of stimulation. It's a real bother most of the time, but I have never in my life finished early, so...

  • Welcome new users!
  • I don't think we've let user apps get any older than 24 or so hours, but we are just people! If someone slipped through the cracks and had to wait longer, I'm sorry.

  • Episode Discussion | Star Trek: Strange New Worlds | 2x09 "Subspace Rhapsody"
  • I love musicals and I love Trek so I was hoping I would love this episode, but I just didn't, and I think it was mostly because the music was... bad? It wasn't catchy, it wasn't fun, there was not one single legitimate bop during the whole episode. Uhura's last line about an earworm struck me as a sour note because... no. Not a single earworm to be had in the whole thing. I couldn't hum a single song from that episode and I watched it less than an hour ago. The only number that had any spark to it at all was Chapel's number at the lounge, and it was barely a spark.

    Even Una's alleged Gilbert and Sullivan riff was barely, barely recognizable as a take on G&S. It was to G&S as a brick spraypainted orange is to a glass of refreshing orange juice. You're gonna do G&S in a musical episode and not do patter? Come on, son.

    I just can't get behind this episode, and I was truly prepared to be thrilled. I mean the cast tried hard, but in a musical the music has to be good, and this wasn't.

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    New name who dis 💕 [oc] [f]
  • Can I assume you were able to access this account then? :)

  • Many reports from lemmy.world users on things not being tagged nsfw

    Hi again, Mikey from lemmynsfw.com here again. So every day we get several reports from lemmy.world users about posts not being tagged NSFW when they are actually tagged NSFW.

    At first I thought this might be some kind of federation lag, maybe the OC forgot to put the NSFW tag on their post, then edited it, but the edit took some time to federate and that's why lemmy.world users saw it without the tag. While that's still possible, lemmy.world is the only instance that I'm getting consistent reports from about nsfw posts not being tagged when they are tagged. You'd think that if it was a federation issue I'd be getting them from everywhere, not just here.

    Anyhow, I don't much mind the reports because they take zero effort to resolve, but it is something we may want to look into.

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    Another purge of empty communities

    Hi everyone! We are once again purging empty communities. It's happening in a day or two. Make an on-topic post in your empty comm if you want to have it not purged.

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    lemmy.blahaj.zone has defederated from us

    One of the admins at lemmy.blahaj.zone asked us to purge a community and all of its users because they thought it was full of child sexual abuse material, aka CSAM, fka kiddy porn. We assured them that we had checked this comm thoroughly and we were satisfied that all of the models on it were of age.

    The admin then demanded we purge the comm because they mistook it for CSAM, and claimed that the entire point of the community was to make people think it was CSAM. We vehemently disagreed that that was in fact the point of the community, but they decided to defederate from us anyway. That is of course their choice, but we will not purge our communities or users because someone else makes a mistake of fact, and then lays the responsibility for their mistake at our feet.

    If someone made a community intended to fool people into thinking it was kiddy porn, that would be a real problem. If someone of age goes online and pretends -- not roleplays, but pretends with intent to deceive -- to be a child and makes porn, that is a real problem. Nobody here is doing that.

    One of the reasons we run our instance the way that we do is that we want it to be inclusive. We don't body shame, and we believe that all adults have a right to sexual expression. That means no adult on our instance is too thin, fat, bald, masculine, old, young, cis, gay, etc., to be sexy, and that includes adults that look younger than some people think they should. Everyone has a right to lust and to be lusted after. There's no way to draw a line that says "you can't like adult people that look like X" without crossing a line that we will not cross.

    EDIT: OK, closing this post to new comments. Everything that needs saying has been said. Link to my convo with the blahaj admin here.

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    Welcome new users!

    Hi all! Mikey here, one of your fearless admins. We've had so many new users lately that I wanted to bid you all welcome! Have a look around. You'll need an account to see the nsfw content, which is most of it. Feel free to sign up for one -- we rarely go more than a few hours, maybe a day at most, without zeroing the application queue.

    We like new people and we strongly encourage to you participate, not just lurk! But before you do, please check the rules in the right-hand sidebar of the main page (or here) and also give the ol' FAQ a quick clickeroonie: https://docs.lemmynsfw.com/docs/faq/.

    Our purpose is to be a safe, friendly place for NSFW "research" on the Fediverse . I know a lot of you are coming over from reddit and so I would like to stress that despite superficial similarities, we are not reddit and we don't want to be reddit. The vibe around here is different and some things that were common over there are not acceptable around here. Please make note of our content restrictions. We are especially picky about respect and consent, and we take our sourcing policy seriously.

    Things are still pretty new around here and there are a lot of rough edges, so we hope you'll try to bear with us. Lemmy isn't fully featured yet, so running a Lemmy instance, let alone an NSFW instance, is kind of like trying to build a plane while it's already in the air.

    If you have any new user questions you can comment here, post in c/asklemmynsfw, or if you use matrix, there's a public operations page: https://matrix.to/#/#lemmynsfw:matrix.org (what Lemmy is to Reddit and Mastodon is to Twitter, matrix is to Slack or Discord). You can also message me or another admin, but matrix will probably get you a faster reply.

    Thanks everyone! Welcome once again, and I hope to see you around.

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    NSFW tag not federating?

    Hi all, LemmyNSFW.com admin here. We're getting a lot of reports from this instance of posts from our instance not being correctly tagged NSFW, but they are showing as correctly tagged on our end. Could the NSFW tag not be federating correctly?

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    Reports with no subject or the subject "Spam or Abuse" will be ignored

    Hi all! Apparently there are a couple of Lemmy apps now where the "report" button is right next to the "share" button, and so we've been getting inundated with a bunch of reports that aren't actually real. One of those apps defaults to putting no text in the box where you're supposed to put in the reason for reporting, and the other one defaults to "Spam or Abuse".

    We don't have the resources to go chasing down all bajillionty-twelve of those reports we're getting on the off chance that one or two may be real, so for the time being any report with either nothing or "Spam or Abuse" in the subject line will be swept into the circular file, unless we can tell just by looking at the post and not clicking anything (no nsfw tag, obvious off-topic spam) that it's a bad post.

    Thanks!

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    ADMIN: Please stop reporting OnlyFans models as spam just because they are OF models

    Please stop reporting all OF models as spam. If a post is off-topic, report is as off-topic. If community rules forbid OF models from posting, report that. If a user is flooding a sub with multiple posts a day in a row, that's a legit report as well.

    Otherwise a post by an OF model is not in and of itself spam, even if it is made by a <ferengi>female</ferengi> with the temerity to control her own sexuality.

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    Proposed rules update, 8 July 2023

    Hi all! As promised, here is the proposed text of the newest version of the rules. The staff has gone through like eight drafts and literally thousands and thousands of matrix posts to get here, so please be kind. You can see @limeey's comment on the transparency post if you want more insight into how this sausage was made.

    We are opening these rules to commentary from the community before they go into effect. To be clear, this isn't a vote, but we will take all community feedback into account and answer whatever questions we can before finalizing anything.

    Please keep in mind that we are not Reddit, we do not have Reddit's resources, and safety and consent are our priorities.

    I'll post the draft in two parts in two comments: The new sidebar, and the FAQ/clarifications page.

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    Weird spam reports from this instance?

    Hi Lemmy.world admins! I'm an admin over on lemmynsfw.com. We've been getting a handful of reports on posts on our instance from lemmy.world users, all with the subject "Spam or Abuse", and in all but one case the post was neither spam nor abuse.

    Could there be something weird with federation going on? It doesn't seem like malicious reporting and it doesn't seem to be following any pattern that we can tell. It's just weird.

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    [ADMIN] pruning empty comms

    About a quarter of the communities here have 0 posts in them. We're going to start pruning the 0-post comms in the next couple of days. If you have a comm with 0 posts that you want to keep alive, please make an on-topic post in it. Otherwise you're going to lose it.

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    [ADMIN] c/Futanari needs a moderator

    Do we have any volunteers? It is a medium traffic community.

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    [ADMIN] Question for the mods of foot fetish comms

    Hey, if you mod a foot fetish comm, we're looking for some input: How do you feel that technically SFW images of feet should be tagged: NSFW, or not NSFW?

    On the one hand, SFW is SFW. On the other hand, they're definitely being presented in a fetishy context for the ol' spank bank and in that context are probably not actually safe for viewing at work.

    This isn't a binding poll, we're just looking for community input before we make our decision.

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