LeylaLove [she/her, love/loves] @ LeylaLove @hexbear.net

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I just had to do it

Bump amber whataboutism

Oh boy I'm fucked, my Medicaid ran out. Time to see how long I can continue paying for treatment for schizophrenia without insurance 🙃

Thank God, I normally charge $20 to take off my shoes, I appreciate TSA not sneaking in a free show from me

I wonder how this will affect meth prices

I'm sorry Corgi

It's sober living, so unfortunately we're not really capable of kicking him out

Housemates driving me crazy as always

Been on Taimi for about a month and finally got two interactions back to back that give me the ick after nothing but positive experiences

::: spoiler CW: fatphobia, fetishism, transphobia

So the one that's more bothersome to me was actually with another trans woman. She was fairly forward with what she wanted sexually, and I was okay with it so we exchanged some pictures. I send her some pictures of me fully naked and she just responds with "Wow I can tell you like to eat a lot".she then goes in on me for not being perfectly shaved. Keep in mind that according to most metrics (which are bullshit, everybody's healthy weight is different) I'm only 10 pounds overweight and I just shaved last week so my body hair wasn't even out of control, just not perfect. Not that this behavior would have been okay if I were more overweight, or less well shaved, but Jesus Christ some people are ridiculous with their standards. Like my sister in Christ, you swiped on me, you knew I was a little bit chubby, why did you have to try to make me feel like shit over it?

Second one is one that I don't even know how to feel about. So I have a thing for bigger girls. I've dated people of all body types, I don't discriminate, but I find fat femmes really beautiful. Well I match with a fat femmes, and things go fine for a little bit, albeit more sexually charged than I'm used to. Oh well, she's hot so I'm down. Well she starts going into more fetish territory, asking if I'd want to massage with her belly, see an ultrasound of her belly, ect. completely unprompted. Some of it is stuff I'd be down for, others just seem too dehumanizing to her for me to be interested in. You know what though, whatever gets you off, who am I to draw the line on how much someone can fetishize themselves. She then starts asking about more serious relationship questions with no transition, asking what I'd do if I got her pregnant, what I look for in a date, that kind of stuff. Keep in mind that we're like an hour into a conversation at this point, she's asking if I'd be with her forever if I got her pregnant. I give honest answers and say I'd want to get to know her more. She then asks if my "male instinct" would kick in if she was pregnant. I ask what the fuck she means by this and she just brushes it off. She is now back to sending me fetish-y texts all day, even though I haven't responded since the "male instincts" thing.

Idk, the whole conversation felt like she was trying to fetishize herself to find someone to be with her with how she'd switch between the fetish stuff and relationship questions on a dime and that's what really felt icky about it. It was like watching another trans woman purposefully appeal to chasers. Am I overreacting? Is this something that's reasonable to be put off by or am I just being a kink shamer?,

Having a good diet helps but doesn't cure IBS

Bump amber whataboutism

Bump amber whataboutism

Shrekland never ceases to be funny

Bump amber whataboutism

I know, I'm a bottom too so I come up with some scenarios for sure

Goth girls be wild

They're more influenced by the storytelling than the gameplay, and I don't think you need to know much about the first game to get into two. However, the gameplay is more adjacent to something like the original Deus Ex or Thief where it's about as open as a linear game can be. You should be testing the moments you think "is the game gonna let me do that?" Because there's a good chance the game will let you.