Bolshechick [she/her] @ Bolshechick @hexbear.net Posts 0Comments 27Joined 2 mo. ago
Why oh why did God curse me with being a goddamn cishet dude
Me, just a few months before coming out as trans
I swapped to gel, and use the cute normal ones on my toes (polish on my toes doesn't really chip and lasts a lot longer than on my fingers)
I mean, we're all play acting at being whatever gender; cis people too even. Gender is a performance, it's gonna take practice no matter when you start and no matter what you look like when you start. Why not start practicing now?
Chat I think I'm falling in love again. I must have the kind of swag that trans guys love, because in addition to all my closest friends bring trans guys, every one I have matched with on a dating app for the past year and a half has been a trans guy. I'm pan, so I feel this is statistically unlikely, but I'm not complaining lol. But, I matched with a new guy recently and it's going so well and he's completely my type
Idk how I keep pulling cute boys, I am hideous. But I'm happy
God I love boys!! I could never have imagined that 5 years ago, lol. My love for non-boys has always been there, and hasn't gotten any less. But it wasn't till I figured out that I wasn't a boy that I realized I like boys
I've been doing esketamine treatments for a while. In my experience, they have helped a good bit, but shrooms have been a good bit more effective (probably at least partly cuz I can take a big dose, but with the legal esketanine they just give you a fixed dose)
No socialist country has used common law. Common law being dialectical and civil law being idealist might be the mind boggling take I've ever seen on this site
Same. Like, if I wasn't forced into a gender from birth, and there was no social pressure to have one, then if I did still decide that I want breasts, to be on estrogen and not testosterone, then would I even be trans in anything like the way I am now? Or would that be more like getting a tattoo or piercing is now.
Like in the future i want, things would be so different, I don't think the categories we have now would even apply (for the most part, at least)
Hmm, maybe I need to watch dirty pair, lol.
My 100% vibes based analysis is that 0.5-1% and 3% are both low. Both for the reasons you mentioned, but also because I feel like in a more open society there would be a lot more agender, non-binary (non-trinary? for societies with a 3rd gender), people doing thier own gender, etc. Like even in a society with a third gender, while that's better than just two, there is still a lot of pressure to be one of those three, yeah? In guess I feel like too many studies shit trans people still are too binary focused. But idk. Do you work in stats? You probably know more on this than me
Ahhhhh, that makes sense.
3% seems pretty low to me, but the majority of people I know are non-binary trans people, so my perspective might be skewed.
What's the left-handed graph? I'm not familiar.
Personally, I imagine that, in a society that was truly free of gender-based oppression and where people weren't forced into gender at birth, most people wouldn't even have a gender (though probably a few people would, like as a hobby kinda?). But I could be totally wrong on that. I think you can really only guess how many people would be trans or whatever else once so the bullshit is removed: we're too deep in the bullshit to have any real idea.
My fiancée didn't like the name "girl bag" for my balls
It's something special, not something to hide away
Agree! I love being trans!
And I understand wanting to be safe and wanting to not have to deal with transphbic comments, worry about violence, etc. But assimilation isn't a real path towards that, only dismantling patriarchy is.
Yeah, it's just liberal bullshit.
What we actually need is a gender cultural revolution
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