Yeah, kids, this is the public facing internet. If you dox yourself and have said comments you wouldn't say out loud to someone, it could come back to haunt you. Be careful out there.
I haven’t said anything I wouldn’t say out loud to someone but the tricky thing is that you are saying things to the entire planet essentially. Someone, somewhere is bound to be offended.
Exactly. People need to understand the difference with the fediverse vs a walled garden. They aren't breaking in or doing anything wrong. You are blasting all of your posts and comments out to anyone who wants to listen
I'm old and crusty, and remember an internet without user accounts that were tied to a real name. This was the norm, and so it should be again.
Anyone could creep theough my posts and comments, and get a rough idea about me, but not accurate enough to identify me.
My online identity isn't my real world identity. But I still care about my online identity and as such I don't want to taint my name by being (that much of) an ass, and hopefully that should result in people associating my handle with (somewhat) reasonable input, the same way they do with my real name.
As far as I understand votes are published as ActivityPub messages, otherwise multiple servers could not have the same vote counts. They need to be able to deduplicate the same vote coming from two different servers.
So everyone can read your votes there's just not an easy UI for it.
If you just assume that everything you put online is being saved and used by everyone and everything you'd be better off.
This used to be the default when I was a kid. Never give out your real name. Never give out personal information. Don't post pictures or videos of yourself or anyone you know or that contain identifying info like addresses, landmarks or anything else that might make it easier for someone to figure out where/who you are.
All the data you send to Lemmy can be viewed by just about anyone. Including your votes. Deleting something doesn't necessarily get rid of every instance of your content across the whole fediverse or anything that's scraping data (including other users who just have a habit of saving every single thing). If you have an app that lets you share content and you find a "deleted by creator" post, you can even copy the post body and paste it elsewhere to see what it said prior to the deletion.
Always assume everything you put anywhere on the internet is going to be saved somewhere whether you want it to or not.
It's wild to me how many people have forgotten or refuse to follow basic Internet safety. People complain about privacy and then attach things to their real name. Stop that. Make up a name and use that one instead. No, don't put your birth year in your email address. You think using a reversed version of your mother's maiden name is real clever but it really isn't. Stop that.
The infuriating issue I'm dealing with lately is the crossover between IRL and internet friends. They refuse to stop naming when typing or speaking. I don't care that they know who I am, but there's a reason that I want my nickname being used when we're in a discord server and random fucking people join in. It's even worse on forums. You go to one meetup and suddenly someone wants to make a post saying, "it was great to meet X, Y, Z, AA, AB, AC, AD, AE, AF...." using the names of the people instead of their aliases, or worse using both. And of course they took a picture.
I blame facebook. It introduced and reinforced the concept of name=person=online to everyone.
Assume they do have access, as do the Russians and the Chinese and whoever else. Don't share identifying info. Limit even non-identifying info that is unique to minimize opportunities for triangulation.
I think back to training I had many years ago about posting enough info that my identity could be obtained. Post that I was a soldier and it does next to nothing to identify me. Post that I lost a leg and it starts narrowing down but still not enough to identify me. Post that I am from Idaho and someone with any websearch skills can make a pretty good guess who I am, or at least narrow down to where more direct techniques can be used. And because it's quite difficult to remember all the details I've posted, I tend to nuke my account and start from scratch periodically, especially any account that touches on the political.
Those were examples btw, I am not a legless vet nor a potato farmer. Or am I?
Corollary I am already doxed and I don't post things I would not associate with in my personal or professional life.
I assume that someone vindictive could use things against me that I say, so I only say things I believe in or that are obvious satire. I'm outright hostile to people that don't have any empathy or critical thinking ability. I'm hostile to my co-workers when they don't show any critical thinking skills and I guess that's privilege I enjoy.
On the other side of the coin, I use my real name openly and have done so for decades. I'm also openly trans, and it's not hard to work out where I'm from, so with that, it's trivial to track me down. Yet I'd rather roll the dice of that possibility than interact anonymously, and lose my connections and community.
Oh, hi Mark! I wish more people would take the approach to start new accounts periodically. I was amazed at people on Lemmy complaining about losing 15 year accounts from le Reddit.
I honestly don’t know why AI companies aren’t pushing Lemmy and Mastodon. Meanwhile they’re paying Reddit millions. If everyone switched, they could just open an instance and vacuum everything over activity pub.
Reddit has 15+ years of content. We have soon 1 year of "many" users and a few years before that with sparse content. There is no comparison now and the companies need the data now.
It's easier/faster/cheaper to just pay for it and they get a lot of already existing data as well. Even if they'd pay the low price of a dollar for every monthly active user on Reddit to switch over to lemmy, that'd cost them 850 millions.
Weren't people losing their shit when a certain four letter corporation started reading information from the fediverse?
I don't really understand it, public posts are public, and you should assume that anyone you don't like can read them.
Worth noting that your IP and password are stored only on your instance, and pms are visible to only the source and destination instance. So that information is as private as stuff like Gmail or Discord.
Without wanting to stir that hornets nest again, it wasn't so much about that four letter company reading what we wrote on Lemmy that people were concerned about, more that it was inevitable wed end up seeing content from the sort of right wing shitfest accounts like libsoftiktok etc and the so-called minority groups here would be brigaded by masses of these people.
Agreed, and that is a perfectly valid concern. But there were certainly some people that focused a bit much on the "they can read and use machine learning on my posts!" part of things.
The same as anywhere else on the internet. Anonymity is the user’s responsibility, not the platform. This is generally the case.
The server operator and every hop on the network, along with dns has your IP. Tor or a trustworthy VPN on a burner phone hotspot driving around in a van with an untraceable Craigslist laptop would do the trick.
Nothing. A social network is a public forum, and you have no expectation of privacy on a public forum.
DMs are the exception, and it should be explained to users that they are not private. E2E DMs would be cool, but the potential for spam and abuse is just too high.
They won't see the data of people they don't follow, and if they pop up and start following everyone they're going to get defederated.
Of course, it's relatively trivial to scrape the information without setting up a fediverse instance, so I don't think mastodon.prism.gov is something we'll need to worry about any time soon.
What sort of data are you talking about? I see posts and comments from people I don't follow in Local and All communities. Actually how do you follow an account in Lemmy?
So, on lemmy, you get content federated to you from remote instances by subscribing to communities on those remote instances. If a community exists on a remote instance, but no one from your instance subscribes to it, then no one on your instance will see any of the content posted to that community.
It works similar for mastodon and the regular fediverse, but in those cases, you follow people instead of communities.
Either way though, if no one from your instance subscribes to a particular remote account, be it a person or a community, then you don't get the content from that account on your instance.
I would assume the fediverse is like the US government where a new state cannot be admitted to the union without the consent of the other states, which would ensure for example that something like the Church of Scientology couldn't make Lemmy.ology, though maybe I'm just taking that rule of thumb for granted.
Unless I misunderstand something, that sounds like it would defeat one of the core purposes of a fediverse. If there is no membership coordination, it at least seems like it would be less a council and more like what it would be if it was just a group of sites with a common goal.
Are people downvoting what I was saying because they think I was asserting a statement of fact or because they disagree with that being how it should work (or because I used Scientology in my example)? Cue the line "this is why we can't have nice things".