(guess I should set up pronouns, but since it's very relevant here I'm a cis man irl and the partners are usually women)

I'm starting to interact with a person in a way that may lead to another romantic relationship, but I feel I haven't exactly found the solutions of the issues I had with the last one.

I am fine with continuing the volcel lifestyle, but I've seen enough autistic people having stable relationships to wonder if maybe it's possible to do this in way that respects my specific brain quirks.

I like reading theory, anybody have some theory on autistic relationship building rather than the usual communist stuff?