People keep making these memes, yet I keep seeing plenty of vitriol in the comments
Aight bro, you wanted it that way!
COME HERE FOR A HUG!
Just don't ask what lemmy app is the best. Trust me.
Literally had someone tell me, unless the lemmy police were actively trying to take my app away, I have no right to complain about the elitism, lol.
Don't tell em about the Sync discussions
Yeah, there's plenty of other examples of toxicity, but the Sync discussions are the easiest to point to example.
Ultimately, Lemmy has most of the same issues with condescension, toxicity, and pointless argument as reddit did
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Or the announcement of lemmy.world admins preemptively defederating from Hexbear.
Or the announcement of lemmy.world admins NOT preemptively defederating from Threads.
Or when there's politics involved.
Idk man... I've seen some truly passive aggressive comments sometimes. To the point where one could say 'I don't like your tone buddy'. Let's not glorify and patronize communities one over the other.
Oh, you've seen truly passive aggressive comments have you?!? Name every one.
True. It's still a good aspiration. Maybe we can get there.
I just wish people would stop bringing that “classic Reddit performative snark” with them over here
People on lemmy are taking the blue pill and thinking that the fediverse is wholesome, the fediverse is many things (mostly positive) but saying that we've got no assholes is a lie (OP did say that "the whole fediverse is wholesome ❤")
I just blocked Lemmygrad and hexbear and haven't had any issues at all with jerks since
Those two and exploding heads are trash.
I actually saw someone change their mind in a heated thread. It was amazing.
What open mindedness does to a mf
It used to happen on Reddit.
Then the Trumpening...
Yeah, on Reddit, especially in bigger communities, if you admitted you were wrong about something (or not at least technically correct in some way), you'd get downvoted and had asshats commenting how dumb you are, so they'd get upvoted for that.
Here, there's less people to dunk on you, and I imagine, also just fewer kids, who need the validation from dunking and aren't yet as self-reflected...
What the fuck did you just fucking type about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at MIT, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids with Anonymous, and I have over 300 confirmed DDoSes. I am trained in online trolling and I’m the top hacker in the entire world. You are nothing to me but just another virus host. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on the Internet, mark my fucking words. You think you can get away with typing that shit to me over the Internet? Think again, fucker. As we chat over Lemmy I am tracing your IP with my damn bare hands so you better prepare for the storm, maggot. The storm that wipes out the pathetic little thing you call your computer. You’re fucking dead, kid. I can be anywhere, anytime, and I can hack into your files in over seven hundred ways, and that’s just with my bare hands. Not only am I extensively trained in hacking, but I have access to the entire arsenal of every piece of malware ever created and I will use it to its full extent to wipe your miserable ass off the face of the world wide web, you little shit. If only you could have known what unholy retribution your little “clever” comment was about to bring down upon you, maybe you would have held your fucking fingers. But you couldn’t, you didn’t, and now you’re paying the price, you goddamn idiot. I will shit code all over you and you will drown in it. You’re fucking dead, kiddo.
Lmao here we go! I’ve always loved the variations of this copypasta.
I think the difference is that it's possible to actually engage with the community on Lemmy.
On Reddit if I see something I have a story or thought on there are already 5000+ comments. The only people responding to me are trolls and those with nothing to do but look for a fight.
On lemmy there might be 50 comments in 10 threads. Conversation can actually happen.
It's the difference between chatting at a party and shouting at a concert.
I just joined Lemmy and I have already seen a comment from a tankie telling all Americans to "rot and die" in this same community. So no, it's not all wholesome.
If it helps, it only ever seems to be the tankies, which are progressively becoming the minority. I'm sure more dicks will show up in future waves, maybe, but...I'm kinda seeing the point of just the lowest possible entry hurdles.
Actually, hold on, tumblr was talking about ActivityPub a few months ago, so if they ever actually do that and do it functionally, that will change the culture pretty substantially. Much more weeb/sociopolitical. I'm happily fucking out of the politics here by choice.
The good thing about Lemmy it depends of the instance.
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Me too
I saw a Lemmy user give 'benefit of the doubt' responses for seemingly curt comments, and then original commenter thanks them instead of feeling attacked. Bizarre to me. I feel like that happened on Reddit more often at some point, even for most non-specific communities, but I haven't seen it since.
That's really sweet. As someone younger I never really saw that online. Maybe we can bring it back.
The ol' Fediverse Switcharoo.
Shang-Chi is making some good points
I’m pretty sure that’s Ken. He’ll beach you off in a heartbeat. Right here, right now.
Shang-chi chooses Lemmy, confirmed.
This has not been my experience
Same. Almost every single argument ends with personal insults. At least on reddit people tried to avoid those because karma was such a big deal. Here nobody cares so they shit on each other whenever they disagree.
That's simply not true lol
The top picture is, and will always be, the whole of humanity. Don't fool yourself.
You didn't read the whole thing.
Also, that only applies to those in their "in-groups" - people are hard-wired to kill everyone outside their in-groups.
Sure, maybe that's just natural but it doesn't mean we can't try
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Shang Chi is a true leader here
I guess coz the communities are smaller they are easy to moderate !
probably because social networks (including reddit) tend to destroy themselves (even without external help, they just get stagnant and boring) once they get too big?
Rose tinted glasses.
There are fewer kids and fewer people on the right on this platform. So anyone near the center gets treated like dog water. You just dont see many.
So far, ive seen it not like this for sync threads, as well as very pro/anti topics on communism/america
True. Lemmy users are just as toxic as redditors.
It's almost like they're the same people...
A lot less fuckin' manchildren and actual children on here, that's for sure. Kinda like Reddit in 2007 before the zoomers found it.
I'm full of vitriol so reddit refugees feel at home.
Much of this appearance is due to absurd modding unfortunately. Removing any comments that the mods disagree with so they can have their echo chamber is a good way to give the appearance of a happy and supportive place while actually being the opposite.
Reading the mod logs is an exercise in frustration in a lot of communities here, especially on certain instances.
Not true but I'll upvote regardless
I'm here to fight the children. That was a joke please disregard this comment NSA
fuck you.
