How would you suddenly disappear and ditch everyone in your life without them noticing?

Without them noticing? You'd have to start going low contact for awhile first.

I don't think its possible. Im married. She would eventually notice. Shes sharp like that.

You doing ok, OP?

Not possible for me. My wife would be calling the police twenty minutes after I got out of work if I wasn't home or answering my phone.

implying there is someone in my life

I have been slowly doing that since the pandemic. I have only a small group of people I still talk to.

Move to India, leave all ID's, accounts, ect, get a construction gig or something

I'd go the same way out prime Minister did. Go for a swim on the beach and never return. Eventually they will name a swimming pool after me.

Have you tried The Amelia Project?

Just here to say this made me immediately think of the awesome Parker Millsap song Disappear.

Ditch all my devices and move halfway across the globe. That would probably do it.