What is your motto?

“Be excellent to each other”.
Show some compassion, be a bro, care about other people. Maybe we can make society a bit better; one person, one act of kindness, at a time.
- Party on, dude
- And party on dude! I came here to say this. It's such an easy tenant to live by. The world would be a better place if everyone really took it to heat.
  
  An easy tenant to live by would be a good neighbor.
  An easy tenet to live by is a simple guiding principle.
- You look nice today
  
  I like your style

Remember you will die. Not as a fear but simply as a reminder.
- Memento mori
  
  Et in Arcadia ego

If you can't control it, don't worry about it.
Used to mostly keep me sane at work
- If you can't do something about a problem, worrying just gives you another problem. If you can do something about it, don't waste energy worrying about it, just do the thing
- This is great, I've been applying it in the kast few years. Lifted many a burden off my back

90% of life is showing up.
I use this every time I'm on the fence about going to an event or just curling up on the couch.
- It's a good one. I'll meditate to this.
- I usually just show up to my couch
  
  Then you were never REALLY on the fence.
- I don't understand the whole wisdom of this right now, so it probably means I have some meditating to do as well

"The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man." — George Bernard Shaw
- oh man, I love this. Thanks !

"Anything that isn't nothing"
Helps me push through when executive dysfunction hits. Getting outside for even just a little bit is a whole lot better than staying inside while telling myself I'm going to run 3 miles, for example
- That’s a good one. A few others that help with my executive dysfunction are:
  “Don’t let perfect be the enemy of good.” (It’s better to do something than to obsess over trying for the impossible goal of ‘perfection’.)
  “Anything worth doing is worth doing poorly.” (This one helps especially with art and things I enjoy but struggle to do if I’m not instantly great at them.)
  “Laziness does not exist.” (This was inspired by a Medium article I read years ago which explained there is always an underlying cause of procrastination. Mental or physical ill health issues, uncertainty about the task, fear of failure, etc. When I am struggling to move forward, I now look for that reason and can begin to remove the barrier.)
- I love this. I always tell people trying to get into fitness and struggling something along these lines. Anything is better than nothing. Even just going to the gym and walking around the place and walking right out... Still better than doing nothing at all. Terry crews has an awesome quote kinda along these lines:
  I tell people this a lot - go to the gym, and just sit there, and read a magazine, and then go home. And do this every day. Go to the gym, don’t even work out. Just GO. Because the habit of going to the gym is more important than the work out. Because it doesn’t matter what you do. You can have fun — but as long as you’re having fun, you continue to do it.
- "Some is better than none." -My motto throughout college.
  Usually I was stressed by the number of chapters I had to read, or pages I had to write. Instead of shutting down and not doing anything, I would tell myself to just read a single page or write a paragraph because any amount of work done is better than nothing.
  Now I apply it to work and chores.

Before you criticize a man, you should walk a mile in his shoes. That way if he gets angry, you’re a mile away! And you’ve got his shoes!

Try to live a happy life imposing as little as possible on others.

if you want to achieve nothing, form a committee
- I don't know if I agree with that, let's go around the room again, all in favour? /s
  
  Wait…wait… we need somebody from legal on this call
  
  aye

"In doubt, reboot"
People should really learn this one
- I personally need a reboot how do I go about doing this?
  
  Follow a Ramadan or Lent fast and take as much a break from electronics as possible especially around bedtime.
- I think about Roy and Moss every week at my stupid job.

Paraphrased from Forrest Gump.
“Well, I’ve come this far. Might as well keep going.”
It’s great, because you just lie to yourself about the starting point of any task, and it doesn’t seem so bad.
If I’ve survived from birth until now, then I guess I can survive doing the dishes.
- I was just about to give up on dishes thank you kind stranger

"Don't say things about someone behind their back, if you wouldn't be prepared to say it to their face"
- I like this one, but looking at it from a different angle I say nice things about people behind their backs pretty regularly that I absolutely would not be prepared to say to their face cuz toxic masculinity. Anybody have tips on how I can keep working on the opposite of this problem? 😭
  
  Smack em on the ass and say “you’re looking good today my dude.”
- Funny... I think the internet's motto is the exact opposite of this lol

life has no meaning, so find one.
i'm an absurdist :]

Try not to become a man of success, but a man of value.
Albert Einstein

Intelligence does not protect you from stupidity.

Nothin’, what’s a motto with you?

Always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. You never know what someone else is going through.
- essential this one

“This night would be better spent preparing for the next life instead of rehashing the mistakes of this one.”
Lt. Commander Worf.

This is only temporary, unless it works.

Brings to mind the bene gesserit litany against fear:
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.
I often pair with:
It is by will alone I set my mind in motion. It is by the juice of Sapho that thoughts acquire speed, the lips acquire stains, stains become a warning. It is by will alone I set my mind in motion.
Which is a nice allegory for most any chemical stimulant (coffee).
Everything is true, nothing is permitted.
Nothing is true, everything is permitted.
- The Benne gesserit is my second favourite quote.

Be morally better than average. If you justify being bad by saying everyone else is doing it, you're not helping the downward spiral. Because bad people and people with no choice make things worse on average.

Customer support: trust but verify.
I believe they have a problem. I believe they think they restarted, but I'm gonna check anyway.
In disagreements: "does it matter?"
Most shit we get angry about isn't important. In the grand scheme of life, most shit just doesn't matter.

Blind faith runs into things.

Be the change you want to see in the world
To me that means to live in a way that if everyone else did too, the world would be a better place. It obviously doesn't gurantee that my moral compas always points to the right direction but it's the only indication I've got about what's right and what's wrong. This also means that I don't go out of my way doing some major charity work but just that I do my part no matter how insignificant it might feel because I believe that if everyone else did that too it would bring about a real change.

"Too much force will break it." The only thing worthwhile my mother taught me.
- This is a general good thing to live by. Relationships, pooping opening Windows
  
  The big three.

Every machine is a smoke machine if you operate it wrong enough.
And my favorite: If you're good at something, never do it for free.

Keep it simple, stupid.

Life's too short to spend it angry

"Fuck 'em! Fuck 'em all!"
- https://youtu.be/E3IN2HZBZwY

Batman in an interrogation room pins joker to the wall.
Batman: “I’ve only got one rule”
Joker: “Then that’s the rule you’re gonna have to break to get what you want”.
Now I hate Marvell and all super hero movies but I do find that quote applies to a lot of things.
If you’re truthful or law abiding then law breakers have an advantage on you. They’ll try and undermine free and fair elections.
If you’re a pacifist then people will use violence to try and control you, such as terrorism, or simply ignore your laws.
If you have socialism then people will pour in from other countries or try to exploit the system in whatever they can.
If the police or strict or lax in either direction it causes upset.
Whatever you say is a law, or a line you won’t cross, is something that people will exploit.

Well, before doing something stupid my motto is, "Oh, what the hell."
But what I actually strive for is, "Everbody's suffering, so give them a little grace and maybe a smile."

"in 50yrs, who will care?"
- That's actually what they said when they decided to skip the testing on thalidomide.
- You do, I hope

Wherever you go, there you are.
- Very helpful, thank you

I rotate through these for everything from physical training to career goals to reminding myself to do my best to not be a douchebag:
“If I give up now, I’m going to regret it.” -Monkey D. Luffy
"Where's the future? Right here. Whose life is this? Mine. What are you gonna do with it? Live it by any means necessary." -Jefferson Pierce
"If you wanna stop this, then stand up! Because I've got one thing to say to you! Never forget who you want to become!" -Shoto Todoroki
"Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one." -Marcus Aurelius
"Giving help that's not asked for is what makes a true hero." -Izuku Midoriya
“I’ve set myself to become the King of the Pirates… and if I die trying… then at least I tried.” -Monkey D. Luffy
"If every porkchop were perfect, we wouldn't have hot dogs." -Steven Universe
- That first one describes "sunk cost fallacy"

"Everything will be okay in the end.
If it's not okay, it's not the end."
- I used to always say that to myself in my native language. Seems to be a pretty common saying it seems. In this days I some times still say it. But I don't think I believe in it anymore.
  
  Yeah, it's been around for a while.
  Some say it's a quote by Oscar Wilde, some say its John Lennon others say it comes from brazilian Author Fernando Sabino and because Paulo Coelho is the only brazilian author people remember it's attributed to him too.
  You are not brazilian by chance?

My father always said: "It's better to be rich and healthy than poor and sick."
The world is unfair in that way and we should remember that.

Try to be nice, never fail to be kind. It's important to support the people around you. Those people can be your safety net and metaphorical ladder to climb

I discovered this one just yesterday, reading a Nero Wolfe detective novel. I kind of like it:
The avoidance of idiocy should be the primary and constant concern of every intelligent person. It is mine. I am sometimes successful.

Never break more than one law at a time.
- What about fourteen in quick succession ?

Mind your own buisness.
I don't care about other peoples sexuality, gender fetishes, whatever. Its not my buisness and I have no right to judge them for their decision. You do you. As long as people aren't assholes or annoying as hell I don't care.
- Better : care enough to defend them from the idiots who care enough to have a problem with it
  
  To clarify, the motto I chose is for direct interaction. And choosing which people I socialise with. Defending our lgtbq folks is completely different and I already do this.

"There are idiots/assholes everywhere", no direct translation for the word I want in English.
I don't mean it in a mean way, just that idiots/assholes can be from any group of people. Two examples:
Don't assume a doctor knows everything just because they're a doctor. Some doctors are idiots/assholes, they might be wrong. Get a second opinion if something they said sound iffy.
When hearing people generalize from one individual's behavior (like racism): this one is an idiot/asshole, they are everywhere, including in this group and all other groups too.
- Pretty wise. That sounds like "don't always trust authority figures"
  
  That is one component of it, but I like mine better because it also can be interpreted as giving a bit more grace to people who are doing their best but their best isn't so good. It also helps me not assuming malicious intent where being an idiot would explain someone else's behavior.
- Pretty wise. That sounds like "don't always trust authority figures"

Don't craft a well thought out response to someone John Brown would have shot [absolutely necessary for getting through the internet] and don't give two weeks notice to a job that makes you miserable [absolutely necessary for leaving a shitty work situation].

"Different strokes for different folks."
It's a reminder that your preferences aren't the only acceptable way to feel. It's OK if some people like things you don't. On different scales, it's a lesson in tolerance.
It goes hand-in-hand with "Be excellent to each other." Kindness goes far!
Together I hope someday they lead to "Harmony and understanding, sympathy and trust abounding."

good enough is good enough
- Better is often worse than good enough, for better or for worse

Everything is temporary

Me and my wife’s motto: Vi klarer alt, translated as We can do/endure everything. Usually accompanied by us clinking our wedding rings.
- Nice !

"you can fix dumb, but you can't fix lazy"
If you don't know, I can teach you. If you just don't want to learn, well that's a different story
- Ignorance is ok but apathy is not

Science isn't an answer, it's a process.

"Don't stop dreaming, because the world is full of people who've stopped dreaming."
Probably no one said that, it's just what reminds me on so many things at once. It's so full of hope, confidence, happiness, interest into new things, overcoming obstacles, the future, laying off the monotone, enjoyment, pushing yourself further. I could interpret and fill so much into this. It also has a little bit of superiority in it, but that's because I often suffer under the negative Nancys and people who have given up, who try their best to drag you down.

Always be prepared to be unprepared.

If it's not going to matter on your deathbed it doesn't really matter.

"And there's a funny thing about honesty; there's no two ways about it."
This quote from Lassie Come-Home comes up whenever I'm not sure if I should be honest about something bad that I've done. It's a pretty good motto.
That, and "Smile, tomorrow will be worse."

Just barely good enough is perfect.
Machines are for breaking & plans are for changing.
You can drive the schedule or the budget - not both.
No 'and then'
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