An Alamo Drafthouse opened up near us not too long ago. We got the monthly membership where tickets are basically free because all they really want is to sell you food and beer. Been going to movies more often than ever over the last year.
Fairly new Alamo Drafthouse Boston. Can walk from the big transit hub or the special bus line that's underground, will drop you right near the front door.
Beer options are respectable and I enjoy the full liquor options.
Popcorn! OMG! The stuff is tossed in clarified butter and served in a big tin bowl....YES!... Free refills. I will not confess how much I ate in a single movie.
There is a Cinemark about an hour away that is my go-to.
Are there closer theaters? Oh God yes. Do those theaters serve one of my favorite beers, have employees that will satisfy my request to try to kill me with butter on my popcorn, have reserved seating, and have power reclining seats? Also yes. What makes that hour drive worth it is that there is maybe 4 other people in the theater for a new release at noon. I can get buzzed in the trailers and sober up during the movie eating extra buttery popcorn while lounging in center middle seats and nobody to bother me with their inconsiderations. It is glorious.
A local community-run cinema that has been restored to it's art deco glory
A multiplex
20-25 minutes away I have:
A central cinema in the same chain that has an IMAX screen and tends to show more obscure and foreign-language films (rule of thumb seems to be they are the ones screening Chinese and Korean films, it's 50:50 on whether my closer one does Indian films)
A cinema from a different chain, so if the above aren't showing it I may be able to find it there.
So if I want something niche, I may have to shop around but I can usually find it.
Way back in the day it used to be Cinema City in Norwich: the only art-house one in the city and where I 'learnt' cinema. It was great.
These days, I live between three small town cinemas in Suffolk, and they are all good in their own ways.
The Riverside in Woodbridge often has a talk about the film or maybe even an interview with the director or one of the cast etc on stage afterwards. Aldeburgh Cinema is run by a charity, shows a good few NT live events and local films and also has a documentary fest each year, and Leiston Film Theatre is, as they say on their site, the oldest purpose built cinema in the county (110 years now), and had the advantage for a while of being about 150m from our back gate. It is the most commercial of three in terms of programme, but still has some interesting stuff.
In the UK, I would say The Light cinemas. The one near us has everything that you want including good seating and a really good fast food restaurant all at a reasonable price.