Is it me or does everyone on reddit seem absolutely miserable
I dunno. Been improving my mental health lately and it doesn't seems to that there's so many subs on reddit where the only purpose seems to be wallowing in misery.
The same is true of Twitter, Bluesky, Mastodon, and Lemmy. There are pockets of shitty users everywhere. I don’t think it’s endemic to Reddit. I do think their moderation fuckery and homogenization of the top subreddits has made it much more obvious there.
I think it's really obvious when you break it down, the people who post the most on these platforms are the ones who are online the most. It's also been proven that those people who are online the most are the least mentally healthy.
Honestly Mastodon is pretty nice compared to Reddit or Lemmy. It's like mostly a bunch of gay and trans ppl posting pics of their cats or gardens and saying they are "eepy" all the time then writing out long technical posts about the Linux kernel or group theory or something.
I'm pretty sure the tone of this place would go up a few ticks if every other post had a blob fox emoji.
I also kind of think it doesn’t help that every joke or meme — seemingly — we get now has the punchline as being like “…I guess I’ll die.” There always seems like there’s a negative bend to the joke, and even if we understand that it’s a joke (“Missed the bus; guess I’ll die”), seeing that over and over again all over the place can start to taint your perception some.