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This wasn’t an invitation for you to speak up.
There wasn't an invitation for you to speak up either. But you chose to speak up so you should expect some push back. Looking at how you've presented yourself so far I seriously doubt you'll listen to me, so I'll just put my argument very plainly. Nobody should listen to you because you refuse to listen to anyone else.
You haven't addressed anything the other person has said. All you've pretty much done is try to put words in their mouth so you could counter an argument that was never made. There's no discussion here, it's just you screaming into the void and the other person wanting to believe you're a normal person.
But people are listening to me.
You haven’t addressed anything the other person has said.
So?
My point is about the nature of their statement and how it centers women in a topic that is about how when men speak about feelings women center a feminine perspective.
Just because you're not listening doesn't mean others aren't.
But people are listening to me.
I'm going to assume you meant listening (and agreeing). Because there are people listening and disagreeing, for example me. But how do you know anyone else is agreeing with you? Do you have anything empirical to show that would indicate what you believe or is it just something you want to believe?
My point is about the nature of their statement and how it centers women in a topic that is about how when men speak about feelings women center a feminine perspective.
And if you were listening instead of just screaming you'd notice that their statement does not center around women. Their argument is that patriarchal beliefs can be adopted by both women and men and in this case the patriarchal belief is that men shouldn't express their emotions and in the image it is a woman perpetuating that belief by refusing to accept what was said.
He's not going to accept the concept of patriarchy as anything other than a feminist idea that centers women.
I like to imagine they're one of those "I agree with what you're saying as long as you don't mention socialism" kind of people, except for them the big bad taboo word is patriarchy.
I'm perfectly happy talking about patriarchy if it's appropriate for the topic, much as I'm perfectly happy telling people to shut up about patriarchy if they're being pushy dipshits.
I'm going to have to give you a break for a few days to settle down.
Why shouldn't feminist ideas center women?
I'm not saying that patriarchy centers women, I'm saying its invocation here centers feminism in a topic about a masculine issue, which is to, say, it's rude and counterproductive.
Ok, let me rephrase. You aren't going to accept that talking about the patriarchy is anything other than feminist and centering women.
Talking about the patriarchy is feminism. Feminism necessarily centers women, or it's not really feminism, degraded into an all-encompassing ideology devoid of its intended purpose.
(PETA isn't feminism just because it can invoke the language of oppression.)
So yes, I advance this notion that talking about the patriarchy in a topic about male pain is centering feminism and therefore centering women. I don't see that this should be controversial.
Except, of course, to those who universalize feminism into a cure-all ideology, which is shorthand for broken thinking which diverts feminism from its purpose.
You can't fix men with feminism: that's an incoherent idea.
Wow those are some trash takes
Spoken like a person whose sense of virtue has been offended. Your ideology has failed you because it stopped being a tool and became an ideology.
Sorry but feminists have trash takes too!
I agree with them, for one.
Do you have anything empirical to show that would indicate what you believe or is it just something you want to believe?
Getting upvotes on my main points.
People who disagree with me right now are still in a backlash phase. They'll either listen and think about it and accommodate the obvious truth that feminism isn't a panacea for men's issues because that's just stupid.
Or they'll keep on bleating about the patriarchy every time a man expresses some feelings.
And if you were listening instead of just screaming
I'm not screaming, I'm lecturing.
The centering of women in a topic about men's feelings being undermined by women centering their perspective is an obvious problem. It's not that difficult to understand that if a woman were talking over a Black woman's experience to talk about patriarchy instead of racism, that woman would be out of line.
C'mon.
Your patriarchy concept isn't working. You can't reach men by talking about the patriarchy. Joe Rogan doesn't talk about the patriarchy. It's not that complicated, you just hold to your ideology hoping that if everyone nods their heads and says "yes the patriarchy is to blame" the problem will get fixed. That's stupid.
their statement does not center around women.
That's stupid.
Their argument is that patriarchal beliefs can be adopted by both women and men and in this case the patriarchal belief is that men shouldn’t express their emotions and in the image it is a woman perpetuating that belief by refusing to accept what was said.
You're not listening. Try again.
Getting upvotes on my main points.
And yet every reply is in disagreement and almost every follow-up reply made by you is heavily downvoted.
People who disagree with me right now are still in a backlash phase. They’ll either listen and think about it and accommodate the obvious truth that feminism isn’t a panacea for men’s issues because that’s just stupid.
Another argument that was never made. You're the one who brought up feminism in the first place and nobody said feminism should solve men's issues.
I’m not screaming, I’m lecturing.
The lecturers I remember would address questions instead of ignoring them.
The centering of women in a topic about men’s feelings being undermined by women centering their perspective is an obvious problem. It’s not that difficult to understand that if a woman were talking over a Black woman’s experience to talk about patriarchy instead of racism, that woman would be out of line.
So if it was another woman talking over a White woman's experience that wouldn't be out of line? It wouldn't be a patriarchal issue if the person talking over had been a man instead of the woman?
The argument you're refusing to address is that the gender does not matter when it comes to patriarchy.
Your patriarchy concept isn’t working. You can’t reach men by talking about the patriarchy. Joe Rogan doesn’t talk about the patriarchy. It’s not that complicated, you just hold to your ideology hoping that if everyone nods their heads and says “yes the patriarchy is to blame” the problem will get fixed. That’s stupid.
Just because the vast majority of people are unwilling to question their beliefs does not mean the concept is wrong. That's like saying socialism is wrong because the large majority of society is taught "capitalism good, socialism bad" so they wouldn't question capitalism and would view socialism as something bad.
And once again, nobody said if everyone agree patriarchy is to blame that would solve the problem. It wouldn't, but it would at least be a step in the right direction because people would at least acknowledge there's a problem.
Anyway. I'm done with your comments. As I said in the very first comment, you're not here to listen. You just want to get on a soapbox and scream about your deeply rooted personal beliefs you refuse to question. I feel I've made my points about how you don't listen and your points are nonsense and I really have no desire to talk to you because you won't actually address the core arguments anyone is making. You'll just pile on irrelevant information to try and shift the discussion to something adjacent and it's just not worth the effort.
And yet every reply is in disagreement and almost every follow-up reply made by you is heavily downvoted.
Yeah, well, them's the breaks. Can't piss off the modrat libruls without dealing with their empty posturing anger.
You’re the one who brought up feminism in the first place and nobody said feminism should solve men’s issues.
Stupid.
The lecturers I remember would address questions instead of ignoring them.
How sad for you.
Just because the vast majority of people are unwilling to question their beliefs does not mean the concept is wrong.
Yes it does! At least to some admittedly limited extent!
I am a post-structuralist at least this much, that a 'concept' like 'the patriarchy' is very broad and frequently applied. Appeals to a platonic ideal of 'the patriarchy' don't work on me.
I feel I’ve made my points about how you don’t listen and your points are nonsense and I really have no desire to talk to you
Thanks for the laugh.
Your approach isn't working, you aren't listening, good luck with that.