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Psa: the reason Microsoft makes these tools linux friendly is because the know thats where the developers are at and they want them to stay familiar with their tools.

It also lowers the amount of fuss developers make when work forced them to use powershell etc because at least they can remote control and script from linux.

A good wallet costs money too.

Heteros cant be pro lgbtq+ now?

Should rename it to bigot festival. Cant call it hetero with all the closest gays it attracts.

As an autist, unironically no.

I dont want to clean all that. Neither would my family. I definitely dont want frequent other people as staff to clean it, disturbing our peace or rummaging though our stuff.

I could just sell it and stay living where i am but i have serious questions about this salay and where it comes from? I don’t need your capitalism blood money and i dont want to be used as some psychological example of “look at this winner, you can win too”.

I dont want to have media at my door to interview the person that was given uber wealth.

I dont want to be part of the billionaies that i believe should not exist.

The tuesday driving thing would technically not be an issue because i refuse to drive a car also.

If you feel there are other issues to be solved. Definitely solve those first before proceeding.

The biggest question you need to ask yourself is can you imagine yourself being happy, being a parent? And for your partner, can she do the same with no kids.

I have also found many people can flipflop about having or not having kids. My best friend went from always wanting to never wanting during the same time my sister who never wanted anything to do with kids suddenly did and gaslights us into believing she always did.

What i mean to say is, you cannot really trust what people say on the matter. Biology can push buttons either way. Never blame people for perceivably having changed their mind about this.

But on the adhd part:

I am part of a very neurodivergent family. The autism and ad(h)d is part of my inheritance. And my partner is on the spectrum too.

We have multiple kids. And while we both knew we wanted kids and i ideally loved to have a big family i was incredibly scared to expand further mostly because i did not want to lose what we manage to have at that point. Just being able to handle one was beyond my teenage expectations. Just like being able to handle another was beyond my expectation. Now if i was asked if i would make the same choice i would say of course i would. That they showed me to be able to handle beyond my own original expectations is my biggest achievement in life.

But Neurodivergent life is tough, remains tough, having a bad time in your life is tough. Being a parent on top of that is exponentially tough. Both parents having a tough time? Now you are in for a real bad time.

But is that not also true for life and all parents divergent or not? Every life choice you make will always be more than just roses.

Also, for many neurodivergent people its easier to take care of others then themselves (is this true for you?). When you and your partner organise around kids you may benefit from the same structure. For example my own food intake became more structured (and healthy) since.

Neurodivergence also comes with bonuses like thinking outside the box which can make some parenting challenges significantly easier.

There is a certain unpredictability and chaos in parenting which can be scary but is usually where adhd can really thrive.

There is no ultimately no “correct” way to parent either. Every parent i know is just trying what they believe is right for a specific kid and no one, not even children in the same household are raised identically to another.

With that said there are many guides and books for adhd parents specifically.

So concluding.

I want you to know your adhd is not the limiting factor on whether you can or can not have kids.

What matters is where you and your partner would both have the best chance to find happiness, even if that involves one of you choosing for something personally less ideal and even if that does mean going separate ways.

I hope this helps. Good luck.

What rock do you live under? Ice has been detaining in plain clothes + mask, there is no uniform to impersonate.

You also dont need to claim annything illegal just being there causes confusion.

Why are you here? “Just doing our job” “Which is?” “We are here for person x, they are coming with us”

If ice identifies themselves: “laugh hardly and Ask for proof of identification” which they seem hesitant to show for some reason.

They are not going to attack if they feel outnumbered and believe you are carrying. It may not win every encounter but it legaly sabotages the inhumane efficiency of their operation.

Perfect meming

To drive my point: “A superior AI might be the best way to end capitalism”

I am still waiting for an online store that can sell me a no brand/ no label high quality tshirt in any of the basic colors and cuts and fabrics

The message in detroid become human seems to be we would go full extermination out of fear of losing our spot on top of the foodchain. Which does seem plausible.

What i really didnt like though was how androids were designed to suffer

They had no ability to shut themselves off, if you kept abusing them they react and respond like real people. They where forced to stay sentient in their single body.

This is also why they had to experience standing in the back of the bus just for the narrative. Could have just send a drone. Could also just shut down the body while traveling and do something in cyberspace instead.

If there is one thing certain about digital “life” its that it wont have the same restrictions as us and a body is optional and basically a set of clothes.

While i did enjoy Detroid it was designed around its own pre set narrative rather then explore what could emerge organicaly if machines became sentient. I could not really take it serious because of that.

It appears like that is what it ha become but i used to interpret it as just quick and dirty programming for fun rather then trying to code well.

I found that while i love to code for creative fun i hate being a developer and being told what and how to code.

Ai can be way more then just a single llm though.

Agi and Asi still mean human level and beyond human level ai.

Wether the concepts are archievable in our lifetime is an entirely different matter.

Been there and i know a real answer to this:

Its because our interfaces are optimized for pictures and not text. I am old enough to remember you needed a plugin to see thumbnails on reddit and doing so what controversial because bandwith.

But Pictures get more clicks and we have been self optimizing its effect. Depending on view we even get all content at once because they tend to use common dimensions.

Text posts are given much less presence and making them look good in a feed is different for a oneliner, poem or deepdive.

Maybe we need to start making front covers for longer text and use vectorbased display mechanics to convert short text into efficient pictures with own background.

thumbnails also has a more button feeling driving psychological engagement.

If you sort by top you can clearly observere it.

Whispers “try proxmox”

I bet this rhetoric goes so hard, the moment we reach an economicly usefull “agi” it will be all hands on board to stop it from going ASI.

They specifically want ai that can follow orders without thinking for themselves.

No they are the antagonist of pingu

What a stat.

Sometimes i go 50 times further then other times.

It kinda depends on where i am going.

Some llms have a deepsearch feature where it goes trough 400+ webpages taking multiple minutes. But usually i just need it to rewrite part of an email.

Angry upvote

Real talk.

Is Iran having a nuclear weapon worse then Trump having acces to a nuclear weapon.

Of course i wish these weapons just weren’t but we seem perfectly capable of not using them and comitting succesfull horrors and genocide anyway.

We have come close before but even the bad guys seem aware that these are only usefull in irony as a deterent against ones total destruction.