I'm non-binary. My first and last names are fine. First name leans gendered but is technically unisex. I'm in the process of changing my middle name from a generic gendered one to either "Moxie" or "Miles". This is because
I don't want to have to change my initials (smh)
I feel no affinity towards my middle name
Miles is best Sonic the Hedgehog character
Moxie is best soda
My middle name appears on few documents but my initial appears on many, so fewer things to update.
(Feel free to suggest other less gendered middle names that start with "M" or try to persuade me one way or another)
The subreddit I moderate has had a poll going for the last 2.5 days.
1390 members.
75 poll respondents (5% of members)
7 commenters (0.5% of members)
It's a disappointing turnout. Also, I'm one of those poll respondents and commenters.
(If you remind me, I'll post a link to the poll once it closes in 8 hours.)