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Trouble navigating differences in enthusiasm for sexual intimacy
  • dont' over think it. Sex is important in a relationship and if one person isn't willing to do that with you, its a major problem and must be dealt with. I'm similar age as you and my wife and i have sex all the time with very few problems if any. yes, sometimes we wait because one of us is sick, or on a period, but generally right after that, we get right back to it without much delay.

    you're situation isn't normal, don't gaslight yourself into thinking it is. you're a human being with needs. you don't have to "suppress" anything. now that being said, yea if you are a sex addict and watching porn all the time and asking your wife to do things she doesn't want to do, yea, thats not good. but if you're being genuine and just wanting to have some sex, and she is stonewalling you, its either time to separate, or find a compromise.

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    How can I (M24) protect myself from terrible relationships
  • just because a random chick "takes a liking to you" does NOT mean you should hook up. Sex leads to feelings and connection, and you did that before finding out how crazy she was. Never do that. Always take at least a couple months of getting to know someone before you have sex. that will filter out a lot of problems before they even begin.

  • What kind of upbringing makes an incel?
  • if you had to state something, probably over-bearing, over-nurturing mothers. but i highly doubt anyone would say that is the sole factor. it's a combination of many things. even just being small or less masculine than peers can contribute. heck, being a completely normal person who is just a late bloomer can do it.

  • Zelensky: Israel has ‘indisputable’ right to defend itself from terror
  • yup precisely. well, im with you, and so is more than 50% of the internet i think lemmy.world world news sub seems to have a particularly high proportion of 23 year old basement dwellers who've never suffered a day in their lives

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  • I would love to see you try to argue that christians and jews were not persecuted throughout the entirety of the ottoman empire, within the borders of ancient palestine. Sure, there are always moderates in every society. that's not what we're talking about though. and no, im certainly NOT lumping all muslims together.

  • Another 62 ‘Girls Do Porn’ Victims Sue Pornhub for $600 Million
  • what they did was clearly terrible, but at the same time, this is what happens when you make the age of consent for this stuff 18. you could make the exact same argument about military service, they use all the same tactics. I hope they win and get some money and a piece of their dignity back, but what's done is done. raise your kids right, and don't normalize objectification of women, teach your daughters to be strong, and they'll never have to respond to a sketchy ad about "modeling" in the back of some city rag.

  • Hundreds dead in Israel and Gaza, thousands injured after Hamas launches rockets, Israel declares war
  • Why leave out the fact that the Jews also have an equally legitimate claim on the land, in addition to having been taken close to the brink of total extermination by circumstances completely beyond their control? A normal, compassionate individual would welcome these people in, make room for them, and live at peace under a stable society, tolerant of different points of view. However, that is not what the Jews encountered upon the creation of Israel. It was just a continuation of the campaign to exterminate them, from a different group. Are you going to argue that it’s bad for Germans to murder Jews, but it is okay for Muslims?

  • Hundreds dead in Israel and Gaza, thousands injured after Hamas launches rockets, Israel declares war
  • Why leave out the fact that the Jews also have an equally legitimate claim on the land, in addition to having been taken close to the brink of total extermination by circumstances completely beyond their control? A normal, compassionate individual would welcome these people in, make room for them, and live at peace under a stable society, tolerant of different points of view. However, that is not what the Jews encountered upon the creation of Israel. It was just a continuation of the campaign to exterminate them, from a different group. Are you going to argue that it's bad for Germans to murder Jews, but it is okay for Muslims?

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  • TF are you talking about? Muhammed was rich as fuck while he was slaughtering his "enemies". Ask yourself why you are struggling to justify it. Ask yourself why poor palestinians are worshiping a wealthy artistocrat. stop trying to paste a "class war" onto this struggle. you're not going to get anywhere with it. Iran backs this shit and they are one of the wealthiest nations in the world. Stop trying to justify terrorism as the actions of "oppressed poor people". It's intellectually dishonest and lazy.

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