I get daily calls about a house I don't own in a state I don't live in. I'm currently trying to play along, so that I can actually get a real U.S. company to call me, so I know who's behind it.
From what I've read, U.S. realtors will use an Israeli company to robodial and generate leads. The company is very careful to not reveal who their client is (even questions like "can you tell me a little more about this?" will get them to hang up). But if I play along, maybe I'll eventually get a call that I can see is clearly from someone like Keller Williams.
Once I get to that point, I'll be able to sue them for $1500 under the TCPA
It's not even about the money at this point. I want it to stop. But if they want to be dickholes to this degree, they might as well pay me $1500. I don't expect one lawsuit to stop every company using this scumball service. But again, if I can get those assholes to pay me then why shouldn't I?
I will just subscribe here from my porn account then.
I'm really into edging which I know isn't exactly what you're talking about, but I definitely understand and enjoy the experience.
I think there's a wide range of things that people view as different sexual experiences that are actually a lot more related than we'd like to admit. I mean edging/gooning, chastity, abstaining from masturbation (nofap?), or more light teasing or relaxed enjoyment like you're talking about. There's probably more similarities in what people want to get out of these experiences than there are differences.
There can be a big difference in motivation and fantasy behind it. For example, some people want/need/enjoy femdom, or at least a fantasy of being controlled. Some people look at the orgasm in more of a "negative" light, like "I need my orgasm denied", and really get into feeling the desperate feelings. Others, maybe more like yourself, put more emphasis in a "positive" light on the physical/psychological things that they feel, and enjoying a more gradual buildup.
(not putting judgement with positive/negative terminology, just trying to categorize things)
Also even people who say they're really into "edging" don't spend all their time at the edge, they may edge several/multiple times, but it's too intense to hold for a long period of time and most of the session will be sort of low-key buildup.
Ultimately though, your body doesn't really care what reasons you're holding back. Physically and psychologically you'll feel more easily aroused, and interested in sex. Personally that's what I'm going for -- I love feeling almost like a horny teenager, aroused at even the slightest glimpse or thought. And I love how sensitive I become down there. But what I'm trying to say is: there isn't really a right or wrong answer here. You're absolutely free to enjoy or masturbate however you like, and however makes you the most happy. And there's no rule that says that you must orgasm or not.