obscureprodigy @ obscureprodigy @pawb.social Posts 0Comments 9Joined 3 days ago

honestly, all you gotta do is find an artist you like and see if they are open for commissions. there are tons of smaller artists who don’t have big queues! i’d say check around the furry scene on Bluesky and don’t be shy sending a DM if they’re accepting requests. let them know you are new and tell them up front you’re looking for someone who is able to help assist them more than the average client. they’ll decide if they wanna do that for you or not. that’s basically what i did and it went well.
"evil" is usually reserved for people whose actions and/or beliefs reach such an extreme immoral high that they become impossible to defend. morality is a spectrum where objective and subjective lie on opposite ends and everything we do to ourselves, others, and the world can be placed along the spectrum. for example, nobody reasonable would argue against rape being objectively evil.
it seems you are asking if abusers are evil because of the trauma they cause their victims. this doesn't have a direct and clear answer, because it's ultimately up to each person who suffered abuse to make that call. of course you are welcome to your own opinion on how you see the abuser, but if the victim thinks differently then perhaps their perspective should hold more weight than yours. or does that matter? victims may forgive their abusers - does that mean society should? it's complicated.
personally, i think it depends on the abuse and trauma caused. some things feel worse than others. i'll always feel the way i do regardless of how a victim interprets the event but i wouldn't make them adopt my view of themselves or how i see their abuser. they have every right to enforce their morality within their own experiences.
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then they’ll have to do that because i am not willingly paying shit.
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Eli Lilly is a horrible company but some of these compounded versions are being sold by also shitty companies. They’re market the drug inappropriately and are more willing to tweak dosages upon request. Idk that makes me uncomfortable.
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that’s fine. i’m not paying.
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gotcha, thanks for explaining it more for me.
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ah, i'll take your word for it. but it seems closing a psych unit would cut staff and resources which would lead to something terrible like this.
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they say they want to know how and why this happened. you already know. they did not have the staff or support needed to properly take care of your child because of cuts by your state and local government. it is unconscionable.
i think i misunderstood the main cause for this. still a terrible decision being made by greed and business first mentality.