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This woman pays 100% of her income on rent
  • you attacked a person for being a bad example because they are struggling and not at rock bottom because people exist at the bottom.

    That's not my intentions. I question her choices, but that doesn't mean she has an option that would 100% fix her situation. It would probably be hard to find a 2-bedroom for $1500/mo and she'd still have over 50% of her paycheque going to housing.

    My concern is articles highlighting cases like this allow people to disregard the housing crisis as just people unwilling to tighten their belts. Like "stop eating avocado toast" or "cancel Disney+", there's no quick fix.

  • This woman pays 100% of her income on rent
  • I'm pretty sure she'd be in the same situation in the US. Assuming the house was jointly owned and she had the ability to buy out her ex-Spouse's equity or get the whole home in the divorce, there would still be a change of ownership, so she'd need to get a new mortgage solely in her name.

    I know I've heard of couples splitting up and coming up with creative solutions, like continuing to jointly own the house, but that doesn't seem to be the case here.

  • This woman pays 100% of her income on rent
  • You make a lot of assumptions about me and my experiences, and frankly, they're 100% wrong. I wasn't trying to insinuated that her situation is easy, I even say it's "making tough decisions".

  • This woman pays 100% of her income on rent
  • I really hate these CBC articles where they talk about a huge, legitimate issue, but undercut it by choosing a crazy/unrelated example:

    Charmbury, 47, has to make sacrifices because 100 per cent of her income goes to her rent.

    She had to sell her house after her divorce and now pays $2,679 per month for a three-bedroom townhouse in the same neighbourhood. She didn't want her children, a teen boy and teen girl, to have to switch schools or share a bedroom.

    So, she's been cashing in her investments. Child support helps with the bills, her mother helps her with groceries and her friends give her their old clothes. She says she barely sleeps from the stress.

    Even 30 years ago, I had friends who had to change schools/share a room when their parents divorced. Putting someone who refuses to make tough decisions and try live within her means in the same category as adults who have to live with multiple roommates, face homelessness, etc. is insulting.

    Also, I'm pretty sure most would say child support is income, even if it's not taxable income. She's spending 100% of her employment income/paycheques on rent.

  • Blocking a bike lane? Local social media accounts are *eager* to call you out. - The Boston Globe
  • Delivery drivers and emergency services have to park in no-parking zones to do their job.

    Why are you lumping emergency services delivery drivers when that wasn't park of the discussion? Emergency services are legally allowed to park anywhere, because they're usually there for an emergency. However, sometimes emergency vehicles abuse this power when it's not a emergency, or just don't consider anyone else when they could easy park in the space 10' away. In those cases, they're not breaking the law, they're just being an asshole.

    For delivery drivers, I think there's some nuance as you're right, on some streets the only option besides parking illegally is lugging the cargo 5+ blocks. In those cases, we should write this exception into law instead of just letting some people break the law as they see fit. However, I would estimate, in most cases, delivery drivers do have a good alternative like a loading zone or an alley, they just don't want to adjust.

    Also, on the bike lane, they’ll bother fewer people than on the car lane. At least in the street I live on, fifty cars will pass before one bike does - as unfortunate as that fact is.

    This might have something to do with people feeling unsafe biking when there are vehicles parked in the bike lane all the time!

    Delivery drivers also frequently block driveways and prevent cars from going in or out. It’s not like they have a vendetta against bikes.

    Personally, I don't think it's okay in that case either. However, in those cases, it costs drivers time waiting. With people on bikes, it costs them safety.

  • FOSS replacement for Firefox Focus?
  • Ah, that makes sense. Were you using Obtainium or just manually grabbing updates manually? FFUpdater can help you keep up to date, and here's the folder of released apks. I know this messes with you workflow, but IMHO, it's probably better to keep with the browser you like. However, if you decide to try an alternative, all the best of luck!

  • FOSS replacement for Firefox Focus?
  • AFAIK, Focus is FOSS. If that's correct, can you confirm that your issue is:

    • Builds aren't released on F-Droid, and you don't want to use the Play Store. Would FFUpdater fit your purpose?
    • You want an alternate to Firefox Focus which is also FOSS. Could you let us know what deficiencies an alternate would correct?
    • Something else?
  • Iran to designate Canadian army as a terrorist entity
  • I think you watch too many movies. From my experience serving in the CAF alongside the infantry, all the actions you describe would not be condoned and anyone taking those actions would be charged. Maybe I'm biased, but I was always told the goal of our operations were "capturing hearts and minds" which would be in direct conflict with taking terrorist actions.

  • How to make an EV tire that won’t pollute the environment
  • I think it's just reminding people that EVs aren't a panacea to all our issues with transportation, and they actually exacerbates at least one of those issues. This is while we know there are better solutions for >90% of our personal transportation with public transportation, bicycling, walking, micro-mobility, etc. Moving one or two people around with a multi-tonne machine is insanely inefficient!

  • Iran to designate Canadian army as a terrorist entity
  • Russia and the US have committed war crimes in their invasions of Ukraine and Iraq respectively, but the general consensus is that their militaries are still not terrorist organizations.

    War Crimes != Terrorism. Some acts qualify as both, but words have meanings, and I think it's important we recognize that. I don't think the actions of the US in Iran would make a reasonable person say the US Military is a terrorist organization, though they are definitely harbouring some war criminals.

    I think the other thing is asking, what's the value in labelling an organization? Telling your friend with a substance problem that they're an addict/alcoholic might just drive them away and towards worse influences. Or telling off your toxic coworker might be cathartic, but it'll probably just make the situation worse.

    PS I'm pretty sure labelling the IDF as "similarly abhorrent" isn't very helpful.

  • Iran to designate Canadian army as a terrorist entity
  • I'm not sure what you mean by "spreading terror". IMHO, most actions that would meet those requirements are war crimes.

    We can debate whether pretty much any law is moral in our own opinion. However, I think laws are a good place to start with what rules should be followed. They can be changed/updated as necessary.

  • How the automobile industry turned us into SUV drivers
  • The point that you kind of touch on in your comment, is that SUV's generally aren't better than a hatchback/wagon. In my experience, most SUV's aren't efficiently using their space, so they feel more luxurious to ride in, but have horrible cargo storage. @notjustbikes@notjustbikes.com talked on his podcast about being picked up (with his wife) from the airport in a huge SUV (I think it was an Escalade) and being unable to get their luggage in the trunk.

  • How the automobile industry turned us into SUV drivers
  • That's assuming nothing unexpected happens. Weeks before our '05 (manual) Civic was totaled last May, my spouse and I were discussing how we could probably get 5+ more years out of it. We were (thankfully) able to get a '20 Golf, but VW has even discontinued that!

  • Ford government forced to fix rushed zoning order that put tower on flight path
    globalnews.ca Ford government forced to fix rushed zoning order that put tower on flight path - Toronto | Globalnews.ca

    After a rushed process led by Ford government officials, Toronto Pearson International Airport was forced to tell the province it had greenlit a 50-storey tower on a flight path.

    Ford government forced to fix rushed zoning order that put tower on flight path - Toronto | Globalnews.ca
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