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Not every state. This is Texas. I'm in California and my kid went to school with shoulder length hair that was half blue. My relatives in Texas kept asking what the school was doing about it. There's nothing on the books about hair and the principal said it looked cool. Hair has always been a control issue in bible thumping communities, which I thankfully am no longer around.
From my experience:
Gently let your husband know that if his mom says something negative that he should not pass it along to you. What his mom said did not hurt you until he told you. That's how I taught my kid not to spread gossip.
As for your mother in law, if she comments that something is messy, hand her a broom. That's how I got my certified-clean-freak mom to stop making comments. "Vacuum's in the closet" was another one, but she was my mom, not my MIL, so it wasn't as hard for me. Sooo...have your husband do it. :)
Also non-cartel coyotes rest during the day. I lived in Nevada where coyotes are a given, but never in my life saw one during the day.
My kid is learning to drive and I wanted to rent/get ahold of a manual to teach that too, but nothing doing. You can't find one to rent and I'm not buying a whole car for a few weeks' training.
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This sign is close to a machine cleaning trash and other debris from a canal. Snakes accidentally get scooped with the debris and slither over the side.
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Update: Found the original source, the photographer Arne Kuilman. Link to his Flickr page.
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Text from https://justbirding.com/what-birds-mate-for-life/
Black Vulture
Latin name: Coragyps atratus
Unique romantic feature: Fight for fidelity
Where they are found: From the southeastern USA to South America
Size: Length: 22 to 29 inches (56 to 74 cm); Weight: 2.6 to 4.3 pounds (1.18 to 1.95 kg): Wingspan: 4.4 to 5.5 feet (1.34 to 1.68 m)
Diet: Carrion
Black vultures prove you don’t have to be beautiful to enjoy a committed, long-term relationship. Um, rude.
Looking dressed more for a funeral than a wedding, these scavenger birds feature all-black plumage with bumpy, featherless grayish-black heads, and short, hooked beaks.
Found in open habitats and along roads from the southeastern United States to South America, black vultures are all about family life. They form bonds that last their whole lives (about 10 years).
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image's original link broken/can't find photographer's name
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organize my supplies: pull everything out sort, play with stuff, go to store for organizing bins and maybe order new craft supplies, label, get tired, and leave almost everything in piles for weeks. Oh, and feel guilty every single time I walk by the piles, but be completely unable to do anything about them.
That's a good idea.
That is a) good to know and b) pretty cool. Thanks :)
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My favorite for sentimental reasons. I grew up in an area where you might spot one if you were very lucky. It was rare, but cool.
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I can't find the image source to confirm, but looks right.
That was very thoughtful. Thank you.
Say where it is out loud! That's my stove trick--"THE STOVE IS OFF". Yes, I have walked away from a lit burner before.
Por que no los dos?
All the ADHDers in here. :(
Same. Same.
Hormonal fluctuations have been shown to affect symptoms. You* can talk to your doctor about a small bump up in meds for when you are most affected. I can't remember if it's just before a period or during that symptoms get worse. I recommend tracking your period and making notes of when it's worse for you. Menopause is crazy for many reasons, but defo for ADHD.
*Anyone who has a period.
I think you forgot what you were writing when you wrote it, lol.
and it has Christoph Waltz
It's pronounced "reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeepoooooooooooooooooost"
:)
So far so welcoming/supportive. 👍
I got along just fine until college when I dropped out after the first year since I couldn’t coast by with great test skills and doing basic homework for high school…
Oh hell yeah. Honors student to failing out of my first year of college. Fuck. I went back years later, but that first time was a helluva wake up call.
noticed the same day
was able to persist at a non-fun task for an hour, like lolwut