Sometimes I wanna come out to people but I’ve gotten the reaction multiple times of them being confused that I’m “not changing anything”. It almost feels like they’re saying, “if none of the stuff affects me, why are you telling me?” which is just alienating.
This shit is fuckin awful. It comes from them only ever expecting or acknowledging 100% binary trans people who do the full medical stuff. It's pretty shit of the people you've come out to not to acknowledge that gender exploration IS a big thing.
Was it productive to say this? I can't really imagine saying this in response to the OP who is mainly just expressing personal discomfort afaict. And in a work situation...
I'm probably painting a target on my back by commenting but I find the tie to secondary education really weird; is the situation different (worse?) if they don't go to college?
This is not some kind of weird troll or whatever but a sincere ask, because not every life path involves going to College and getting that Real Life Experience, so I genuinely want to understand.
I try not to be too mean and shit on people that enjoy it
Well yeah I mean, I hope to never be misanthropic enough to just hate people for enjoying it, I don't plan to be. Power to anybody who actually extracts joy from it in this fuckin hellscape, y'know.
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Can"t say I am, however
This shit is fuckin awful. It comes from them only ever expecting or acknowledging 100% binary trans people who do the full medical stuff. It's pretty shit of the people you've come out to not to acknowledge that gender exploration IS a big thing.