From what I understand Lemmy was created by people who support Russia, China, etc. But if we avoided all platforms run by people we disagree with there'd be no platforms left.
At the end of the day there are many servers, each with their own vibe and values. You can just pick one that doesn't ick you out. (Not YOU you, whoever is wary of Lemmy)
And what's super fun is when you take the time to disassemble their bullshit and they hit you with, "Wow, imagine caring this much." "Yeahhhh, I'm not reading all that." 🙄
Basically, "I just want to spue shit uninterrupted, not engage in actual debate."