You're good. I wasn't meaning to put you on blast. To be honest, it's still surprising to me how much activity on Lemmy isn't bot accounts, but people just trying to share content they found and enjoyed or at least thought was relevant. I became jaded from Reddit where there seemed to be automated posting that just blanketed 15-20 subreddits based on tags or some classification.
My guess is that's the name of the clip, and sharing it either auto generated the title, or op copy and pastes the title.
Sorry to reply on an older post, but if anyone else is curious, this is Emma Leigh from the video "Teaching the Temp"
Deserved as in your deservedly feel hurt or angry about the things in the past. As in, shitty things happened to you, so you (rightfully) feel the way you do. You deserve to feel that way in the sense you rightfully feel that way. It doesn't mean you deserved to have those things happen to you. Different usages of the word.