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Women of lemmy - are your breasts an erogenous zone?
  • Husband likes to do rough play with my boobs and that is amazing. So yes erogenous, but a place where I find pain to be pleasurable. I generally won't get off from it but depending on the whole scenario can get close.

    Like most smaller boob havers, it also feels really good when guys bounce them, holding onto the whole boob.

    So yes but not so much with gentle touch, and don't enjoy guys sucking on them, too much like nursing, more than a little of that is a turnoff.

  • Suggest: Any non-creepy pornhwa that does not change its tone midway?
  • I think you might like a book I just read, if you like fantasy. I don't want to spoiler it, and it wasn't perfect or anything but enjoyable and the balance of power is good, though the sex part plays with it. Lots of violence, not realistic or gritty though. The Warlord by Gena Showalter.

  • Ladies of lemmy: is one of your boobs bigger than the other? If so, does it bother you? Has anyone ever remarked on it?
  • Of course they aren't exactly the same, I think only the implants can do that. And no, nobody has mentioned it, but I'm so obviously small busted I likely automatically avoid boob guys, so maybe my available set of partners just wouldn't care?

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    Anyone else fascinated with hotwife content? Who are some of your favorite hotwives?
  • Husband absolutely loves this stuff both in porn and real life. I like the idea of being shared, but not in charge, don't like cuckold/belittling hotwife stuff at all, and don't identify with that wanting to be in control. But it's nice to feel at ease that he's never going to be upset if I run hotter than him, that no matter what I want he won't suddenly start feeling insecure about it. My ex was a once a week guy and thought it a personal failing on my part that I was frustrated with that, he did not find it sexy, but off-putting.

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    Natasha
  • I like to see this because it's the best body I could have had at any age, no Photoshop to pull in the waist, no big implants, just natural skinny & fit.

    That day has passed, with all the kids I'll never again have the abs, and finally got hips at 50 but it's still so gratifying to see that there are people who find this attractive and maybe even ideal.

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    (OC)(MFF) do you enjoy 3some content?
  • I do find it hotter to watch, but mostly just have enjoyed it on occasion, such an indulgence. Even just with 2 straight guys so many things to do and feel! The ffm probably good if the ladies are into each other but alas, it's men for me.

    And yeah if there was a way to follow people on here, I would, you post great stuff. I don't onlyfans but hope you are doing well on there and I'm sure if your wife joins you it will pay off.

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    What's something that turns you on, but isn't necessarily sexual itself?
  • Yay! I remember some guy on Reddit saying he would not date anyone with straight hair, he just was not into it. Only wavy, curly, or kinky hair did he find attractive. I can see the beauty in smooth flowing hair personally, but would not want it for myself, curly is livelier.

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    Folks with a vagina, how does vaginal penetration compare to anal penetration?
  • Not primarily, I can (since the last baby rearranged things) get off from PIV in doggy or any position really. But that tight missionary, wow it's just intense, especially if the guy is angled upward.

    If you are trying to figure out whether you are missing out not having a pussy, I don't know - I do think female sexual response is stronger but not sure it's the equipment (one of my kids is trans and the doctor says if they take testosterone enough to look more male, it will inhibit the sexual response they have with female chemistry, even though as far as I know it's the wee bit of testosterone in that chemistry that is making it possible for women to get off so hard) and honestly the feeling you want being sandwiched, that likely will be intense as heck.

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    What's something that turns you on, but isn't necessarily sexual itself?
  • I mean, your wife could do someone male to provide that contrast, even more contrast, right? It wouldn't require her to be bi. I do also find contrast beautiful, like black hair and pale skin is so pretty and yes two different looking bodies entwined. I don't like when guys are huge and women tiny, or vice versa, though. Have always dated guys around my height.

    I agree with both quiet non arrogant confidence, and competence, those are hot.

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    Folks with a vagina, how does vaginal penetration compare to anal penetration?
  • Best vaginal penetration 10/10 - face to face angled so there is some stimulation of vulva too, that is the most physically pleasurable way to get off.

    Best anal is just not hurting, maybe 5, not bad not great, it's only good if the guy likes it, and isn't too big - I had a partner hung long but not thick, it felt pretty good with him but:

    Both? One guy in ass and one in vagina? So good. It does add to the pleasure in that situation, certainly. Like 11/10. But the one in the ass kind of still not the more active.

    ETA: I also really like when guys prefer vaginal, like you do. Even if they like both, even if they are bi, if they get off easiest in the pussy and prefer it that is the hottest feeling.

  • Explosive police report reveals how Moms for Liberty co-founder arranged bisexual threesomes
  • MFM is two straight guys, one lady. That is fun. I am straight so yes, that means I have done straight threesomes. Have also done some with bi guys, but it's not a lot different from the perspective of the lady, maybe slightly more relaxed.

    FMF I don't understand - I agree that is probably no fun unless the ladies are bi. But it's entirely possible to have a good time with two straight guys.

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    How do I (29M) tell my wife (30F) that I want a cuckold relationship?
  • I think you can say honestly you find it hot when other guys check her out, or that sometimes you'd think about her with someone as your 'porn' without pushing her to do anything. You cannot push her into being someone else just because you'd find it sexy, but it's not wrong for you to find it sexy.

    If she is so wiped out from having the baby she doesn't even have time for sex with YOU, she probably doesn't have the drive for more than one guy! Is it possible you just miss her more active sexuality? It will come back, stay connected and physically touching, do things together.

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    What's the latest kink or fetish you've picked up?
  • OMG I am glad to hear this. I got to play this way with my lover of a few years back and it's so hot but I always kind of thought he just did it because I liked it - for me someone saying no would be such a turnoff, but for me saying "please yes" is hot but "please no" is sometimes even hotter!

    It is good to hear that someone can enjoy the other side of it.

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    Do you still my boobs after I pierced them
  • Small boobs != underage, and most places you can't get body piercings until you are of age. God I hate when guys think small boobs are underdeveloped. They aren't, they are small. They work the same as the big ones, same equipment in there, less fat.

    Now do some posts play up the pretend underage thing? Yes and yep that's gross. This one isn't, though I do agree low effort post.

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