What were they thinking doing this experiment in the heat of the third-party app protest?? Are they trying to aim for their foot?

Oooo okay that's a very interesting connection. To be fair though, I do have my gripes about how people treat the word "mental illness", in that a lot of people treat it like it's some gross word to avoid, that there's a stigma that nono you shouldn't identify with that. (Personally I don't think the word "mentally ill" should have as bad of a connotation as it does right now, but that's just my opinion and I don't expect others to think the same.)

So I can see where you're coming from with that. Even if you look at the initial, historical definition, it doesn't negate the fact that the word neurodivergent is mainly used today as a way to say "different, but with a good connotation instead of a bad one", and with a definition (vaguely) like that it can start to border on some toxic positivity. And I'm not sure if you've experienced something like this but I do find that I tend to think that people who put me on a pedestal or think of me as special or something don't actually want who I actually am and all of them just think that I'm an exception to the actually negative stuff they hate. I'm not sure if I'm making any sense, uh tell me if this is confusing or not.

I don't have ADHD, nor autism, just... suspected some flavor of neurodivergence. I don't feel confident in putting it into a specific thing until I get tested. But I do identify with being neurodivergent because there's nothing else to call me really when I don't know what I have yet. I don't really identify with the neurodiversity movement though, but I appreciate their existence. Just wanna put that out there so you know my biases.

I also realized you're here to relate, not debate, so just a quick apology for fueling more debates. I don't want to speak over your experiences, so I'll ask instead, but do you mind if I give my own opinion about what "neurodivergent" means in relation to "mentally ill"?

Lazy reply cause I'm tired, but could it be that your frustration lies on the neurodiversity movement instead of the term neurodivergent? A lot of your frustrations align with others' criticisms of the neurodiversity movement, and I'm wondering if - because most people will conflate one with the other - you simply don't consider yourself part of the neurodiversity movement instead?

I'm asking this because a lot of people here are saying they're two different things, but if you go on like reddit they will talk about it like they're the same thing. I want to make it clear that, they're not, but if they're being talked about like they are in widespread culture then I can understand your frustration with a term that is associated with something you don't feel a part of, even if that's not actually what it means