This is why Lemmy won't grow, a lot of instances are forcing their users to create another account on other instances, this was my third account due to the blocking of some instances like this...

Same lol

Yes, this seems to be super common here in Lemmy...

I'm using Jerboa and have been testing Thunder since yesterday, not bad, but still a bit limited, we need to be patient and give the developers some time, there are already like 10 apps and a couple of forks of third party Reddit apps in active development.

Check Thunder: https://github.com/hjiangsu/thunder

And Beyond: https://lemmy.world/post/355285