Pretty sure most people do know they're getting fucked by both sides, but voting is literally the only feasible way to make shit better instead of worse.
But it wasn't a kiss, it was assault because she did not consent.
A more accurate comparison would be if I punched someone in the street and claimed I was just sparring with them. It wasn't a sparring, it was assault.
Me taking amphetamines with my morning coffee: uh yea, totally.