Abracadaniel [he/him] @ Abracadaniel @hexbear.net

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a (white) friend of mine, probably the least sinophobic person I know (maybe even sinophilic), dropped a slur ::: spoiler CW: slur china + man ::: out of sheer airheadedness and ignorance, in new company. it was in reference to their chinese ex. they were with their partner traveling to visit/meet that partner's old roommate and her (black) girlfriend. they realized in the moment that it was not an appropriate term to use and apologized profusely (bumbled that too but I'll skip the details). Afterward there was a lot of talk about the incident by the other 3 involed. Now my friend's partner (obv quite embarassed) will not be having my friend around any of her friends for the forseeable future because they "can't be trusted to keep a safe space for black people"

this friend already has deeply seated issues with shame and white guilt and this incident obviously severely exacerbated that. It's fallen to me to help them through this. While I understand their perspective and believe this was just a stupid brain fuckup, there's some complaining from them about having received zero grace and about unrealistic standards of language "policing" that I think need to be deconstructed a bit.

This person is very much an ally but deeply chaotic/anarchic (Think Jacques Gonsoulin). Hopefully this can be a wakeup call that what they say does actually matter and they can learn to be a bit more careful from now on.

what can I say but yikes? like godamm, what a mess.

They're both good!

yes

neglection

where'd you get that UESP guide to morrowind? that's sick

got Morrowond running on my phone with the audiobooks mod 😎

better how? I always use epubs. am I missing out?

what kinda spray we talking here?

Cool cool, cool.

Smh he's throwing away his chance with Maye here.

Bicycle beer runs make life worth living imo

I feel like I'm getting ripped off every time I visit a vet.

Wow Ethan, great job, keep it up, proud of you.

Neat, right? This video has almost convinced me to get one for my next car.

The ICE in a Volt only directly powers the wheels under very specific circumstances. I believe it's when the car is using the ICE to hold the battery level and is traveling at high speeds.

It really is best thought understood as an ER EV. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DMZ163EYmCY