Whoever wrote my daughter's health class text apparently lives in the 1950s.
Whoever wrote my daughter's health class text apparently lives in the 1950s.
Maybe they can go to the malt shop later? And then the sock hop?
What even is a teen center ?
It's kind of like a library but not that many books, more condoms and snacks, often a projector and screen for movie Nights, and access to Community Resources like food banks and clothing places and counseling for gay people and stuff
Its different from a teen left-justify
Gah I really didn't expect to get CSS-triggered on this thread
In the 90s, original teen center in my neighborhood was the YMCA or rec center. The adults complained and restricted a lot of the access to "teens with parents". Malls were kinda popular. But so was the nearest game store or comic store.
In the 2000s-2010s, it was coffee shops. But you had to pay to be inside.
The new "teen center" in my neighborhood was the library. Quality place.
My small town (<3000) had one in the 90s, we had a dance floor with music Friday and Saturday nights, a projector for movies and a concession stand, and a mini golf course downstairs. In my later teens I helped convert an unused part of the second story into a haunted house/maze for Halloween.
The building was originally a warehouse built back when the town had industry around the turn of the 20th century. It was brick built so still in great shape even today and it’s been abandoned again for 20 years now
My public library has one and has a bunch of teen books, manga, video games, board games, they just got some arcade machines, and they got some 3d printers. They got events going on from time to time for the kids as well.
I'm not sure, but I suspect it's where they have malt shakes and ice cream socials, and dance the jitterbug to the Big Bopper.
There's a teen center 2 minutes from my house. Is it not normal to have a teen center?
They don't really exist anymore. 3rd places have more or less been killed off.
You must now own a car and pay money to exist somewhere, at all times.
And very soon it will be a felony to be homeless!
We have 8 animals and alcoholic relative living with us.
We went to the local library, I had ear buds and my laptop as was content to do my thing (cyber security stuff, all legal) and my wife was busy talking to the person running the 3D printer because she can't seem to dial hers in settings wise.
The quiet, the lack of stress, the ability to just focus on something without dealing with an issue for a while....
It was fine until the relative... well, thats another story. They all end like that lately.
TV makes it seem normal, but I've never seen one IRL. But then, I've also never seen a school that is entirely inside a single building or has multiple floors, either. And I'm sure those exist somewhere.
Funny, it feels like half of schools in Denmark are in multi-floor buildings, especially city schools.
The closest thing I've ever seen to a teen center was a sports facility that had a room for kids and teens to hang out, but that was closer to a babysitting service. Paired with the facts that you had to pay monthly membership dues ($25 to $100/mo these days, apparently) and the whole facility was meant for something else entirely, it's not something I would first describe as a teen center. Not any more than I'd call a high school a chemical R&D facility just because of its chemistry classroom.
Outside of that one room, I'm not aware of anything else nearby me that would be even remotely similar.
I know of at least two in the city that I regular pass by. I had no idea this was even a thing around the rest of the world. Never heard of anyone talking about them on the internet until today.
"After that, let's met up at the malt shop, listen to some doo-wop songs on the jukebox, and go see a movie at the drive-in."
Dude, I fucking hate people. Drive-ins ftw, I don't need to hear about how Rebecca on the 7th floor is such a bitch for sucking Andrew in the break room when she knew that Elix (spelled with a silent k) wanted him first, and the group of four are all on Instagram and Facebook starting drama, on their phones, in light mode, with no end in sight as the movie is about to start.
When me and my best friend still went to the movies, we'd always have this kind of shit happen, and we had a routine where one of us would loudly start talking about how we didn't think dinner was settling right and we might shit ourselves, or retelling how a couple rows down (where the annoying people are at) is about where my ex blew me and the mess was still there last time we checked, or we'd just start letting out some (not so) silent-but-deadly farts. Whatever it took to make sure the movie was enjoyable, we'd go pretty far with things, but it worked 100% of the time, the group would always move away.
Not having to do that, having the a/c exactly as we want it, the volume at the level we want it, would be so much better. Really, less interaction with people in general would be a wonderful thing...
And yet when I give the same suggestion to my friends they all call me a perv
Is it because you're in your 40s?
No no, don't you remember? The snooty rich jock's father shut down the teen center after the outcast new kid failed to beat him in a 1-on-1 street hockey game.
There's still a teen center where I live and kids do in fact hang out there.
went to teen center in the 80's. Its not that old. I bet they are more prevalent in cities.
40 years
yeah its been awhile since I was a teen. Another bloke said one existed for him 2010 though so we are down to a decade or so depending on location.
Maybe. In the late 00s-early 10s we had places like that in the suburbs I grew up in, but there was no appeal to them. Mind you my friends were stoners. We were all more of the discussing life and ideas in a public park sort. What I really wanted was a park that didn’t kick you out at night. We still went, but if you’re already hiding from the cops why not bring a beer.
My home town had one, last I was there. So for sure 2010.
A small city close to me has one, it looks like it's relatively successful too. They have an active Instagram and are open after school pretty much every day.
wow. im not sure if the one when I was young was open every day. it might have been but I think we only went on weekends by and large. they had a pool table (other things but this was the draw for me and my friends).
Sorry to burst your bubble but Teen Centers are a thing since always. My high school had one until someone burned it down in 2015.
Keep going on about how these evil grownups just don't understand you though, commenters. CRAWLING IN MY SKIIIIN
They CAN be, depending on the area. My local neighborhood doesn't have one, and there isn't anything like that within the area of the city I'm in. "Third places" where you can just hang out with no expectations on you to purchase things or otherwise interact with that place's services are rapidly disappearing in the US.
The economy demands that we consume and spend money.
With children going back to work, watch as playgrounds start to disappear. Those children have money and can spend it to further the all consuming economy.
None for me, I am going to the box social later today.
Golly gee, do you think Susie would go with me to the taffy pull next Saturday? She is my best girl and all.
To be fair, most high schook text books are clones of previous edition, they just update pieces to be relevant with the current era.
I graduated in 2013 and we had a teen center, it's still a thing. I assume as long as theirs teens there will be adults wanting to get them off the streets
That sounds real nifty. I do so enjoy a good sock hop. I just hope they don't play any of that devilish rock music.
When I was in middle school around 1990, my family lived in military base housing, and there was a "teen center". It had a TV, stereo system, some arcade games¹, and a snack bar. It hosted dances on weekends; with one night designated for the middle-school crowd and one for the high-school crowd.
¹ "Red wizard shot the food!"
Let's go have some soda pop at The Malt Shop!
Is this suggesting alternatives to doing drugs?
Drinking alcohol. After saying "'just say no' may not be enough" or something like that.
All of the suggestions are things kids could just bring alcohol to anyway lol
Ah they failed to include the best trick “nah I’ll drive” it doesn’t keep your friends sober but it does keep them alive.
Were where teen centers in the 50s and were they called that? I feel like that's a 70s and later thing.
Ignorant man doesn't understand the world. No. It must be the world that is ignorant and from the 1950s.
It's a health textbook, of course it's stuck in the 1950's
Have you heard? They got one of those “computer” things there now. I don't think they are going to catch on, so we should check it out as long as it's there.
Converting drunkards into geeks. Nice
My son and his friends used to hang out at the teen center when they were in JR high. Mid 2000s.
We have a teen center where I live currently.
Same, although they call it a Youth Center. Publicly funded spot where I guess things happen although I've only ever been there to unvote.
For about half my life now I’ve been fully convinced that the adults who try to influence teens the most don’t understand them at all. Like, I assume they’ve moved to different things since 2010, but I wouldn’t really know, the only teenagers I know are my girlfriend’s kids and they’re weird but not in a “it’ll happen to you” way.
The adults who told us how to interact with teenagers never understood teenagers.
