Lpt: DO NOT ASK A PERSON IF THEY HAVE FOUND A JOB YET
If they have and you're important enough to them, you'll know when they tell you. If they haven't told you, either it's none of your GODDAMN BUSINESS or they're still looking.
You asking just reminds them they don't have a job. And if they've been looking for awhile, it's even worse. Especially if you actually said "yet" or added in some other "it's been awhile" modifier.
Nah, sorry. If you've got a lazy teenager (or even adult) living rent free in your basement, you have every right to pressure them about finding a job.
This is one of the toughest job markets I've ever experienced for specialized labor. I was part of the tech industry layoffs last year and I busted my ass for months before I got an offer. Many people I know are going through the same thing. It was honestly more draining than my actual job and I'd occasionally reach a burnout point where I couldn't even look at listings without being consumed by anxiety and dread.
On top of that, I was still paying ludicrous rent prices because the housing market is also shite and by the end of my unemployed period my net worth had been cut by almost 50%. I'm fortunate enough to have had an emergency fund but having the option to live rent free in my parent's basement sure would have been nice.
Obviously, every situation is different. But I'd advise anyone to be aware of the situation and ask how they can support somebody going through that rather than assuming they're just being lazy and regularly pestering them.
i dunno, that culture of everything (even your care for your son) being transactional and people kicking their kids out of the house at 18 for being "leeches" doesnt seem like it helps a lot. feels like extreme alienation.
it doesnt help that working and paying rent is significantly more difficult than it used to be for the previous generations. despite advancing technology we now have to slave away much worse to afford living.
all that said, i guess the problem its on the tone of it or how culture is in that regard, not so much about just the act of asking. i think capitalists have succesfully associated the grind with some sort of virtue.
If you’ve got a lazy teenager (or even adult) living rent free in your basement
I mean, pressure has its place. But when it becomes a particularly sore subject, especially in a tight job market, you're just poking an open wound.
If you want to help someone get on their feet, maybe try... actually helping. "Hey, I found someone looking to hire an entry level thing-you-do and here's the contact information" / "I saw a help-wanted sign over at the place that has jobs you're looking to fill" / "I asked my friend if they have any openings at Company and it sounds like they might be willing to give you a referral" is vastly more helpful than "Have you tried looking online yet?"
Thanks for your input, I will continue to ask them.
It's a meme. It's not supposed to be 100% accurate
Or, it's supposed to be a depiction of an event, not a lesson of how people SHOULD behave.
The crystal generation! Now it looks bad to show interest in someone's well being because it makes them uncomfortable for a few seconds. Also, only fucking God knows why it makes them uncomfortable!
Did you grow empathy or a soul yet?
Given:
- the current status of the housing market
- the job crisis that will come as a side effect of the AI revolution
- the climate change fuckfest that is coming in the next 20 years
I feel like this generation of young people might face something even worse than the great depression
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Not sure if this is the right place to start this conversation, but I find glassdoor much more pleasing and respectful than linkedin. If you're struggling to get a job maybe give it a shot, it's incredibly though out there right now, best of luck to all of you!!
Glassdoor has its kinks, but LinkedIn is just six MLMs in a trench coat.
All of MLM energy but for people with slightly better -- but only slightly -- bullshit detectors.
linkedin is Facebook for "professionals"
I'm back at the job I walked out on five months ago, started again today
Someone kill me please god end this it isn't worth it nothing is worth this
I'm sure you had your reasons.
Employers prefer it if you are already taken.
Maybe stop being such a loser? Took me 10 months to learn to code while waiting tables to pay my rent and bills. Senior software engineer 4 years later. Just turn the suck down, work hard and smart.
Hey maybe go fuck yourself
For americans: governmentjobs.com
Boomers are retiring and dying like flies.
usajobs.gov is the official posting site for federal government jobs. The link above is to some kind of commercial site trying to charge for what is freely available.
The link I posted is the site used by many state and local governments for job postings. It acts as a hub for hundreds of agencies in the country. Essentially everything non federal that has not seen quality applicants for generations.
I applied to like 80 jobs on usajobs.gov. didn't get a single call back.....for about 6 months. I had a job by that point.
I got a call back from almost every single job I applied for wanting an interview. Not joking. I got about 10 calls a week for around 2 months or so.....like fucking hell guys, you could a called half a fucking year ago. Nobody can wait that long to be unemployed.
I got a entry-level job in local government and was quickly promoted then poached by another city.
I more than doubled my initial pay in 13 months and on top of that government jobs have bonkers benefits. I get medical, dental, and vision 100% covered, get 6 weeks off a year between vacation and comp time (plus another 3 weeks of sick leave), a ton of paid holidays, and the city double-matches my retirement, so I put in 7% and get 21%.
Government jobs are where it's at if you want stability and good benefits. The pay can be on the low side, but after the cost of insurance and proper retirement planning, the private sector isn't always a lot better.
And knowing that I'm helping to make the town better instead of filling some rich asshole's pockets is a lot more satisfying.
Been applying for five months to any job I qualify for here, can they retire and die faster?
Impressive amount of anger in these comments
People are Angry!!!! 😡😷 People are stressed🤒 People are mad 😤 People have had enough🤢 ...
Obligatory: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WINDtlPXmmE
help
My older brother went through this recently after losing his job and not finding one again for another several months. Thankfully, he got hired on at a new place right before Christmas! I'm so very happy for him!
I'm lucky enough that my current field is very small and it's generally pretty easy to get a callback from an employer. But I remember when I wasn't in this field and had to spend hours a day filling out a zillion applications hoping maybe 1 in 100 would give you a call back.
There has got to be a better system. Especially because every single online job application website makes you both upload a copy of your resume and then manually re type out the whole thing again. It makes these things take infinitely longer than they should. Why????
Who looks for jobs on Linked In.
Linked In is Facebook for people who want to return to full time office working.
Got my previous job because I was easy to find on LinkedIn. Got my current job on a different continent by contacting people through LinkedIn. Yes there is a lot of of bullshit but it can be pretty useful too.
Might just be my industry (Accounting/Finance), but LinkedIn has also been great for me.
The first job out of college is always the hardest. I spent months sending out hundreds of resumes for a dozen interviews. But each job since then, I've only had to send out two or three before I had an offer.
Oddly, I'm back working for the same company I started at. I could be making more by job-hopping, but I realized that once I'm making enough money, I would rather take a pay cut then have the increased stress, poor benefits, and longer hours.
What job site do you think is the holy grail
Not OP, but I use Google Jobs where they aggregate jobs from every job website. I have around 40 job keyword alerts and get the daily new jobs in a 50 km radius. The only bad thing about this are the duplicates from similar keywords, so I wrote a python script that creates an Excel file with unique jobs from the mails and the most important job information.
LinkedIn should be looking for jobs for you.
If you set up your profile correctly, LinkedIn will function as your agent and bring YOU job leads.
At least that's how I used it.
