Are hugs that bad?
Are hugs that bad?
In Islam, some will say absolutely NO physical contact between the opposite genders, others will differ.
There’s obviously a-lot of nuance to this. But in all honesty….from my own experience, the whole “No physical touch rule” or just depending on where you are, getting eyes JUST for being next to the opposite gender is so hurtful.
There are people that will even say someone can’t even have genuine conversations or comforting conversations with the opposite gender.
So many people, on the internet just see’s this, especially Muslims, and actually thinks it’s good.
It’s hard to learn about Islam in a fun way, and let’s be real.
What child is actually paying attention to their Huzur, speak in one of the most boring ways, sit and more, for a long time, when they just want to go home and do their thing.
It’s honestly one of the reasons why me, and I promise SO MANY others have a better time learning about religions like Christianity.
Male or Female, those creators actually make it genuinely interesting to listen to, and isn’t CONSTANTLY getting whiplash for even adding even a hint of sarcasm or giving questions about their bible and events, and characters.
Their comment section isn’t constantly about gender or this and that.
It really hurts, especially as someone with many non-maharams cousins to friends that I could not imagine losing.
And seriously, with all that emphasis on Zina people do, they make it sound like no one has self-control.
That in NO situations a woman can’t defend herself.
Like sure, probably might not have a weapon or is that physically strong.
But like, if they have a gun, knife, pepper-spray, or whatever, or is just muscular and a brain, and because this is the 21st century, it’s going to be a different situation then what it might have been in the 7th century.
Even more, people act like men literally can’t control themselves, saying women need to cover up. But I honestly beg to differ, people in the West specifically?
I’ve went to beaches with half-naked women, and unless I’m looking real closely, everyone is just minding their business, used to this.
Can you guys and gals give your own worries or opinions?