I've never had sex without a condom so i am biased because I've always wondered what finishing inside without a condom feels like.
And on top of that, i have also a threesome/moresome fantasy about finishing inside of one person and then watch as they sit on another womans tongue as it leaks out.
Sadly my loads aren't very large so i also feel this fantasy would be disappointing to me in that regard, but I'm willing to suffer that disappointment lol
Not sure if that answers your question, but hope it wasn't a waste of your time
As a receiver, I enjoy both in me and on me, it really depends on how I'm feeling that day. I only allow in me with guys I'm in a long term, committed relationship with.
Personally, as a sender I enjoy much to cum in my partner. Never understood the glory of a money shot in porn. On the other hand filling your partners ass and then plugging them, that's something I love.
As a giver, my preference is mouth or face, followed by in, followed by titties or ass. I like cum play so seeing a partner playing with or swallowing it after is really hot, and if I get a messy cummy smile its even better
In. In porn and life, I find the outside to be a complete turn off. It not only feels better to finish inside, it's so much better to feel the other twitching inside.
As a sender, I prefer cum in my partner. There’s something that happens in my brain - maybe it’s carnal? I just get this primitive satisfaction. Or maybe I just have a breeding kink.
I think it’s strange that it’s called a breeding kink, or a creampie kink. Like, that’s just how sex is supposed to work? It’s everybody else who are weird.
I agree with that. It's the opposite of a kink. Not that everything else isn't sex, it is. But the plainest sex of all, the farthest from kinky, is PIV to finish inside.
I'm a bi guy, and I have the same preferences when I'm sender or receiver.
Penetration: inside, because there's no change of pace. I always use condoms, I don't care about creampie
Blowjob: outside, because you never know. An unexpectedly huge/powerful load, an unexpected taste, hitting the back of the throat.. The risk of retch (me or my partner) is a deal breaker for me
BJ, I just want warning. My ex was the first one I'd done that with and his cum so voluminous and foul, I thought all guys tasted like that and would gag when I saw or read about swallowing.
But spitting it out and washing out my mouth worked fine. Nobody since him has had such a foul taste or such a huge load; he was a once a week guy (so didn't get many blow jobs since I didn't want to miss my only chance) and also unholy fertile - I got pregnant literally every time we didn't use something, and he got his allegedly infertile, (40 years old and had never used birth control, never gotten pregnant and had some condition her doctor said made her infertile) girlfriend pregnant too. So I wonder if literal sperm are disgusting in flavor?
Even though I don't want my partners to end up in my mouth, I sometimes taste a little by accident and I don't mind: usually, it's rather bland and a little salty.
But once, a guy had a really unpleasant taste, a kind of bitterness. Yucky.
Maybe it was a matter of diet or maybe he was a smoker, I don't know.
As a sender, I'm good with inside. I've been vasectomized so I've been creampieing for years with no unwanted additions. Second would be her swallowing, I haven't done outside shots in so long but I wouldn't say no to doing it.
Ignoring your partner's preference is just awful. She may have reasons she doesn't want you cumming inside her, especially the risk of pregnancy or needing plan B.