Rather than erase the memory and teachings of negativity, wouldn't it be more beneficial for them to show how and why that thinking isn't necessarily productive? Help us realize that while there are forces and consequences out of our control, we can accept that it's part of our lives and take it in stride. Establish a dialogue and guidelines that can be passed along by others. Allow us to seek out a path for ourselves... [CARE BEAR STARE]
A...accept? Might as well ask WW2 Japan to surrender. I am personally responsible for every little thing that has ever happened to me, no matter how tangentially related it is to my life!