What are your core values?

• authenticity -> real and genuine
• autonomy -> seperate individual (not enmeshed)
• curiosity -> growth mindset and learning constantly
• growth -> improving functioning and increased awareness of change and adapting to new circumstances
• peace -> absence of conflict and abnegation of other people's drama/entitlements
• pleasure -> enjoying or benefitting from the actions I take and consequences of those I maintain relationships with
• respect -> genuine care for recognizing and upholding other's needs where it is safe and not incompatible with your own
• reciprocity -> balanced approach to give/take and being mutually-attentive to signs of imbalance
• safety -> avoiding things, people, places, situations that hurt you or cause you to be unable to enforce the protections you need to accomodate yourself in the context
• stabillity -> expectation of consistency and balance and sustainabillity in one's relationship with anything/anyone.

These are sort of a rough outline of mine, how about yours Lemmings? Mine aren't exhaustive but these are the core simplest profile I could break down. Feel free to steal anything and add to your collection ;)