My nearest family aren’t very chuddy and I’m the one that gets the most heated out of em so they’re cowed it isn’t really an issue at mine. Interesting to see all these examples.
Only one who can be a bit off is nan who has Alzheimer’s but somewhat strange beliefs. She loves the Somali, Kurdish and Iranian immigrants she interacts with but hisses about Finns.
I’d rather someone be open they have a preference for people based on their experiences than hide it and apply social pressure with money. 🤷♂️
If I was a fin I’d bet I’d love that she hates me 😂